Hannibal

Main thing to remember on the first date is just to have fun, that will more then likely make anything you do that much better. If you put to much pressure on yourself and get quiet and stuff the other could get bored.

I would say that you shouldnt make assumptions right away. It is a good sign that you guys didnt have any strange moments during the time you spent together. Chances are she will tell her boyfriend that you two hung out and he will get jelous of it. For now i would say stay the course and just seem really confident and happy, and at all costs try to avoid strange moments.

That is kind of unsettleing. I was told by her best friend that the ex tried to get her back but she didnt want anything to do with him and then she met me. That is why i think its all about crappy timing for us and perfect timing for him to come into the picture, we kind of forget about our relationship and how great it was because we faught a lot recently. I think im going to try the no contact thing for the rest of the week, however its going to be hard because we have a school project to work on together =/. That is probably the hardest part right now, is thinking about all the plans that we had for the future. Missing, when you were with these other guys did you tell them how you felt or did you kind of forget how you felt for a while? Also how did your ex act during this period?

I would say based on the situation he is probably regretting breaking up with you. After a bad break up people usually come to their senses a few months later and realize what they've done. However he could be thinking about leaving this other girl to move on to something new and feels bad. Not to sure, you know him better then i do so go with your gut on this one.

Heres the situation, I was going out with a girl for a while and things were going fantastic, until recently. We started to argue quite a bit and then her ex boyfriend came into the picture, now she tells me that she doesnt have any feelings left for me and her feelings for him have come back. Everyone thinks that she is confused and not sure about what to do, it makes sense to me and even her best friend told me that the relationship that she had with me was way deeper then anything she ever had with the ex. She said that she needed time to think things through and I got sick of sitting around waiting and not knowing whats going on. Today I told her that i dont need that and that im done with it. Now i still feel exactly the same towards her except im hurt. I would really like to get her back because the relationship was the best one ive ever had, and from what i gather she has had aswell. I was just looking for some advice on what course i should take to kind of bring her back to me without making her angry and just pushing her farther away from me. I'm terrible in these situations, but every girl ive ever dated has told me that she misses me being with her and is still kicking herself about letting me go. Any help would be great.

My mom gave me a great piece of advice when it comes to this sort of thing. The biggest thing that you dont want to do is let on how upset you are. However when shes still says i love you and misses you thats a touchy situation. If you want to get back with her i would go the course of playing hard to get, just keep your cool and act like you're ok with things either way.

I would try being honest and reasonable with him at first and see what kind of guy he is. I just lost my girl to another guy and it hurts like nothing else, so attack this problem head on and fast.

Well today I ended the relationship, I think it was done on a terrible note however and I feel really bad about it. I told her that she was making a big mistake and that her and her ex would only repeat the past. She just kept telling me that she cant help the way she feels and that just made things worse. I want to call her and let her know that I'm sorry about the whole conversation but my friend told me to wait until tomorow. What does everyone think? I'm really having a hard time coping with this loss, I've never had a relationship like this one before and now I dont know what to do to help me get over it.

This is the first time i've posted on here so im not sure if this is going in the right area. Anyways, my girlfriend and i had a great relationship until this past week. we've been fighting a lot lately and as soon as her ex boyfriend and her started to hang out. Now she tells me that shes not sure how she feels about me and that she thinks she might have some feelings for her ex boyfriend (they've broken up twice). I was talking to a friend and she told me that it seems like she is just playing a game with me, trying to test me to see how much i care for and want her. I was just wondering what you think might be going on?