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Well, flirting as in shes rubbing her legs with mine and rubbing my hands. She touches me a** alot and she wants hugs alot. I broke up with her last June b/c it wasnt working out b/c of conficts between her parents. Now she SAYS she has a b/f but I still think shes playing the jealousy game. I dont care, I just dont wanna do anything to her if she DOES have a b/f, ya know?

well, i didnt say i dont like it...i do like when she does things. she was turning me on like mad. and shes asked if i wanna "do" her but i told her she has a b/f, and im not "doing" u if u have one. she says its ok, but i still dont wanna do anything with her if she has one. i told her like a few months ago we could be friends w/ benefits, so i guess its ok...or am i mistakenly wrong? comments welcome.

Ok, so my ex gf told me a week ago she got a new boy friend. I told her thats nice, and its good she found someone. But something that confuses me is her actions. Like, today at school during band we watched a concert choir from a college in Ohio, this state. Well, she started flirting with me. Rubbing her leg against mine and caressing my hand. I mean, I dont really wanna publicly go back out with her but this is just too confusing. Any comments?

ok well i decided not to do it Thursday bc the right time(i think) didnt spring up. we have a football game tonite and i thought maybe i could ask her tonite... any advice? anything at all would be good....need something in an hour or 2... thanks.

ok, heres my situation. i've liked someone for sometime now and i really wanna ask her out. thing is, shes better looking, more popular, shorter than me, and is a freshmen and im a sophomore. so i've liked her for awhile and i talk to her everyday in band(thats how i know her). i've been trying to talk to her more and get to know her better and everytime she gets better and better. i wanna ask her out during band practice or the homecoming game pep rally, but i dont know how to approach her. to paint a picture: im kinda short but not much, acne on my face, glasses and gelled hair. shes short, blonde, great body(heh) and perfect skin. shes pretty popular and i always see her talking to friends... now that u know what we look like, i need advice on how to ask her out. i dont wanna seem TOO desperate but i really want her... maybe a slightly funny and or romantic way, i dunno. so can you guys help me? i wanna do this on thursday...please help!

well thanks...u got one part down. but, how do i ask her out? i now know to be confident but how am i gonna be confident if i have no real way to ask her out. suggestions?

ok to bring u up to speed: i really like this freshmen in my marching band section. shes cool to talk to, really good looking, and i think shes really awesome to be with. thing is, im not good looking and shes popular and im not. what do i do? now, to get to the point. i wanna ask her out... but i dont wanna seem like a fool and shes always with her friends. can u guys help me? i wanna ask her out alone and i want her to know that i really wanna go out with her? any suggestions?

ok thanks for all your help. i decided this friday im gonna take a dive and ask her...im hoping she says yes. ok so this last part needs a little help. how do i actually go up to her and ask her? major advice needed...

well, i dont wanna just walk away from her. then she'll seem like i dont care. and i already asked her that so i wanna use something new...i want to do something or say something that pretty much says "i wanna ask u out" without actually saying it.

ok thru a few posts i've tried to get help. this is a combination of both. i really wanna ask this girl i know out. but, im kind feeling somewhat afraid of the results. i like her and i dont wanna look like a fool. shes pretty popular and shes good looking and im not that popular, not too good looking, and shes a freshmen and im a sophomore. i've been talking to her much more than normal and have tried to stay around her. tonite, while waiting at the game i gave her a little hint i like her and want to ask her out but didnt get much other than "no...no date for homecoming. i dont know if im going yet"...i asked her if she had a date for homecoming. so, if she picked up on it she has a hint i wanna ask her out but how do i go about letting her know indirectly without telling her i wanna ask her out?

well, that MIGHT work but what i want to do is to have her LIKE me b4 i ask her to hang out. now we just talk here and there, sometimes more than usuall like tonite... we talked more than we normally do. so what i'd like to do is to seem like friends...a point where i can easily tell "yeah, were friends"... any help?

ok...this is high school. it doesnt work like that. and she knows me too well to fall for that. she'd see right thru it. yeah i'll live but i think about her alot...shes always in my mind. i cant get her out, no matter what i do. she doesnt seem to have a boyfriend but im hoping she doesnt. so, with that said: any ideas on what to do? where to do it?

ok well thanks to all who've helped in my other topic. my problem now is: how do i go up and talk with her? i mean...we talk briefly here and there but i wanna really get to know her well...become her friend, some1 she can rely on and trust and like. any ideas? anything will be good....im extremely desperate to talk with her. to recap: i dont know what else to say: shes all i think about, she just pops in my head 10+ times a day, i think shes really good looking, and i know shes a good person and i just want her... but how do i go up to her and get to talk to her more than a few words at a time?

hell yes!!! lol and yes, i got ur pm...i was just wondering of these 1000+ pages of members ppl would have advice lol

ummm just a question: is this a touchy subject or what? i mean... 60+ views and NO ONE has ANYTHING to say at all? come on now... i've seen less blow offs. im just, asking for some advice, not a bomb formula.