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  1. nomore
    It's just a matter of preference. Some people prefer big penis others small. The same goes with clitoris; but as long as it is visible or detectable for simulation purposes, it's all good. However, nerveless clits are a bumer
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    It seems like everyone assumes pornography does not involve the physical part. I am talking about the sexual involvement of the two or more parties in the pornography and not the entertainment aspect of it. Anyone can set up a camera and start her/his own porn company. They are indeed providing a "service" except the third party is paying for it. Again I am not talking about "watching" porn but the actual physical involvement of the parties. Other than that, you may want to define "service" more specifically. In pornography, two or more people are providing a service to the third party, whereas in prostitution, one provides a service to someone else. To me they are indeed the same, you are just playing with the numbers. If that's the case, as I said before, here is the scenario where the prostitution can be looked at as pornography: Customer pays the third party $100, the third party sets up a camera and leaves, gigolo or a hooker engages in a sexual act with the customer. The third party pays the customer $1 and the worker $99, the media is destroyed. Wouldn't this be legal?
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    How many of you agree or disagree with this statement: Pornography and prostitution are basically the same. Here's why: Prostitution is the sale of sexual services (typically manual stimulation, oral sex, or sexual intercourse, less often anal sex) for money or other kind of return, generally indiscriminately with many persons. Now in pornography two or more parties are engage in a sexual act and "all get paid" by the third party. Even after the initial payment, the sell of the act on different media formats is continued (unless it is a peep or a live show). So why is pornography is legal? Could not street prostitutes bring a third party, have sex with the second party (customer), both get paid (the john gets very little [since he is paying] and the prostitute gets a large portion) by the third party thereforeeee the act falls under pornography class and still be legal?
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    Well I am looking for a job in the IT industry and people can be extermely brutal in such environment. When no one even gives you a phone call for an interview, it'll get to you after awhile and you start asking yourself, "am I going to make it?". It is pretty depressing situation and frankly I don't know how I am going to cope with this. It sad that most companies only look for the brightest minds and the rest are left to wonder around.
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    Ok, creating flowers with the computer program... That's sad. I say most people here, including me, need to get out more often, not necessary go to the crowded mall, but rather somewhere peaceful. I don't think sitting behind your computer and model flower garden would help a bit. And the reason I'm saying this is because I have seen a few times people spam/advertise on this forum. I don't know what the policy of the admin is on this issue but it gets rather annoying after a while. I don't say she is doing such but I have seen similar posts. Beside, "flower" programs just like console/PC games take reality out of the life which living becomes merely an expression of superficial escape.
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    So from your post, I'll take it that you are more inclined to have a monogamous with him. If so, then why don't you sit down, cut and try tell him this is how you feel about him. He obviously chose you to go on a trip with him so obviously he enjoys your companionship, at least at this point. But it is always a rule of thumb no to "date": your co-worker, classmate or someone who goes to the same school as you do, and your roommate or biz partner. Look, he has trust issues so it is highly unlikely that he wants to be in a committed relationship. But on the hand, he maybe feeling more comfortable around you and perhaps a signal from you can assure him that it is ok to trust someone else.
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    You'll tell that to me who is looking for a job in the last 4 weeks, not getting any interviews, and for sure no one wanting to hire me. Put yourself in that situation and you will get a pretty depressed person.
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    None of us is there and we are not fully aware of the situation and extend of your relationship with your partner. As far as drugs, the chances that he will relaps is high; perhaps he is just staying low for a while but if his conviction is not strong, he'll refuge to drugs. It is up to you to decide. If he is acting irrationally and won't even let you physically distance yourself from him, no one knows what he'll do in the future. I can see you are having a hard time saying no to him. Maybe because, you have a low self-esteem and need someone to validate you everyday. It is not uncommon for people to feel an urge to be loved all the time. But you need to break the ice and get out of this relationship because it is not going to take you anywhere, if not down. Be smart and get out while you can. Again, the way you described his behavior, he sounds a bit psychatic and generally speaking, I'll stay away from people like that.
