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2 different ladies did! It was very flattering but they didn't interest me too much and to be honest I don't have much to offer anyone right now emotionally and I've never been one for casual relationships or one night stands. I had a couple of dates with a nice girl recently but I shan't be seeing her again. I need to lavish more time and attention on my favourite person... me!
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Hello lovelies, How we all doing out there today? Haven't heard from John and Camber in a while, hope they're doing ok. I went out again last night and had a brilliant one, got chatted up twice and eveyrthing. I went to this French restaurant where you eat in the dark last night, it was fantastic - run by blind folks. You have a "surprise menu" so you don't even know what you're eating. Fantastic night out. And just for the record, I was chatted up AFTER we ate and were once again in a lit room.
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Something COOL just happened...
Biffy replied to ironpumper's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Excellent stuff iron. And as the others say - ask her out my man. Don't get yourself friendzoned! -
Relationship fallout from group sex, 3 sums ?
Biffy replied to falloutguy's topic in Relationship Advice
See, that's the thing isn't it... I don't understand the mindset of wanting to share the person you love with somebody else. Does not compute. The very thought would make me want to vomit blood. -
Relationship fallout from group sex, 3 sums ?
Biffy replied to falloutguy's topic in Relationship Advice
It'll all end it tears. And a sticky mess too but that's neither here nor there. Personally if my lady wanted another guy I'd let her... hell, I'd even pack her bags for her. -
wow Rosie, you sound like my ex! I treated her very well but didn't compromise myself or my own standards, didn't allow her to walk over me. I stood up for myself when needed, I lived my own life separately but at the same time treated her as well as I could. I don't see anything wrong with that, I think that is the middle ground. It just didn't work for the ex, she has a history of abusive partners and was only used to that kind of treatment. She was shocked when I bought her flowers one time. I was the first boyfriend she's ever had that had bought her any.... weird. I don't think people should have to change themselves to fit around their partner. Be yourself, but don't allow yourself to be walked over. If this doesn't work for the partner you're with then they clearly aren't the right one for you.
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Hi DYL, I'm bipolar like everyone else on here! How's about your good self?
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It is indeed lantern, how's your heart today? Mine's undecided.
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Realise these feelings are normal. You're going to feel like this for a while I'm afraid, on one big emotional rollercoaster one minute you'll be fine, the next angry, then in denial, then you'll be scheming on how to win her back. It's all part of a grieving process that's very natural. Know this, you will come out of this the other side a much better person. Do not contact her again, all it will serve to do is to make you feel even worse.
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Love it brit! It's tough being the foreigner isn't it?? I remember being in a bar in London and this American gent approached me and said "do y'all tip the bar staff staff here when you get a drink?" Me "No, not unless you really want to" him "thanks guy" Me "but if you get information from a fellow patron of a bar you have to tip them..." him *reaches for wallet* Me "dude, I'm joking!" Very cruel but I enjoyed it! Don't judge me, I bought him a drink after!
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I love that Americans and Brits have very different meanings for the word "fanny"
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Luckily I'm one of the few people that actually likes the rain. I hopefully will be leaving blighty myself next year for a few months to go on a little tour around the U.S. Hey, I could even go on a enotalone tour visit you all and make good on all these promises of beer. Plus I hear American chicks dig the accent!
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Bad idea. You're clearly not ready to be her friend and I think you're kidding yourself if you think you want to be JUST her friend. Don't contact her, there's nothing she can say that's going to make this any easier for you short of "I want you back" and if she did want to say that, she's got your number.
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Hindsight is a wonderful thing. Take it as a positive, IF and I hope you aren't dumped again in the future you'll know EXACTLY how to handle it. As you say, move on and don't look back. If she calls later wanting to reconcile after a period of NC cross that bridge when you come to it. But don't expect it... try not to even want it, think about YOU and what you want. Spoil yourself, improve yourself. Smile.
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Sorry to disappoint desert but it's not raining... yet. It's too freakin' cold to rain. It's so cold out that when I got in this morning my colleagues presumed I'd had collagen injected in my face but I had to assure that that the freezing windchill has just frozen my face.
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Well you can let the cat know that I'm back.... 6 coffees later and I'm still craving my bed. I had to contact the ex on friday... To ask for a DVD back that my brother wanted... except it turned out I had it all along. So I had to break NC and then feel dumb about it afterward as it was unnecessary. If she just gave me ALL my stuff back as I've requested then this wouldn't be occur but I think she likes hanging onto it as a way of staying somehow attached to me.
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Hello my lovelies, How are we all doing today? Sandy, seems you've had a crappy time this weekend - that sucks. How we doing today? Where's the rest of you guys? As for me I've been partying like it was 1999.... That and watching my beloved cricket team get slaughtered by our oldest enemies Not only did my beloved team lose... again but to add insult to injury, the match was played in Australia... which is a slightly different timezone to mine. Getting up at 2.30am to watch sport and then go straight into work after is NOT a clever idea. I'm like a zombie here... which is pretty apt for my name I suppose. And now I'm rambling like a really tired person. Lone, camber, desert, dyt, john, sandy, how we doing?
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Loving the advice there RC! I'm in almost exactly the same situation as you Laywood and I feel your pain dude. I've told my ex that it's all or nothing and only to contact me for work issues or if she wants to get back together. She repected that for all of a week and now she phones me for absolute BS work reasons and tries to turn it into a chat. Either that or she sends her spies to check up on me and what I'm up to.... People I've never spoken to that much dropping by my desk grilling me about what's happening in my life. All very weird and annoying. I think you, like me are handling it well though - keeping your chin up, being mature enough to smile, wave or say hello but having enough self-respect to not give them anymore than that.
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You're welcome Lone, I can't begin to tell you how helpful you've been to me so I'm glad I can be of assistance in return!
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Hey John, I know what you're saying - I'm sure all of our ex's have regrets etc - how could they not, we're all wonderful, loving people. How could they not miss us? The thing is to not bow to the slight comfort that can give you as that can set you back. It's best to look it at in a sense that the ex had the greatest person they will ever have and they threw that person away - more fool them.
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Well if she does contact you again I'd politely tell her that unless she seriously wants to try again with you and is willing to work on the relationship then to please cease contacting you... forever.
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Wow Lone, your ex sure does love messing with your head? The cheek of it, telling you she misses you after not having the love and respect for you to work things out! And no more texting young lady, or we'll unleash MJ's inner fury on you!
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Morning John, Last night was a good one, I reaaly earned my hangover you know!? I have a date tonight too so all is good in the zombie camp. How are you doing today, I see you had a rough night?
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Good morning! I am so hungover. Hope all of you are doing well today?
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hello my lovelies, I dont know what time it is is where you guys are in the united states iof of wherever you are but it's half past late O'Clock here and I;m drunk after a great night out! hipe y'all are well!