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  1. WishMistress
    No, I don't judge, each man is different.
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    My step sister got pregnant not once but twice on the pill! Also remember if she takes antibiotics at anytime it reduces the effectiveness of the pill. So does not taking it at the same time every day and taking it every day. The pill is about 97% effective sooooo remember can be 3% ineffective too.
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    Darling, That was NOT your fault!!!!!!!!!!! Repeat this........." IT IS NOT MY FAULT!" As a survivor of sexual abuse I know how you feel. I would urge you to go to an adult that you trust or your doctor and seek help. This is not your fault and you need help so that it will never happen to you again. You are in my prayers.
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    As a surviver of child sexual abuse I can tell you that you did the right thing for your daughter and for yourself. Believing her was one of the most important things you could have done for her. I admire you as a very brave woman!!!! Please, you will grieve for a while and she will too and you will both go through some hard times together because of it, but hold each other close. Cherish each other and get some help together and sepearately. This is not something that your daughter will forget but she will learn to live and deal with and with your help she will be successful. I pray for the both of you and hold you close in my heart. If you want to contact me you may. Another strong suggestion that I have, when the time is right, forgiveness is the way, because hatred and guilt, will kill you and your spirit. Love and peace to the both of you!
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    Honey, You are better without this guy!! NOBODY needs or has to put up with that kind of crap! Take some time for yourself, treat yourself to things that you like, go out with your friends. There is a perfectly nice guy out there for you, but don't be in a hurry to seek them out, often they surprise you by showing up when and where you least expect.
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    That is easy...you tell them NO. If you are staying with your girl and you love her then the answer to them is NO.
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    Honey, If he did not feel that he owed you an explaination after 2 years it is time to let him go. I know that it hurts. I have been there and you think it hurts worse than death, but it will get better. Let him go.
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    No, having had chicken pox does not make you immune to herpes..if that was the case most of the population would be immune. They are SIMILAR virus, that is to say they belong to the same famly, not the SAME. Check the web for STD's.
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    Yes, I would have to agree she knew that other guy before she broke up with you. You don't find someone else a day after you break up with someone you love....that is just CRAZY ...break contact with her and move on.
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    Hi, I think that you should definitely not have sex with him. If he is only comfortable with " best friends" than leave it that way. I know you love him and enjoy the intimacy but it will not make him love you the way you want him to. And somewhere in the future you don't want to feel like you were used for physical comfort. Be his friend, that is all.
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    Have you tried talking to your husband about all this?? I am sure that you probably have tried, Lord knows I have too, tried to talk to mine. I get the sense that he is older than you if he has a grown child. Was he domaneering with his first wife?? I can only advise you on what I would do and that is maybe to try a seperation if he does not even see that he is being a doink.
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    I agree with the previous post... I would apply for custody of your daughter. She may be 3 but she not is not blind or stupid. It is very irresponsible of her mother to have these men moving in and out of her life especially as she is so young and just lost her dad as a fulltime in fluence. Your ex is not worth the time of day, but your daughter is worth 10 of her so I would go for it and take your child and get legal custody. Good Luck!
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    It sounds like she is using you as a crutch for if her other relationships don't work out. I would be VERY wary of the spoiled princess type of woman. A relationship has give and takes, plus there is respect and love. From the sounds of things she has very little respect for you. You deserve to be with someone that loves and appreciates you for the person that you are. Good Luck!
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    Stretch marks can be caused by periods of rapid growth not necessarily weight although they are caused by that too. If you have rapid growth spurts they stretch the skin... they are nothing to be distressed about. I have 10 from having my son 6 years ago and they are now faded to white marks. Don't worry people like you for you not because you have marks on your skin!
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    Ummm that one is really difficult... I would sit him down and have a serious heart to heart!!!!
  16. WishMistress
    You can take it now or in the morning..morning is the best but not necessary
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    Ritalin is a stimulant that corrects the chemical pathways in the brain. My son has very severe ADHD and he took ritalin, but takes Concerta. Yes, it is a stimulant but to correct the chemical messages that are put out by the brain. Some of the side affects in children are: crying, appetite suppression, and sleep disturbances. I don't know about adult side affects. However these kinds of medications alter the brain for life when given to children and can cause depression when they reach adulthood. For some children like my son they are absolutely necessary for normal functioning in society.
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    I think that you have to realize that she had a life before you. You can do absolutely nothing about that. Accept what you can not change and your life with be easier. Go ahead with the future. If you say that you love her and trust her than just do that.
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    I cheated

    WishMistress replied to Male's topic in Infidelity

    I can't judge you, because I have done the same thing, not for the same reasons, but does not make it any better. I would have to say do not tell her because I am pretty sure that it will end your relationship. I think that you are a decent person that made a mistake, but try to not let it happen again.
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    Umm I might have to agree with some of the other posts, it might be the fact that he got used to climaxing through masturbation and he feels no pressure and no need to perform when he is with just himself.
  21. WishMistress
    I would not recomend that method since you are not totally sure when you ovulate unless you are using a basal thermometer and then you have to take your temp at the sametime every day before you get up say at 4am. It is a tricky thing and even expert charters can miss an ovulation. Also, your LP phase will always the be the same no matter when you ovulate. SO, I guess I am saying only use this method if you are ready to accept possible consequences.
  22. WishMistress
    Let me just say " Every girls' crazy about a smart dressed man." If he looks like he rolled out of bed I will not look twice no matter how good looking he is.
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    oohhh Thanks! Hmm, but bad boys they are quite another matter from the slobs..LOL..my husband maybe a sloppy dresser,but not a bad boy. In my experince a lot of bad boys are good dressers and are charming...that is where the trouble starts..LOL
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    guess I did not understand you..oh well
  25. WishMistress
    Hi Fantasia, I think it really depends on the man. I like to get dressed up when I go out even to the mall out of self respect for myself and the fact that I was told to always look my best. My husband on the other hand dresses like he is 16, baseball cap, T shirt and shorts.. to me not a great look for someone who is 35 years old. UGH! Now he does not ask me to dress up, I just do and I wish he would do the same, cause the teenager look really does very LITTLE for me.
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