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Thanks John/ Sandy, John, I read your message at just the right time this afternoon, and it really picked me up. Can't wait for the weekend to get away from this place. I'm sick of seeing her all the time despite avoiding places she's likely to be, sick of the way she stares at me when we're near each other in the office, sick of her acting like SHE'S the hurt one, sick of people bringing her up in conversations at work, sick of her friends prying into my life... Got a busy, fun weekend planned though so I'll be fine as soon as the clock strokes 6.
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Morning everyone, Hope all is well with you all. I'm having a bit of a crappy day today. Can I just say to everyone to NEVER get involved with a work colleague but if you do and it starts getting serious... find another job as soon as possible as if/ when it ends, it's horrific! I'm not going to be able to completely move on from this until I find another job which isn't easy this time of year - I've seriously considered just quitting but that would be dumb without another job to go to. I saw the ex on my way out of the building last night, dressed up for her department's Christmas party... Wow, she looked absolutely stunning and it ripped me up inside more than it usually does when I see her at work. Meh, I'll be fine, just a little setback.
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I don't know your specific situation but I can tell you that if my car/ motorbike is parked out front that doesn't necessarily mean I'm home... it often means I'm off out with my peeps living it up - drink driving is bad.
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Gf just broke up with me... I'm a mess
Biffy replied to wayner427's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
It's funny, for a month or so after my break-up I voraciously checked my ex's myspace page. I live with my brother and we share a pc and he knew that I was doing this. I had her page stored on my favourites list, one day I went on there and instead of being directed to her page I was directed to a page on my brother's website... There was a picture of a very attractive lady pointing with a speech bubble that said "She was never good enough for you bro, there's much better out there for you" Made me laugh and I haven't looked at her page since. -
Hello all you lovely people, Nice to hear from you again John... slapped wrist for staying away from us though. Keep posting here, you say yourself it helps you so keep it up! Lone, lovely words there. There's this song that I've kind of adopted as my own personal national anthem of late, in the initial stages of my breakup I was listening to break up songs and the like.... not helpful. Just thought I'd post the lyrics as I find them really inspiring - wouldn't recommend actually listening to the song though unless you like very heavy music! Supremacy Of Self by Hatebreed SOME WARS MUST BE FOUGHT ALONE Am I the only one standing in my way? Am I my own merciless enemy? Can I stare back looking deep into death's gaze? Can I turn and face myself and the knowledge of what shouldn't be? To look into my heart was to look into hell Controlled by the voice of fear I was completely overwhelmed So concerned with the things I could never change Now I must assure to never fulfill that prophecy I must attain Supremacy, of mind Supremacy, of body Supremacy, of spirit Supremacy, of self The war you want is the war I'm willing to give Farewell to all the disbelief suspended in the depths To look into my heart was to look into hell Controlled by the voice of fear I was completely overwhelmed So concerned with the things I could never change Now I must assure to never fulfill that prophecy I must attain Supremacy, of mind Supremacy, of body Supremacy, of spirit Supremacy, of self THIS WAR WILL BE WON ALONE
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I think you learn lessons like these over time - I'm presuming you're quite young? The way I see it, women that like "bad boys" get burned time and time again and eventually come to the conclusion that it's better to be with someone that actually loves them and doesn't play games.
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I laughed it off at the time, not really a big deal when you're head over heels in love with someone and they are with you. Once they dump you though and those rose tinted glasses slip off... You look back and think - wow, what a thoughtless b*tch!
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With my most recent ex, a couple of months into the relationship we got on the subject of masterbation and she said that she never does it... as a lot of ladies do! A while later she said something during sex along the lines of "my ex James used to like it when I did this...." before doing something to me... after we had finished making sex I said that I didn't want to know about her previous sex life thank you very much. Fast forward a couple more months, I'm helping her move house and come accross (no pun intended) her small collection of vibrators. I smile and say "Hey, thought you said you didn't masterbate?" she said "I don't" I say "really, then what are these? paper weights??" she then says "You told me you didn't want to know about my sex life with my ex's" Ewwwwwwwwwwww
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Watch a movie called "Chasing Amy" that may give you some perspective. Also, I always find that what you don't know can't hurt you. I've never asked a girlfriend about her previos sex life as curiosity killed the cat...
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Can I just say that I now have Lionel Ritchie stuck in my head.... thanks a lot!