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    First of all, do you want this just to prove to yourself you are competent and validating yourself or you really doing this for him and your relationship?
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    Squarepeg, I think you really need to calm down and stop this ridiculous and daffy attitude. He only danced with some girl, he did not make out, felt her, or had sex with her, did he? No, so there is no reason for you to go haywire on him for such trivial behavior. He was even honest enough to tell you about it; doesn't this mean anything to you. As of you thinking your relationship is going nowhere with him, that's up to you to decide, none of us is there to see how things are heating up.
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    I think you are just confused as of what a healthy relationship is. How can you consider someone your soulmate and companion when he cheats on you??? AND if that's not enough, he seems to be a control freak. Do you really want to live the rest of your life being told what to do and what not to do? For god sake, he snuck out of the bedroom where you guys sleep and had a quicky with some other girl. He is a world class arrsehole. This relationship was over from the time he cheated on you, period. What is the reason you are staying with him anyway? House? Your marraige is just not going to survive a year or two, trust me. He has all these doubts about you going behind his back, sooner or later, all these thoughts will get to him and he'll go on a rampage cheating behind your back to ease himself down. Pack your stuff and move on with you life. It's hard but think about all the things you can accomplish w/o him.
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    I don't know where to start. I think your entire story is based on some baseless assumptions. You don't know for the fact the other two guys are doing something behind your back. It seems like you just waiting for Alex to make his move, why don't you give the guy a break and break the ice. I mean, you are not throwing a frigging bone but expecting him to jump in the air with his mouth wide open? Maybe he is just getting uninterested in you for not showing any emotion. Remember, he is not a psychic, he works in the office with you. I assume (oh assumption, mother of all fruck ups) that you actually enjoy company of the other two guys. If their present bother you this much, why don't you talk to him to get off your back for good? What happened to the first allegeable guy anyway? Why don't you invite Alex for a friendly date? Maybe both of you are wishy-washy wimp and someone is gotta to make the first move.
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    Ya, it seems like you have never really dated anyone. I mean how did you come up with the conclusion that you actually like him and vice versa? You have absolutely no idea of who he is. He can be married and trying to have some sort of extramarital affair and it's hard for him to time himself to be online. Beside, this is just someone you met online, it doesn't mean anything. If you claim, you are not online much, then why is important he sends you e-mails/msg or not?
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    Ya, it is ok except make sure you don't scare off your future bf with it. Do not make him watch the gay porn with you if he is not into it. Some guys would freak out wondering whether their g/f want them to put on a show with another guy for them.
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    You seem to be confused about your sexuality. No one knows if this is a temp thing in your life other than yourself. But as it is said, if you really want to experiment, have a clean break up with your g/f but it is your call; you have a relationship and a friendship to loose if it doesn't workout. Do you think it will be worth it? How are you sure about your friend being gay/bi anyway?
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    You need to become financially stable first; your future depends on it. We are living in a world that every breath you take is about making that deniro. I hate to say it but in a capitalist country and rapid globalization, money talks, the rest is piss&sh|t. It also helps you to build the necessary social/people skills to be more appealing to others, specially the opposit sex. Once you stand on your own feet, you don't have to take sh|t from anyone.
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    Is this a pre-game/foreplay only type thing you are looking for or a full-blown handjob? If the guy is uncut, then you probably wouldn't be needing much of a lubrication since it's skin-against-skin. Otherwise, if he is cut, you don't want to sandpaper his pen|s, do you? Even a good old spit&polish wouldn't be enough, at least in my case. Some say that the pre-cum should make things slippery, but it gets sticky after a short while and younger folks can't produce that much pre-cum anyway. Lubrication is vital, we have come a long way, why not use the damned thing. Good lubes: astroglide, baby oil, KY with a bit of spray water just to name a few. With astroglide you can even do oral but not with KY.
