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WishMistress

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  1. Hi, It sounds like your beau may be having an exagerated fear of commitment. If that is the case then it might good for you to let him go for now. Personally, I would not go on a trip with him, nor would I be intimate and I would not be his " friend". If it is meant to be he will come back to you and if it is not count it as experience and move on. I know at this point that it is very hard, but you are right, he wants to have his cake and eat it too. This I think however is using you, and you are worth more than that. Peace and Happiness to you!
  2. It sounds like he wants you around because he does not want to let go completely, but for the sake of carrying on with your life you might have to stop being friends.
  3. That is not overweight..it is very average..believe me you do not want to be a stick creature. What magazines and pop stars are portraying these days is for the most part physically impossible for most people and very unhealthy. Skinny is not necessarily healthy, not to mention unattractive to some men. Peace and Happiness to you!
  4. Sweetheart, You made a mistake..and not all men are like this I promise. Yes, what he did to you is rape if you did not want to do it. Have you seen a doctor about your physical trouble? Being that he was with other women and using IV drugs you should be tested for STDs. I would hate for your entire life to be affected by this. A doctor could also help you with the emotional damage. I know how you feel, I have been raped myself, but it does get better and you do feel better. Please help yourself and talk to someone that you trust. I promise that life gets better when you do. HUGS. Peace and Happiness to you!
  5. It is very normal for pregnant women to be crabby..it is very hard to sleep..first off you have a basket ball on your stomach...second hormones out of control..just be patient for now.
  6. Ohhhhh sweetheart! I am sorry for what is happening to you. I have been where you are..and I want to give you some adivce. Please, go to the child protective services or the police! Go to a teacher..go to any adult that you trust! Please do this for yourself! I know how you feel sweetie and believe me I know it gets better. You HAVE to do this before anything else happens to you! I am praying for you and you can email me anytime you like at ...emeraldeyedbaby35@link removed
  7. I know it is sometimes hard, and you are not really mad at the person you are with. It is a long journey to understand yourself, and you are doing a great job with a difficult situation! It is a great step that you realise that you have something in your past that intrudes into your present some people never understand that. Peace and Happiness to you!
  8. Why are you embarrassed? Fair..is for pretty pale people..and then there is light and medium beige ..most people are in the beige category. Basically how you can tell if the colour is right for you is to put a tiny bit on the back of your hand and rub it in a bit. Do this with a few colours and see what tone suits you the best. I am in the fair or very pale category..but most people are not..so test a few colours on the back of your hand. Peace and Happiness to you
  9. I am sorry about what happened to you in your past..that is sad. I think that you could tell him if you wanted to share that part of you, but not if you are going to use it to get him back. You can not MAKE someone love you or come back to you. They either want to be with you or they don't. Here is something that I have learned over the past little while...if they fly away and they return to you it was meant to be..if they don't..then love the part of them that you enjoyed. Peace and Happiness to you
  10. Personally my favourite is for me to be on top. It allows me more control and it leaves my man's hands free for other things.
  11. Well I would have to say that I do, it is something that I enjoy,but only if the man wants me to cause there are some that don't.
  12. Gilgamesh, Yes, you are very right about that! I was just thinking that the author of the post might be younger than we are..and a man's taste changes with time and maturity. But, you are very right. L.
  13. Hi, All I can say is follow what is in your heart. Think about it though and don't make life defining decisions when you are upset. Only you know what is best for you. I am not even sure what I would do in that case. Here is a HUG and wish that you make the best decision for you. Take care, L.
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