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Ask her out dude, what's the worst that can happen?? She hits the panic button and the screen comes down and the police turn up?? Prepare yourself for that and any response better than that will be a bonus. If you want to get to know her... tell her. Get it? She's a teller... So I said he should tell her.... TAXI!
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you should desert, dogs are awesoe... I think it's the fact that they have eyebrows and use them to express emotion (in my head anyway)!
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Hey Lone, I've been a busy boy today... but I've been feeling real good recently. It could be the stud jacket I bought, really dude you got to get yourself one! Say hi to MJ for me!
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I should probably explain that last bit... I have one at the minute because I occasionaly board guide dogs whilst they are being trained. It's a pretty sweet deal - I drop the dog off at the training centre before work and pick it up on my way home. I think Joy is my 5th... It's fairly heartbreaking when they finish their training and leave me but it's worth it knowing that they're off to give a blind person independence. You'd think I would have taken my ex dumping me alot better than I did now that I think about it, always having things I love leave me! Not that I'm comparing my ex to a dog of course... dogs are loyal.... and house trained!
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Hey y'all.... we're talking pets this evening are we? I think I'm not going to be too popular with everyone as I'm a dog man... not in any superhero sense but rather that I prefer dogs. I have one at the minute called Joy and she is just that, a joy
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Well I pretty much to announce NC in my case. I work with my ex and thus I have to speak to her everyday at work which she always uses as a gateway for chating to me. I had to tell her relationship or nothing and if nothing that means no contact. So it's purely business between us, why she finds that so difficult is beyond me.
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hello lovelies. Glad to hear everyone is having a good day... I am too, just a shame my employers are so intent on getting me to do work whilst I'm at work or I would have been on here earlier. Had a date last night as I said.... I was late, I spoke endlessly about my ex dumping me, picked my nose, mocked her dress sense and made her pick up the tab. In all seriousness, it went really well I think - got a 3rd date so I think she agrees. her name's Mickie which is ridiculously cute... she didn't even (outwardly) mind when I started singing (badly) "hey Mickie, you're so fine"
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^^^^^^^^^^^ Exactly. Captain, this has been going on for far far too long dude, get an answer out of her and accept it.
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Well peeps, I have my second date with a lovely young Canadian lady this evening... wish me luck. And worry not, I shall be dressed to kill - oh yes, the stud jacket shall be worn and I'll let my natural charm ooze out!
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No need to take it as sexist... Old folks say that stuff to me too and I'm about as far away from feminie as you can get.
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This reminded me of this clip that should make you all laugh.... Look it like this - no matter where you are in your life and how sorry for yourself you feel on the bright side, you'll never be this dude.
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I think that people that have a permanent smile on their face have either had a stroke or are as dumb as a stick! I'm not a natural smiler, you have to earn my smile! Doesn't mean I'm unhappy if I'm not smiling. The look on my face is created naturally by how the flesh on my face hangs off my skull... And boy do I hate people that tell you that it takes more energy to frown than it does to smile.... I find that people that say that are generally worth the effort!
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desert's also in the know... D.I.G. Inc is officially launched! And no, money can't buy you love but it can buy you awesome leather jackets that make you look like a stud, cheeseburgers, assault courses for your pets... you name it. Love will come into our lives regardless.... money won't!
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Sandy, glad you find my brain-droppings useful in some way! And Lone, you seem to know a lot about diamond mining... People, why on Earth are we sitting around feeling sorry for ourselves when Lone clearly has the secret to make us all rich beyond our wildest dreams!?
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Lone, you're going through a huge transistion in your life and it's not one you wanted, it's one that was forced upon you... and it sucks. However change is changeless - as in there will always be change and we humans are very adapt at it, so you're struggling to come to terms with your new life but the fact is that you will accept it, and eventually you will enjoy it, I'm sure of it. We're like onions, throughout our lives we have things happen to us that change us and it's like having a layer stripped away from an onion, you strip more and more unnecessary components away and what are you left with? a kind of mushy yellow stuff. Hmmm.... Scrap that. We're like coal... throughout our lives we have things happen to us that change us and it's like polishing coal (or whatever they do) you polish away more and more unnecessary components and what are you left with? A diamond that's what, a diamond Lone. So all this suffering is making you into a better person. It's a good thing if you view at as an opportunity rather than a hindrance.