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    I learned about the basic stuff in the elementary school and junior high over friends' conversation. Finally, at age 17, my mom pulled out an old book with anatomy pictures and described the whole procedure of how bees and birds make babies. It was ridiculous and the whole time the only thing that I was thinking was you got to be sh*tting me mom! You really think at this days and age kids don't know about sex? The only reason she talked to me about this was that I was going to live with my aunt away from them for 10 months. Other than that, I highly doubt they would have talked to me about it; so much for being part of the educated class.
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    It seems like she left you without any solid explaination. Did you really find out what made her to come to the conclusion that you guys shouldn't be together anymore?
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    I know young people can have strong feelings specially when it comes to their first relationship/love. But the fact is that they do not know how to handle the situation when "it" comes to end. I was too once heart broken by my first girlfriend. Although I caught her cheating on me, for some strange reason I wanted her back so bad and couldn't get my head around the fact that it was over. Bottom line, I do believe you deserve an honest explaination from him but again, do not approach him with the intention of getting him back and persistent over this matter may very well push him to want you back but this may very well overshadow his geniune feelings towards you.
  21. nomore
    Look, as you said in your post, you do not love your boyfriend anymore. You have no feeling for him and constantly your thoughts are occupied with your net friend (lover). In 3 years, people change a lot; things once you loved to do with your boyfriend no longer satisfy you. Now here comes a guy who you think you are making some connections with. But still you haven't met the guy in real life (or maybe you have). You really don't know how he feels about you genuinely. Whatever you do, if you feel it's time to move on with you life, do a clean and through break up with your boyfriend but do not let him hang in there. It is your decision, you have to sit down and figure out do you really want to stay with him any longer.
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    mscolly, maybe the problem lies with your wife. I mean, she is actually cheated on you for god sake. Second, why are you trying to find out what methods he used to lure your wife to sleep with him? Is your intention to figure out how to manipulate her to stay with you? I think you should ask these questions from your wife since I am assuming you are tyring to work things out. Have you ever thought that maybe your wife is actually the one who is manipulating "you" by blaming the incident on her Internet lover? You also not sharing the entire story, how did you find out that he is controlling her in the first place.
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    Well, don't you think it is a bit weird that on the night of breakup, you guys actually opened up to each other and had a very enjoyable conversation? And if that's not enough, you guys even made out? Maybe he does need some time to sort things out but at the same time deep down he doesn't want to loose you just in case he changes his mind and wants to get back with you. But hay, you are a grown up woman, just pull him aside once and ask him why he is still flirting with you but don't convey yourself such that you want him to stop since it seems like you too want to work things out.
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    Sometimes knowing just the person wouldn't cut it. It is usually suggested to hang with your partner in social environment such as friends gathering or taking a trip to get to know them better. In your situation, he probably didn't get a good vibe or couldn't make connection with your friends which you hold dearly important. This sort of behavior is not unusual in his/your age. Look, you are only 16, I assume he is not really much older than you are. Most of the times, people in such age range cannot make sense of their relationship. Do not be upset with his decision, although I'm fully aware that you are startled. At best, you can call him and ask for more concrete explaination of why he doesn't feel comfortable around your friends. Do not be too assertive if the goal is to get him back. At the end if his final decision is to separate, there is nothing you can do. You cannot loose your friends over him, that's something he needs to deal with.
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    Just let her know, directly and implicitly, that you are indeed offended with her lack of regard to you and your decisions. Look, if you keep this up, she assumes that it's the way you want to be treated; it is no brainer, she will ride you until every ounce of your self-esteem is squeezed out of you. If she keeps this up, perhaps she is not right for you. Do not be afraid to let go of her cuz being respectful of each other is a quintessential aspect of every relationship. With she being impudent towards you, this will only weaken the relationship and if she is not willing to work on her behavior, then I guess there is no meaning to go on with this.
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