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  1. zpivat
    Watch your food.......... And read this link removed
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    I don't agree at all with the view that just because someone's 26 and is still living with his parents, then he's necessarily like a teenager, and/or the notion that at 26, someone should necessarily be out. That may be the way it is in the USA, but in Latin American, Asian, and (some, especially Italian, Greek, and those Mediterranean countries) European cultures, it is something that's perfectly normal. Even there are people at 30 in those cultures who still live with their parents (if they're not married yet.) Heck, even some of them live with their parents even after marriage (+ spouse of course). (Today's trivia: can you guess why the American divorce rate is one of the (if not THE) highest in the world? Hint: there might not be an obvious connection with the above said issue, however there's a subtle yet powerful reason.) Especially knowing that your man is Mexican.....no wonder he's 26 and is still living with his parents...... If you truly care/love to be with him, then go easy with him on this one, seriously.... All the best to you both!
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    Hi rajorani, I'm sorry to hear about what's happening to you. My first impression when I first read your post is that your ex/ex-bf is either immature/confused. I know exactly how you feel because I have faced such kind of people in my life. It causes so much heartache, I know, and I wish I could do something about it so that nobody in this world would feel so painful, but unfortunately there's nothing that we can do. Well I'm glad that at least he's willing to talk to you once in a while. I myself know others who sometimes disappear for no reason, and when I confront, they say how everything's ok, bla bla bla. I think I'm mature enough to smell lies from faraway. I just HATE it when people hide their feelings and give no attempt to discuss things! If I were you I'd try to stop "chasing" so that he'll finally know what he is losing. I don't think you should cut all ties though. Many people go through different stages of life, and we might never truly know their internal emotion. He probably has underlying problems (which have nothing to do with you at all and hence you are at no fault) that he is not even ready to discuss with you!, and trust me on this one, as it happened to me before. Yes you may love him and it is in your best interest to be there when he needs you, but don't let this heartache ruin your life! I wish you all the best and a safe trip back to Canada! N.B: I see that you're in Toronto and that you're coming back soon....well why don't you have yourself some fun?? ^_^. Go back and finish your summer school, and then....I don't know....go rollerskating at Lakeshore, or play at Ontario Place and scream all you want....je je...*j/k*.
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    WWWWWOW.........those so called "friends" of Jen's really need to take it easy......lol lol lol, how very ridiculous that email is....let me guess: they're all below 20 years old!!! Anyway, the decision of whether or not to reply is ultimately up to you, but should you decide to do so, just make sure you sound as calm and collected as possible........they're not worth your time, in my opinions.
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    He he he he....I think you're reading into it too much here.... Play game too play game too! Disappear for a week and see what she'll say/do On a more serious note: if I were you I'd just be very bold and ask her directly if she has a date. It'll then elicit a simple yes/no answer, and then from there you'll know what to do. If you still enjoy being in her so called "game" or "tactic", as you say it, then it's ok.......but it could get tiresome in the end though. So you've got nothing to lose: make the move! Good luck!
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    Hi baldo, I wish you the best luck in trying to ask out this Slovak girl. To keep in mind: if you're not absolutely sure how to say something in Slovak, I think it's better not to, or else you might feel embarrassed. Keep in mind that the Slovak language is phonetic, and what you read is what you will say. So, if it's pronounced inaccurately (especially if added with accent), it would just sound funny. I don't know about your background, obviously, but if you're a native speaker, try to lose the accent if you can, and pronounce the words clearly. Also try to master the rolled "r", as that's how the Slovaks pronounce it..... (By the way: yep you've guessed it right: my nickname "zpivat" is the Slovak/Czech word for "to dance", he he
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    Hi alteer, I myself seem to be 10 years younger than you, so I don't know if I'm in a good position to advise you, but all I can tell you is that this is not your fault at all, and you really should not feel sad *hugssss*. I can see that your boyfriend freaked out because you touched the subjects about marriage and kids; well at least there are clues now as to why he suddenly disappeared like that. I, as a matter of fact, am going through a similar situation as you, except that I know much less than you do. I just HATE it when people disappear without even telling any reasons AT ALL. I thought I was being unreasonable, but my eyes were opened when itsallgrand told you that he's being immature by just freaking out and taking off like that! I know that if a girl told me anything about marriage/kids, I would not just run away like that if I weren't ready. I'd just talk to her about it in a very comfortable and respectful manner, preferably with some delicious cakes, to make sure she's as comfortable as possible... So please don't cry (well ok you can, but don't let him know), and don't show him your sadness for it will just give him ego boost. People like this have to be taught a lesson! I sincerely wish the best for you and him, and God bless you.
