good_charlotte_freak2

Maybe witing for her to decide what is up wiht her and her husband is a good idea. Remember she is married so don't let it go too far.

I don't think you guys get what I am trying to get here. All of you are saying to let my mom continue using ILLEGAL drugs in the houe I LIVE in with my 3 brothers and abusive father. Ok then. Sounds good to me.

I would rather be anywher then here. My life here is stupid and pointless...I am at my frind most of the time (when I don't have to babysit for them)

Don't be scared to say what you're feeling. Cyber sex is common in my town. LOL. I myself have had cyber sex once. It's more of just communicating and imaginatin. Good Lucks

O yah...I spoke to her...I said mom do you do drugs...she wouldn't reply to me...my frinds think I should tell CFS and get out of this house...I dunno...I think I might...

thnx...i'll try that

Hey, Ok...Basicaaly I am a loser in my grade. I have lots of frinds yah...lost more than those sk*nky popular ****! But to others I am a loser. Why? I am perfectly normal. I act like everyone else, get average grades like everyone else, and hang out wiht normal people? Basketball season is about to start. I LOVE basketbal. But last year all I did was run around on the court. The popular bi*ches wouldn't pass me the ball ro give me a chance. The coach says I am great. But the other girls just don't see it. What can I do? Do I just try and get the ball then show em what I can do? Or what?

I am on last resort now

Well...I would try and get one of your friends to maybe set you guys up a meeting. I have nothing agains you saying you love her...but maybe you should get to know her a little bit better beofre you say it again. Right now to me you kinda sound desperate and obsessed with her.

It can' t hurt to try him out. So go ahead.

Hey Jut, Thanx

Hey, WOW, you sound just like me...sorta...my situation is similar...I am 13...I haven't bin raped no...but I have been physicall beaten on and abused by my step-father...I hvae a family I live with...but I don't talk to anyone in it...Not at all. I'e beeen to counceling because I tried killing my self...it's hard to stop...My advice to you is...hang in there....eventually it'll be alright. It has been alright for me now...I'm doing ok..I could be better...but I am still doing better.

Hey...don't have any feeling towards him. Just forget who he is...or no just forget him. You have NO idea who he is now.

Ok...My best friend has been acting up lots lately. Now...she hasn't called me in 3 days...and she is never home...she doesn't have me over anymore...and she is always with someone else. Is she ignoring me on purpose? Whenever I ask her she says "you are still my best friend" and "I am not mad at you" I don't get it though. Could it be becasue we are in different grades and classes? Or because I hang out wiht a girl in my class? I neeed help on this one here.

She seems scared. Scared as in scared of comitment and scared fo what night happen. She could of had bad situations in the past and think everyone witll be like that

my ex and I broke up because his frind didn't like me. I don;'t like my ex anymore and he knows that. My bf knows about my ex...they know eachother

For Your Information Juha I didn't break up with him. He dumped ME! Now he desperatly wants me back.

WOW! That sounds EXACTLY like my situation. Except...we go to the same school still and whenever I see her she is always with another friend. She hasn't called me in like 3 days. I duno why. She isn't mad at me she told me so...I dunno if I can believer her though. But anyways...my advice to you...is just do what I am doing...wait it out...she may think it's time you guys move on...or she may just be busy...it's hard to tell...just wait it out. Find someone else to hang with and talk to...a close frind but one that is ALMOST as cloe as her. Good Luck.

Ok...but I don't want to ignore him. He is AWESOME as a friend...I am also really close to his family...I was when we were goign out and I still am.

Hey, yah so me and the ex brok up about 3 months ago. Now I have a new bf and I am happy as hell. But my ex keeps calling and wanting to hang out. He still has feelings for me. I stilll want to be his friend, but he thinks we are more than that! How do I let him know I just want to be FRIENDS? He says he has to talk to me EVERY day. It is kind of scary. It's not like he is stoking me...ok maybe a little bit like that but stilll...maybe he just likes me too much. I need to let him down easy. I've seen him cry...it aint pretty. What should I do?

We all need to take chances. Just be carefull of how big they are.

Hey, Ok...I babysat four little kids (my regular) last night and my brothers. I was not happy cause my bros were there and they are little bastrds. My mom, dad, and the mothers of the kids...along wiht one of their boyfriends and 2 other frinds returned at about 2:30AM. My mom and dad like to drink and get drunk. I HATE IT. I am normally never home when they get drunk. But yesterday I HAD to watch my bros so they came with me to the people's house I babysitt for. When everyone returned they were all drunk. When my mom gets drunk she gets CRAZY and when my dad is drunk he is "NICE" (he is normally mean, stubborn and angry). When they all came home me and my brothers were still up. I was half asleep on the couch and my bros were wathing movies and eating junk. Then they got all hyper and the hole house was like a mad house. Everyone was druink and laughing and falling over and beer bottles everywhere and phone ringing. I got up put on my runners and grabed my coat then headed for the door. I left. I intended to go for a short walk...but I eneded up going all the way around the town and ended up sleeping from about 4-5 in the Post Office! When sun arose I walked around.I went to the restaurants that were open bright and early and hung around in the bathroom's. I kept on walking back and forth from the warm Post Office to the Warm Restaurants. When more stores started to open up I browsed around very slowly inside of them. I finally caleed my best frind to see if she wanted to hang out but my mom had already called her house and told her mom everything. When I called my frind said she would come meet me but instead her mom called my mom and my mom came to the mall. My mom saw me and damanded "GET OVER HERE! NOW!" We got back to the house and all she did was ask where I was and what I was thinking and why I left. I have reasons to theese questions they are simply: I walked around and fell asleep in the Post Office, I left cause the house was a zoo and I was sick of it, and I was thinking some fresh air and excersise would ALSO do me some good. I am not trying to prove a point here. I am basically just asking what your opinion on this is. I don't want my mom always being drunk. I can't control that I know. But now I regret doing that. I have lost my babysitting job and my isn't speaking to me!

I duno bout the t-shirt thing.LOL. But is sure made me laugh...something that hasn't happened with me lately.

This is whatI am telling you. NOBODY will listen to me. My mom own't my step-dad wont and I have no family to turn to. My step-dad's family is useless and my mom was adopted and barely talks to her family. As for my real dad I haven't seen him since I was 2 and my mom's family I don't know. I am going to try and talk to my friend about this...she is the one who go me the help in the first place wiht CFS. But I don't know...I honestly have NOVODY. Does anyone have a situation like this where they had to amke a ver tough disision?

Yes Marijuana is very illegal where I am.My mom was saying just last week how a frined of her might go to jail for selling it...then I found it in her room...I guess it makes sense why she says she has no more money left...and why she says she spent it on "something". I have tried to talk to her. I just can't nothing. Wroks. NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING. I SWEAR. No letters, phone calls, body language, e-mails. she will just ignore it all. What should I do?