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Mun last won the day on October 17 2007

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  1. ED is eating disorder right? Hi! Do you have other friends? If you do then you should start investing more time into those friendships. This one is not everything you want or need. It sounds to me like you have a lot of expectations and I agree about she should be happy in your accomplishment, but you have time and attention expectations that she does not fulfill. More fríends would mean more attention and more diversity. I’m guessing you’re still in high school if not younger? You will have many many friendships in your life cultivate the good ones and let the others fall by the waysid
  2. Hi there! I am sorry you are in this situation. Family can be such a drain sometimes and it sounds like there has been a lot of toxicity there for a long time. Plain and simple you are the sister that left and made a better life for herself. Are you willing to step in now and take care of your dad or your mom? I mean physically move them closer to you and away from your sister? It would probably be the only way that you could change any of what is going on. As it stands now she is the one that stayed behind and watches out for them. Whether or not you agree with her or them, you don’t live
  3. Hi there! I’m sorry about your break up. I have to agree, you absolutely deserve better. You are in a better place in life than he is right now. He has a lot of stuff to work out. He may get there eventually, but he needs to do this work on himself on his own. I am glad you cut all contact with him. It hurts, but it makes it easier on you moving forward.
  4. Hi! I know you are asking us what to do, but what do you want? Could you take her back and trust her? Think on this very much. It will determine how you live the rest of your life with her if you do take her back. Do you want to?
  5. Hi there! I’m sorry you are going through this. Depression is a monster and it can convince you of things that are not true ...the best you can do for your bf is that he knows you are there for him. Let him have his time to work on himself and I am so glad he is getting help. Encourage him in that when you speak next. I’m so sorry, loving someone with mental health issues is draining. Please look after yourself too. Do things that bring you joy. Spend time with those you are in isolation with...I hope you’re not alone. But if you are we are here for you ♥️
  6. Hi there! Dating might not be the best thing right now. Isolation can mess with your mind, know what I mean? No? It’s ok lol How about playing some games together? Challenging each other over games like words with friends, chess etc. on your phone. I have a friend I do that with and we message each other in the game as we play. Save the real dating for once you can be face to face in person. Stay safe!
  7. Hi there! It seems to me like he is immature, or he doesn’t know how to be a boyfriend, or is not really into you, or all of the above. You can and should give HIM the silent treatment now. In this time you have dated, and it’s a long time 3 years, how has he shown you he loves you??
  8. Hello there! First I want to say I’m so sorry about your mom. I hope you are doing ok. One day at a time. Second I hope that you are still dating and meeting men closer to home. A LD friend is good and safe, but not that practical. I know, I’ve had one for years, I know how sweet it is and also can get you in trouble. It sounds like your friend wants to stay in your life, but he wants you to come to him. That’s alright, but you gotta live your own life....No matter what he says, and you are right friendship is a two way street. He needs to do his part if he wants you in his life. Do your thin
  9. Hello there and welcome! I agree with the other poster. It sounds like three years was a long time and maybe enough to get to know each other, if only it had not been a LDR. That really would have made everything seem perfect because we tend to overlook any issues, it’s so romantic after all. Unfortunately, you may have not really known each other very well. If you really want to save this marriage a lot of the work is going to fall on you. You will have to be the one that gives more sacrifice and changes to keep this marriage. Are you willing to do that? Is he a wonderful man that is devote
  10. I think it's normal. I sometimes dream about the guys I like too. Just smile at him and keep enjoying his company. Don't think too much or look too much into it. Enjoy the moment. Love
  11. Hi there! You say you have posted multiple threads on this guy. I haven't read them. Sorry. But WHY? He sounds lazy. No seriously, I think he may like you, but you have been chasing him and he is being lazy and may continue to be if you continue to call, text, let him know you like him etc. He may keep seeing you, if you keep bringing beer over and hanging out, but is that the relationship you want???? I think you should let him be and IF and WHEN he texts you and asks you out (I hope he does because I know you like him) then go out somewhere. Hanging out is not dating ( as I now know ...sad f
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    My advice would be to back off a bit and let him be the one to contact you next time. If he is serious about meeting up then he will let you know. You see, you don't know what other stuff is going on in his life, he may be dating, stressed at work etc. and those things may be taking his attention. When he contacts you be sweet and respond to him, but let him come to you. Meanwhile, get out there and have fun yourself.
  13. Invite him to come and hand out with you and your friends...not alone. Then let him take the lead from there about asking YOU out...you will only know if he is really interested if HE is the one doing the asking...get my drift? And I'm guessing that you would rather KNOW than keep wondering because you are the one doing the inviting. Have fun!
  14. Hi there, I'm very sorry you are going through this and hey I congratulate you for having the courage to block her number and such. Yes there are women ( and some men) who are this shallow. I don't blame you one bit for how you feel. I can sort of relate I want you to know that not all women are like this. Keep moving forward, there is a girl out there that will love you with much or little because she will love you for you not just for what you provide. This girl sounds like she is all about herself. Her attempts to come back to you were only to feed her self esteem while that guy and
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