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  1. I'm referring to the older mid 40s guy.
  2. I started having feelings for this guy and have contemplated telling him how I feel? But is this wise? I feel like I would be putting myself out there, handing myself over on a silver platter and opening myself up for hurt. He has dropped hints that he likes me but I am not really sure. I've been wishing that he would confess how he feels before I do. But what if he never says anything? Do I say something or not? Does the fact that he doesn't say anything means he feels nothing for me? Do I want to be with a guy who doesn't even have the courage to tell me he wants me? Would any girl want a guy like that?
  3. Sometimes it's not about age. I'm in love with a man who's 20 years older than I am because of who he is as a person. He's not rich, and he's not an executive of any kind. Money has never entered into the equation. I've never been particularly attracted to a certain age range. I think that in general people just can't help who they fall in love with. Older men don't make me feel safe. The right man makes me feel safe - regardless of his age.
  4. Man B and I have a lot of common interests. We can talk for hours on the phone. Neither of us want children or want to get married. I know my feelings for him aren't just lust because he's not particularly attractive. It's who he is as a person, his personality, outlook on life, humor that I get caught up on.
  5. I want a guy who loves me, makes me feel safe and cared for. I want someone who is willing to stand up for me.
  6. I'm stuck. I'm in my mid 20s and have to choose between 2 men. Man A is 29. I like him a lot. He's one of my best friends and is a joy to be around. I wouldn't mind marrying him if he asked me. Man B is 45. My feelings are much strong for Man B than Man A. I sometimes think I love him. I know he feels for me too, but because of our age difference is reluctant to express those feelings. There won't be the age gap pressure since I'm much closer in age with Man A. Do I wait for Man B or go with Man A? Listen to my head or my heart? I'm so confused.
  7. I met this guy that I've really come to like about 3 months ago. We're not dating yet - still in the friend mode. But we now have long discussions on the phone where we talk about everything. We share ideas, our likes and dislikes, our history, hopes and fears. Is it a good idea to talk for hours on the phone with a guy? Will he get to know me too fast? Will he lose interest in me? Does the fact that I can discuss almost anything with him mean we may just be better off being friends?
  8. What Is It That We Want From A Relationship? Is it just companionship we're after? How does what we want from a friendship differ from what we want with a significant other?
  9. What type of communication problems are we talking about? Lying?
  10. How come people don't find out that they have communication problems before they get married? Isin't that what dating is for?
  11. Any recommendations on women's perfume? Which ones do you guys like?
  12. No. I never notice footwear on guys unless I accidentally drop something on the ground.
  13. I have long dark hair that goes a little past my shoulders and bangs. What's more attractive to you guys? Hair down or up in a pony tail? My mother said girls should wear their hair down because it's more girly, but I don't know about that. What does everyone think?
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