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  1. mikeca
    ahh the chase...that summer of 05, those late night 'movie watching'...the trips to other provinces...ahh the chase, good times
  2. mikeca
    just that feeling you get, from giving your love to someone and having them return it...you can feel so powerful in those moments
  3. mikeca
    well first off, you getting busy at school should have no real impact in your relationship, she should see your trying very hard to get a career and understand that. Secondly, how you respond is up to you, but I would advise that you examine your life in the last two months, has anything changed that would stop the same thing happening again? Would she be more inclined now that shes lost you once to let you concentrate on your schooling even if its just as consuming?
  4. mikeca
    well what worked for me, was almost like courting a new relationship...start with small conversations work your way up to..lets say the movies..etc
  5. mikeca
    i love this quote not sure where its from..: "To error is human, to forgive, devine"
  6. mikeca
    I remember thinking how can I say it to my gf but hah...during one makeout session she accidently said it out first, and I was quick to respond but that look at first.. hehe priceless
  7. mikeca
    wow never really thought of it, but yeah I would as well... that'd be kinda weird after...there is litterally a part of you in them...heh
  8. mikeca
    do you have any more background info? why dont you think you should be with this man?
  9. mikeca
    its kinda funny the web we sometimes weave.. its like.. "previously...on life"
  10. mikeca
    I have read previously that after coming off a certain type of person and relationship, the person craves things on the other side of the spectrum. A complete opposite to what they previously had.
  11. mikeca
    maybe he doesnt wanna rush back into that stage of the relationship? take things slow and guard your heart
  12. mikeca
    We have such similiar stories, we were in LDR's...were canadian ( thats a plus right? ) We seem to have had partners who werent able to show us the kind of love we required, and it hurts, I know, I'm there as well. But I take solice in the fact, if she was the one for me, she would've done something to keep me, and now that im single, the right woman can snatch me up
  13. mikeca
    nobody wants to spend the holidays alone, are you sure she just isnt reaching for some attention?
  14. mikeca
    well first off, dont have sex with him anymore, and secondly; walk away! this is hurting you greatly that hes just walked on into another relationship and your sitting here trying to rationalize why hes doing it. GO NC, even tho i advise against this reason, its your best shot at healing yourself and getting him back.
  15. mikeca
    well, never cheated, I know I never will. Never had it done to be but pretty close, the feeling I had was unbearable. I too must go with (girls/guys) become unappreciative of the things we have and dont appreciate them. so... why do girls who have a sweet caring loyal easygoing fun mature loving piece of meat such as myself tend to leave ? answer mine
  16. mikeca
    we seem to be at a crossroads, I too knew I shouldve seen these warning signs and done something earlier. I do the exact same thing with the pedestal, and now it feels she's taken me for granted. It's amazing I would tell a friend exactly what he should do in my situation but for me to do it myself took so long. But after awhile thinking on the subject, I can see clearer now. I think you can too.
  17. mikeca
    so the nice guy loses, im sure he loved you alot and to lose you hurt him greatly.
  18. mikeca
    I second blender's post. I'm in the exact same situation, I tend to let things she did go because I was blind by love, but now that she doesnt respond like she did before my eyes are open, and its time for me to look after myself. I think you should talk to her and if you dont like what you hear, be prepared to walk.
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    Issues

    mikeca replied to Momene's topic in Relationship Advice

    well so far time apart helped me fix some of my issues, definitely made me a better person, and when we came back it made me want to help her out as well. overall, you have to help yourself before you can help anyone else
  20. mikeca
    well it was about 6 months ago when I first posted in this forum about a girl. Alots happened in between those posts, some good, alot bad. heh. But anyway, I'm back, roughly for the same reason. For the background portion you can visit this thread. basically; should I tell her all that I'm feeling, and walk away? or continue NC, I havent responded to her last email in a week now. I'm stubborn, and the bad thing is, I know it. Part of me has already walked away, its just not the part in charge right now. I still would like us to work out, for her to get the help she needs, to be the one to help heal whats been taken from her. I can't imagine how that rape has changed her. But Ive used that incident to justify things she's done while were apart, and I'm not sure thats right anymore. Some of these threads tell me to be true to my values, and right now shes not respecting me, I'm not a "part-time BF" and I'm not sure whether to put my foot down and let her have it somewhat even after what she's been through. Although after reading certain other threads, its advises to give her space in times of such confusion. do I still send a message stating my feelings but I'm still here for her even if I'm not in contact? ahh it doesnt make any sense in my head anymore. There will be more to come as I think of it, I just had to write my thoughts down, this forum has been very responsive and I'm thankful for it.
  21. mikeca
    Gym and Books will help my friend, Gym and books
  22. mikeca
    hmm being in school I can see some complications from this, but I'd suggest a modified NC, just go about your life, for you. not wondering what she will be doing, do things you'd do as if she werent ever there.
  23. mikeca
    2 things that greatly helped me through NC 1. Gym. 2. Books they both do wonders, one for the body, the other for the mind. its actually inspired me to live a little philosophy. Do something that affects your mind, body, and soul everyday.
  24. mikeca
    I think your very much in control of your feelings, and you have ever right to take things at your pace.
  25. mikeca
    I'd keep up NC a bit longer than 2 1/2 weeks. Re-evaluate yourself down the road and see where your at on 1 month...or longer and see if its worth it then.
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