Hannibal

You don't really need to pick up on their body language, your sub-conscious will do that work for you. Its how we can sense tension between two people and that kind of stuff. You somehow just know what they're thinking by the way that they act.

That's what I'm trying to do right now.... More replys please!

That all depends on how far you two have gone in that respect.

I just talked to her and she said that I made her day today............ Any thoughts on this? Also today she took something of mine and kind of played cutsie keep away....

Well my ex and I have started to talk again. Today we went out for lunch together and had a really good time. I noticed that she has started to wear the ring that I gave her again, she took it off after we broke up but now its back on. She and her other ex were thinking of getting back together but she told me today that she wants to move on from him. In her online diary she wrote something about how her and this guy always knew exactly how the other was feeling (but i think of his lips and his eyes, and how he knew exactly what i meant exactly exactly exactly we'd say and it doesn't seem so sad anymore -Thats the excert, and she always talked about my eyes.) . However she doesn't mention any names what so ever, I know its not a new guy because the title of the entry is "I swear I'll never hurt you again", also i think it might be about me because the url ends in ciggarettes (I'm the only guy that she's dated that smokes). I think that maybe she might be coming around and wanting to start dating again. She also said today that she missed us haning out and being together. Now I'm stuck, I don't really know where to go from here. I want to ask her out on a date sometime really soon but I don't want to scare her away. Any advice is gladly welcomed!

I would suggest that you just go for the one that you are attracted to most. Pretty simple, as for getting her alone just wait until you get the chance. Surely they both cannot show up for work everyday, eventually one has to get sick or something!

Ummmm taking a crap once a week is a pretty big sign that your body is not getting the essentials that it needs. You should be on the toilet once a day.

I'm going to assume dry sex is when the girl dries up during or before sex?

I would say live in the moment and go have some fun. Having said this, make sure that he know's what is happening aswell so he doesn't go into things thinking that it will last a long long time (which it very well could).

Chances are during sex you will actually "cum" in a shorter ammount of time, just because its with someone hopefully who you love and its a lot more intense. However to counter act this you could masterbate earlier in the day before you have sex and that should make you last longer.

Well I'm assuming you met his nurse at some point in time. Sure being away for a long time with her the two of the may become really close. However she is in fact a nurse and she should be old enough to realize that being with him is her job and loving him is yours.

Well you seem to have quite the situation here. Nothing abnormal from what I've been through or heard of however. It kind of sounds like she is pulling the power struggle bit on you. If you phone her then that makes her feel wanted and all that junk. If she phones you she probably feels infirior to you in some way. Crazy I know but I'm sure if you look deep in yourself its probably part of the reason you're not calling her. Let me tell you this, Sex changes everything in a relationship. No matter what point you are in the relationship somethings change when sex is brought into the picture. Anyways on to my advice on the situation. If you feel that she is worth a fight, then by God put up a fight to keep her. Maybe giving her flowers because you have done something "wrong" is a little extrem, but at least somewhat admit that you were in the wrong by not calling her. Take it from someone who knows, it sucks having to be the one always calling, its really nice to get a call from your special someone from time to time. As for the ex b/f business, question her about it and her feelings for him. Same thing just happened to me and I didn't really call her on it and let her slip away from me into his arms (well not really but its a long story). To sum up, if you really feel like what you have is worth a fight then put up a damn good one to keep what you've got. Pick up the phone and call her and let her know that you still care for her and want to work out what ever problems the relationship is having and listen to what she has to say. Hope that helped somewhat.

It sounds like you are just having really intense orgasims. I would perhaps go and talk to your doctor about it because it could also be a heart related problem.

No you're not crazy for being upset about her persuing these relationships. The two of you are however crazy for talking about your past, let alone sexual. This is a mistake that most people make. Try to remember that you are with someone new and your past and her past don't make any difference.

1. You could use what is called a cock ring I believe. It keeps the blood in your penis so that it stays hard longer. These are only supposed to be used for 20 mins at a time if I'm not mistaken. 2. Can't really help you there 3. Don't really know to much about this one either. 4. Missionary will always work I'm pretty sure. Her on top would work aswell. If you turn missionary on its side that would work aswell although its a tricky one to do. Having her on her side with her leg on your shoulder, you kneeling and going in like that. Maybe pick up the kamasutra for more positions.

