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  1. i would NOT recommend waiting for her to make the first move. not only might it take a loooonngg time for her to make it,but it most likely will not happen.since you dont know her it makes it even easier,and knowing she likes you,there should be no problem for you going up to her and talking to her. next time you see her go up to her and start up a conversation.i suggest getting her phone number by the end of the first conversation. GL
  2. if hes as good as you make him out to be he shoudl respect youre wishes and wait until you are ready to have sex.
  3. alright good for you brotha.well you alredy met her so it should be very easy just to go up to her n talk. since she is in youre class the phone number shouldnt be much of a problem,I always go for the number right at the first convo,but just talke to her and get to know her better.and of course build it up to ask her out on a dat.4Sho GL
  4. 4sho.go after him if u really want him.im doin the same with this girl i know.GL
  5. ask her out. it REALLY sux when you look back on it as a lost opurtunity.even if she sais no at least you tried. i am still somewhat depressed about missing a chance like that. the question "what if?" will always be on youre mind(well ..not always,but for some time)
  6. in the state of mind that you are in now.....shell never go out with you. CONFIDANCE brotha!!! girls LOVE guys with confidence. you need to think to youreself "she likes me.she not going to reject me" if youre afraid she'll say no., then she most likely will. chek these sites out that will help YOU gain the CONFIDENCE YOU NEED: link removed and link removed good luck
  7. why do people not like being in the "friend" zone with a girl. I think its an awesome way to learn more about women. also it opens new doors,such as meeting theyre girlfriends that you can possibly hook up with...... so why is this a bad thing?
  8. if he hasnt gone into convulsions yet, he needs to call poison control n drink lots of water. otherwise hes dead
  9. its not that hard. looks at the situation.find somethin to start a convo about. really wuite simple. all you need to do is get the balls to go up to her. by the way,dont let youre friends make the move,be like "see that girl,imma go talk to her" then jus do it. friends wil respect you for it,plus, you get to talk to a hot girl.
  10. hmm.....a GREATway to build self confidence is to exercise regularly,helped me lots,and i would recommend taking a martial arts class.weathrer it be karate,tae kwon do,or any other one..it REALLY gives you confidence in yourself to do just about anything you want.
  11. tell em youre sorry for any rude remarks/comments u made towards them and see where it goes.
  12. take her to a nice but not too Xpensive one like say.....dwnnys or fridays...conversations are easy once they get goin...talk about thing that have happened...ask questions about her and take it from there..not hard to do at all.....
  13. hmm.....perhaps you might be overtraining youre link removed you probably know overtraining actually causes you to loose muscle mass instead of gaining.chek out some of these sites: link removed or link removed
  14. hmm.....that guy some what reminds me of..well...me.it happened to me over the summer.just about the same situation as yours. i never called the girl...now i am angry with myself...why did i not call...i have no idea..wait....casue im a freakin idiot!! im not goin to let that happen again.
  15. As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. 11th grade The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and threee bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. Senior year The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said: he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together as "best friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her "sparkling eyes". I want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said, "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just to shy, and I don't know why. Graduation Day A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't noticed me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just to shy, and I don't know why. A few years later Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drove off her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said, "you came!" She said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just to shy, and I don't know why. Funeral Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I..I wish I did too….I thought to myself, and I cried………
  16. once again.....ask her out on a date. dont fear rejection....otherwise you might end up regretting it later. read this: As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called “best friend”. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why. 11th grade The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn’t want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and threee bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why. Senior year The day before prom she walked to my locker. “My date is sick” she said: he’s not going to go well, I didn’t have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together as “best friends”. So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her “sparkling eyes”. I want her to be mine, but she doesn’t think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said, “I had the best time, thanks!” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just to shy, and I don’t know why. Graduation Day A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t noticed me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, “you’re my best friend, thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just to shy, and I don’t know why. A few years later Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say ”I do” and drove off her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said, “you came!” She said “thanks” and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just to shy, and I don’t know why. Funeral Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my “best friend”. At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn’t notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love him but I’m just too shy, and I..I wish I did too….I thought to myself, and I cried………
  17. before talking to a cute girl i psyche myself up.think of good things that have happened to you,thigs you like stuff like that. take a deep breath(exhale of course)then walk ove n talk to em.
  18. hatred?this is youre friend here.if anything you should be some what happy for him that he is ableto drive.jealousy??that is ok i suppose,but not hatred. as for youre parents,just talk to them about it. give them reasons of why they should let you drive. make good ponts with them and they will come around.
  19. page took long time to load. intersting though.
  20. the pros overwhealm the cons. plus the famaly is willig to take the risk of their daughter despising them,i think u should too.
  21. well. i have been thinking about this girl i met about 2 years ago,but saw her for the frst time in about a year and a half about a month ago when our famalies went on vacation.well we had a great conversation on the last day of the vacation.(i am a shy person and took me a while to build up confidence to talk to her)but it was a great convo,learned quite a bit about each other. well up to this point i have not been able to stop thinking about her,and when i do,any little thing reminds me of her. then when i realixe the missed oportunity i become enraged and i hate and despise myself for a while for not geting her number.i do not know when i will see her again,but also i do not know what this is that i am feeling. is it a crush? or love?or something else. input would be greatly appreciated.
  22. stop thinkin n worryin bout it. just answer the questions truthfully n u will be on you're way after the session is over. suicide is the easy way out. never,EVER take the easy way out. deal with the problems that you have head on without fear and you will prevail.
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