Silversun

I'm just fed up of girls and having to ask them out when i only get a no. and also why can't some of you girls ask us out for once?

I need general tips on how to tell a girl who's your friend that you like, what do you say? I've never asked a girl out before. I see this girl as a friend, she's really talkative, and she flirts, any helpful advice on hints? please

what about if you make hints when you text someone and they don't reply, does this mean there not interested?

So it's either nervousness or boredom? Glad That's sorted.

This is something I've always wondered why.... Do any girls have an opinion on this? I always thought it was girls flirting, I'm not sure if it's intentional or not, but who cares I think it's cool

The saying is that the eyes are the windows to the soul' I think this is so true. The eyes light up a person's face and everything will revolve around their eyes, regardless of what they are saying lol. maybe not the last bit. But I do think that girl's with beautiful eyes will be snapped up by a guy pronto. It's strange to think that all the beautiful girls are spoken for (well almost!). In my opinion the best features for women are : dark hair blue eyes, 58-5'9 and with short hair. Anyone beg to differ?

As I said before it's very difficult because she's really busy because she is a manager and although i've managed to speak to her for quite a long time, there's always been people around and this makes it very difficult for me to ask her out/ ask for her number.

I've liked this girl at work for a long time now but I've never got the chance to ask her out. Now I've got a last resort and that is to send her a card or letter and to leave it in her locker, I know this is not the best way but I don't think I'll get another chance because she leaves in 1 week. So should I write her a card or a letter to say we should hang out? Because at work it's really awkward with everyone else hanging around. Or should I just leave it and hope I get a chance to speak to her alone?which is highly unlikely.

The feeling I get is that you can gain more by being her friend-in the long term. Go with your instinct, because that's what I'm doing. The girl you like will know whether she likes you or not and if she's asked you to go to the mall then I think you're in with a good chance By asking her out you're cancelling out the trip to the mall and this will not look good IMO. Just be yourself with her and share jokes and things like that, the more of that you do you will become more than a friend to her. Good luck! and keep me updated!

Ok theres this girl that I wanted to ask out, well I've been talking to her loads quite a lot we was laughing a lot and talking more than we have been, do you reckon it's just friendliness? I asked her what she was up to tonight and she said 'going to her sister's university' I was getting on so well with her. but she mentioned something but she mentioned something I couldn't quite work it out she said 'my ex-boyfriend used to like that' or maybe it was boyfriend? either way I still felt good, she told me she does yoga classes and I couldn't believe how well I was getting on with her, I'm going to ask her on thursday. What I'd like to know is from this is can you tell the difference between ordinary friendliness and a girl wanting to get to know you more than a friend?

Just a bit shorter is really great, I'm 6ft and i like someone who is a little shorter than me 5'9 is a great height for a guy like me and they also need to have black hair and blue eyes lol By the way this is a great topic Ocean Eyes

Thanks for your help guys!

I really like this girl but I'm insecure about asking her out, Nerves always seem to get the better of me. Does anyone have any good tips to help with asking her out? (alcohol not permitted) Thanks in advance guys.

That is good to hear. I guess it will give hope to some people lol If you give someone a gift, and I guess they know you like you. Then the next time you see them they tell you they're are moving country soon, Is that a way of telling you they don't like you?