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    You can be clear with Matt that you don't wish to seek anything romantically with him........ I don't think it's wise to just throw away the friendship though.
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    I don't quite think that he was talking about his gf's period though. The word "period", I think, was meant as in "at all"........(could've been clearer if it were "She doesnt want me to touch her; period.") I might be wrong though.
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    Hi krissbrown, I feel for you.....I can't believe he did that to you, and I wholeheartedly wish that you'll soon be able to completely move on and start everything from a clean slate. I'm going through an almost very similar situation with you, and I can totally understand how you feel.........it sucks big time and it's so bad how we've no power to change anything. Feel free to PM me if you would like to share more. All the best, and God bless you.
  11. zpivat
    Isn't that called squirting...........................?
  12. zpivat
    Do NC..........seriously.
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    Relax........you're probably very "in love" that you've come to the point of being paranoid if something bad might happen to him.... Well as someone who loves him, just take care of him, and trust that God always takes care of him. Instead of wasting time worrying excessively about him, why not spend your time enjoying your life with him, and thinking of beautiful/nice things about him instead?
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    Oops, you're right. Well English isn't my native language, so I goofed. According to link removed, a date is "an engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest." So we don't know for sure if this is really romantically based, and hence we're not sure if this is a date. So make a mental switch and pretend that I wrote 'meeting', instead of 'date', please ^_^.
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    First of all, congrats that you'll be on a date *scratched out, changed to "meeting"*! You'll realise that some exes never even want to stay in touch with us, and the fact that he wants, MAY mean that there's a chance of reconciliation. If I were you, I'd act normally, calmly, and pleasant. Being nervous is ok, but don't break down about the relationship, don't show your weaknesses/neediness, clinginess. Be the Nicole that he first met, whom he first fell in love with! I wish you all the best! Sincerely!
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    If he means to you that much, then don't tell it..... But PROMISE to yourself that it shall NEVER happen again.... Alcohol sucks....that's why I never touch it.
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    I don't mind girls asking guys out at all....I think it's a very sweet and lovely thing to do, and no, I won't think they're desperate/pushy.
  18. zpivat
    Wait till marriage.
  19. zpivat
    If somebody were to want me as a boyfriend only for her to revenge her ex, I wouldn't let her do it.............that means her interest on me isn't really genuine no??
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    I think he's very weird......... You know there are many weird phenomena that exist in this world......one of them is understanding the human emotion..... I am glad it didn't go that far though....imagine if it did....you could've been in a much worse emotional rollercoaster. Thank God you didn't get hurt or anything (I hope not....) You'll find someone better ^_^.
  21. zpivat
    She's married. Forget it. I am sure others will agree....
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    You're right: you're not alone at all. We've all "been there, done that". Well if you want, you can cry all you want, but still eat and sleep well ok? *hugssssssss* To quote somebody (called "megaed") from another thread: "You know, love has its way around...you lose this one, because you've been given a chance for your next significant other to find you. Just have some patience, love has its way. Your next significant other is looking for you too...give her a chance! Don't block her out by locking urself up in the cage that you had set yourself up in." (for your case, change all the "HERs" to "him"). I wish you all the best ^_^.
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    I'm sort of having an almost similar problem with you.....well she's not my ex or anything, just an extremely close friend who acts very strangely.... One day she'd be real close to me and goes online to MSN whenever I come, and messaged me immediately.....then she also got a new mobile just so she could call me more often, according to her.... But then sometimes she'd disappear for 2 to 3 weeks for no reasons, then back again, etc..... It's so sickening I feel sick and tired of it.....so rather than stressing about her, I just concentrate on other useful things in life, and see what the universe has to offer.... I know it's very stressing, tiresome, and confusing, but hey, just try your best to be strong. Try to forget her for a while and put yourself first..... Sometimes they act bad because of our fault, but sometimes it could be they themselves who are just plain weird... I wish you all the best (and wish me luck too please)
  24. zpivat
    I second bobo85........those are some nice words indeed.......made my eyes and heart feel opened.... In fact I bookmarked this thread........
  25. zpivat
    I'd just be normal and act friendly......
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