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Iwanthim

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  1. It's may not last bc it's not meant to be with that person. Until you don't have you soul mate relationships willn't last. I think the problems in relationships why they don't last is..... 1. Cheating 2. Trust Issues 3. Communications problemsw 4. Problems with spouse's family 5. Money 6. Too young/ want to experiences (ususally means cheating) I know couple who's be together for over 60 years. Just my 2 cents.....
  2. I have co-worker name Tom. Tom is 30 years old which he is marry and has son. I am 22 years with no kids or marry. I went over Tom's house and his family was upstairs and we were in their living room downstairs. He made move on me and now I think he is in love with me bc he willnt leave me alone. I wasn't feeling good that night he took advangtage of me. While his family was upstairs. He keeps calling me and everything. He and his wife is having major problems this is just to put the icing on the cake. I thought he was really nice and cute until i found out he was marry marry guyz are hands off. i think he wants to be with me but sorry i dont want to be with you once cheater always cheater. I had to work with him the next day when he did that to me he was asking me if i was ok and if i was ok with everything. and i should come over his house again. he is cheating on his wife. I dont think its right. but he is my co-worker what should i do? Plus guyz @ this age doesn't like partying like 22 years girl like to do. There is no way. There is 8 years age difference.
  3. I understand what you are saying. But he left her bc of her problems. When you are with someone your problems are their problems. I think once ex always ex. At least its meant to be it will happen....
  4. But would that stronger woman take that guy for leaving her when she just had some issues. I know i wouldnt he wasnt think when i needed him
  5. If you don't feel completely comfortable with him yet why are you having sex?
  6. I would stay in touch. Just because she has bf and you aren't the new guy doesn't mean you can't be friends with her. You never know what could happen. But I think guy did that 2 me I would be really glad I didn't start anything with him bc i would think he is jealous. I stay stay in touch. Maybe being away maybe she will realize how much she does care for you. Think postivte
  7. I am sorry. But once cheater once one. I believe that very strong. I do have to say wow he told you the first time that he was marry was kinda shocking. I do give him credit. If he did it to her why would he stop for you.
  8. Thanks so much. I look in the mirror last nite before I went to work. I see I was pretty but could do some changing. I know I need to drop some pounds. But I look I do look nice tho but in my eyes and head i need to change. Bad luck is that what its called. Maybe God thinks some people are juist too nice and went through alot in live to have men in our lives that just going to hurt or isn't the right one. Like I went to have fun but I don't have a lot of friends either. I don't know why. But sometimes I can get on people nerves i guess. but they also say having one or two close friends is better.
  9. Thanks, for your support there is that saying when you dont think about it will happen.....but does any1 know how 2 put pic on here i want to see what i have 2 change and what i dont need to change
  10. I only wish that is true. You think very postive about life. I was also when I was that age also. I do have good points but I have some bad also Like my teeth and my hearing I think thats the problem. Also when I am with guyz i like i know I try to act cool to express them but it doesnt help i need to be me and only me. When I see pretty girl i get so upset. But I think some of them need their attuide check out.
  11. Today, is Jan 25, 2005 i will be 22 in like 13 days. I am thinking if i was meant 2 be with someone who I had that speical guy or also know soul mate by now? Guyz told me I was pretty and very nice woman but nothing ever happens after that. Most of the time i never hear from them again. I think they really don't want to hurt me bc I think I am not pretty. I would post my pic on here but I don't know how. If someone would tell me how I would let the truth come out....
  12. I also feel the say way. People are way to young to worry about that. Now in this time you need education to have good living. Having baby on your hip isn't something you need to worry about. I will be 22 years old this feb i have to say when i was in school i really don' tt remember my teachers talking about sex. If they do, parents have to sign papers and they didnt tell my class sex=babies.
  13. No, I don't think Jill shouldn't get mad @ Amy or question about it Paul and Jill wasn't dating that. Jill can ask you but if Amy doesn't want to talk about it thats her right bu i would thought if they are best friends Amy would had told her. Can I ask you why after all those years it matters now??
  14. You can't trust him but you want to know
  15. If you don't have trust what do you have there. I wouldnt do LDR have i didnt trust
  16. Well, I honestly dont understand unil i have thatt one guy in my live i will then i need to see it to believe it.....
  17. Well, I use to be one of them girls which believed their is someone out their for everyone. Have to be in the right place and time. Also, people say when you are looking to hard for the guy or even girl it willn' t happen it will never when you least expected. I will be 22 in feb. I really had serious bf. I really want to found my soul mate. Yes i think I want it to be like movie way. It happens. I just need love my guy who will love me for me. want to have kids sometime, have his life in order. i don't believe anymore......
  18. What I am really saying is that over the last two days I really starting to like him he is the type I am looking for but the bad part is he is moving to tx end of the month. My friend called left message saying i want to get togeher this weekend and left my number should i want see if one of them calls me or do you think i should Text message telling him that he didn't give me his number but my friend told me that he said i can have it can someone help me think of good text message to george saying i like you and also THANKS FOR TAKING CARE OF ME THIS PAST WEEKEND......
  19. When guyz following girl around like lost puppy what does that mean? And I just really met this guy on Friday night he is friends wih my friends?? He did tell me that i was pretty girl and he means that but then again he told me that his friend likes me and all i dont know what to do i am going to send him text see if they want to do something this weekend
  20. I wasnt there but he said things like do u know nicole has 3 boobs and he talks about sexaul with me. i know before he was even drunk or anything he ask his sister where i been? he ask her if i am going over to gave him birthday sex? what do u think i think he does still like me just dont know what to do with her and me
  21. But the way i understand it he did like me before then his best friend starting to go out with this girl then he started going out with his best firend friend too..it was strange everyone thought he liked me good signs and all he just turn 21 aug 26 and he been drunk like 3 times he said few things that he shouldnt said infront of his gf??????????????
  22. When people are drunk is it true what they feel and what they want it comes out. Like mainly the truth comes out? Like if guy likes you but has gf but when he is drunk why would he talk about me good things too?
  23. Yes, I agree I am reading it right now in the midde of awesome book. Gives you examples of what they know is best for us females to do. Like dont like men take you for granted dont like them in the candy store right way. Great book must it read it
  24. I always told my friends that if you are thinking about other guy when you aer suppose to be in love with the guy you are current with now. then its time for time apart. how can you love someone and think or slept with them. I know things happen but i am sorry i believe you could had said no. Why do you count on other people to have to remember you are with someone? I think you need some time to think. Which guy you really want? Why put your bf through pain when you aren't even sure.
  25. I think you should go and have talk with her. If you two can't talk then whats there then? If she says there isnt nothing going on then you need to trust her and not worry about what he tells you. That will only cause problems for the two of you. Now if you found prove they are together then you have to think she isnt worth you time. But just talk to her see why she isnt joying the time with you anymore. Just talk it will help or Ask her what she would like to do for fun or something
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