It sounds like she might be trying to prevent you from going to the councelor at school by telling you that everything is delt with and will be fine. This is usually a tactic most suicidals use to give you some false sense of security. I would strongly urge you to go see your school councelor because even if she's delt with it, she could relapse into even deeper depression (which is something I'm fighting with right now). It sounds like everything isn't alright with her if she tried to go through with the act as recently as the night before you got that note. So just keep prying at her (but not to the point where she becomes annoyed with you) because it sounds like shes hiding something. People who deal with suicide can't just turn around and make a quick fix, they need to be helped and watched so that they don't relapse and actually go through with it. Most suicides occur after they suicidal person has said they were alright. Also for sure go and see the councelor about this because suicide is never a thing to be taken lightly, especially when an attempt has been made. Trust me, having your parents know how you're feeling (when dealing with suicide) helps a tremendous ammount. Keep me posted!

I think a lot of it does in fact have to do with the sun. Its been very overcast these past few days, and the last few days are when I started to feel like absolute crap. I really just wish I knew life without these extreme ups and downs I have. I can go from being in a fantastic mood to crying and being super depressed all within 24 hrs. I just wish the down wouldn't have come now, I've got a ton to get done in school and my parents are gone. I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone I don't feel comfortable touching or being touched by. I realized this tonight as I was out with a friend and wanted to talk but felt totally awkward. I just wish I had her here with me to lay in bed with me and hold me close and tell me everything is going to be alright. Right now it feels like it wont be.

The clit is the most sensative spot down there. It always sticks out when the girl is aroused, but how much varies quite widely between girls. As for locating it, you obviously know where to put your fingers, so if you just pull them out and slide them up towards you then you should be able to feel it. It couldn't hurt to ask her to help you find it, hopefully she'll be familiar with her body and be able to guide you.

Well she obviously wants to talk about the relationship. So let her lead the convo. I would say that you should still be very courteous and polite to her, kind of find a happy medium between the bf you and the friend you.

I'm in a really bad position right now. I was feeling pretty good last week, but now this week everything just seems to be building up on me. My school marks are dropping, I miss my ex just the same as when we broke up, I'm sprilaing downwards into deep depression. The worst part of it is, right now I don't really have anyone to turn to. I know you'll say that I do but really I don't. My parents are in Scottland right now and I can't get a hold of them, all the people who I would feel comfortable talking to about this are out, all the rest I can't get a hold of because I don't know their numbers. I'm so damn lonely right now and don't know what to do. I had suicidal thoughts a few weeks ago but they went away for a while and now I just don't know. I really am at a loss here, I would love to meet someone new but alas everytime I try I get shot down (twice in the past two weeks). I think I'm going to go to see a physchiatrist to help me with my problems (depression runs in my family and has always been a terrible burden on me), but alas I can't do anything like that for another 5 or so days until my parents get back. I've been crying ever since I got home from school and the littlest things will set me off again. I just don't know what to do.

Well first off, moving in with someone is an extremely big step in any relationship. In one where you've never actually met the person its way bigger. Everyone seems different online then they do in person, mainly because you can't hear their emotions or read their body language. So I would strongly urge that the two of you meet before you decide to move in together. Perhaps have her out to your place for a week or two and see how things go. For sure though let her know that shes only staying for a week this time.

How long ago did you guys break up? You shouldn't worry about telling him your feelings, he should be understanding. If he gets scared off because of what you tell him then quite frankly he wont be a very good friend to you.

I would try to aviod bringing up her and you together for a while. This way you wont scare her off by making her feel pressured into a relationship. Just be there, as stated above.

Well if you guys were friends before then being friends after the relationship wont be to hard to do. If you weren't friends before then its probably best that you don't become friends after. It would take so long for the both of you to start to see each other in a different light. It sounds like you're not quite ready to start to talk to her again, and maybe perhaps she isn't either. Just follow the N/C rules for now until you're ready to see her again. Good luck!

Its not so much that we want to share power (even though power sharing is a must in any relationship), its that from time to time we liked to be approached by girls and get asked our number. Its nice every once and a while to have an aggressive girl after you, I'm sure you ladies like it aswell. Not to aggressive of course!