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  1. rosierizzle
    That last post sounded really melodramatic. But I'm really stuck. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be friends with him after the argument but I miss him - CONFUSED!!!!
  2. rosierizzle
    That's what I've been thinking but he's the loveliest guy you've ever met, well he was, until I found all that out, and I really miss him. Before I knew I used to have a huge crush on him and although I depise his views I miss his personality and it's left this gap in my life and I don't know how to fill it.
  3. rosierizzle
    Ok, right, this is my problem.... I get very passionate about the things I believe in and I often can't help arguing with people. That's the way I am, my friends are used to it and accept it. Anyway, I have guy friend called Ali and like alot of the guys in my school he has this big issue with men being gay. He says that it's okay for women to be gay because he says that it's hot but according to him a man falling in love and having sex with another man is totally gross, wrong, disgusting etc. He had alot to say on this topic so I won't go into it all now, but it's completely opposite what I think. Ok, so I got into a MASSIVE argument with him about, I'm talking huge! He was saying how "gays were freaks" and "not natural" so I told him he was discriminating and that he was prejudiced against gay men etc and then he said that I was prejudiced against him. Can you be prejudiced against people who are prejudiced? Obviously our friendship has deteriorated. I miss him as a friend though, and I don't know whether it's right for me to regain a friendship with someone who is homophobic after we had such a huge row about it. Also one of my best friends recently told me in confidence that he was bi and I feel like I would be betraying him if I regained my friendship with Ali. Any advice is appreciated. rosierizzle
  4. rosierizzle
    My thoughts are with you, your boyfriend, your friends and your puppy right now. I hope everything works out. Rosie
  5. rosierizzle
    What Tigris said is perfect. It really does work. A guy did that to me and stopped me being really shy all the time!
  6. rosierizzle
    Well, don't let anyone else pressure you. Your friends might be saying that you should and you have to but it's totally up to you and if you do what your friends tell you to all the time then your never going to take your own risks or make decisions for your self. Just do what you want to do - no one else can decide for you. Also I've been in this situation very recently and I decided to do what my friends told me and it was the worst decision I've made all year because I discovered later that the guy was a total jerk. Make sure you trust him because if you trust him and he trusts you and you do mess up then he shouldn't be too bothered. If you do decide to kiss him/make out just go with the flow! It'll come naturally I promise!
  7. rosierizzle
    Well, I'm not sure if anyone has mentioned this but if she had got pregnant after having sex with her brother the child is highly likely to suffer from physical or mental disabilities. It's been proven that if you get pregnant with a siblings child there is a much higher chance your child will be born with disabilites. You should tell your friend this just in case she is thinking about doing it again. I'm not saying she will but she might, you never know. She probably did it because she was feeling alone or insecure. When we feel insecure we do things that seem strange or unusual to others and we will probably regret afterwards. You should have to be truthful with your friend about your opinions on it, she will value you more as a friend if you tell her. I'm not judging your friend but I personally would never have sex with my brother. It must have totally ruined her relationship with her brother. That sort of situation could break up whole families, especially if she got pregnant.
  8. rosierizzle
    I think you should start kissing on 'home turf' as you called it. I know you have already but it would be much easier because if she does turn around/reject you then there will only be you to see it not the rest of the cinema. And besides if she was showing all the signs of wanting a kiss, the heavy breathing, licking of lips etc then I doubt she would reject you. Just be confident and nothing can go wrong!
  9. rosierizzle
    please reply!
  10. rosierizzle
    You must be a very strong person to come through all that, I have no idea how that must have felt and like imagi I congratulate you on your strength. Keep seeing your psychiatrist and keep talking to your best friend about it, it's best to keep your feelings out in the open so you always have someone to help you. But remember these things happened in the past. No one expects you to forget what happened but when you feel strong enough don't keep thinking about it. Dwelling on the past will not help you at all, you will gain nothing by thinking about it. When you aren't with your psychiatrist try and keep your mind on other things. There's nothing wrong with talking about it but don't let it consume your life, I've seen that happen before and it's not pleasant. I'm not an expert but I hope that helped.
  11. rosierizzle
    as you can see love is something more powerful and deep
  12. rosierizzle
    love is something much more powerful than a crush and is more commonly mutual although it doesn't have to be. A crush is having strong attractions to a certain person however love is something that is much deeper and stronger that is hard to explain. Here are the dictionary definitions, love n. 1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. 2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance. 3. An intense emotional attachment. crush n. 1. A fancy or particular liking or desire for.
  13. rosierizzle
    I don't understand why people do it exactly but sometimes people find asking and answering these questions uncomfortable.
  14. rosierizzle
    alot of people have very low self esteem and haven't been in many relationships and are afraid that asking these questions could ruin any chances for them. Isn't this site for people who need help in that sort of thing? If they want help this is a place where they can it without people laughing at them or ignoring them.
  15. rosierizzle
    This morning my sister came into my room without knocking and asked if she could borrow a pair of my shoes. Normally I would have said yes but I was planning on wearing them later and I didn't know what time she would give them back so I said no. She kept on asking me for another two or three minutes then she got really angry chucked the shoes accross my room and called me a 'selfish b*tch' and some other things too. I didn't mind, insults don't tend to hurt me but I felt a bit upset because we usually get on really well. Also the other day she called me a 'fat slag' in front of loads of people and it was really embarrassing. She and my brother had been arguing so I raised my eyebrows at her friend and she said it in front of every one then afterwards she just carried on like she'd said nothing wrong. I normally get on really well with my sister and I know she's been under pressure from exams but that doesn't give her an excuse to say this stuff...
  16. rosierizzle
    i hug my friends (guys) all the time and I have a boyfriend so i guess it's ok!
  17. rosierizzle
    She is obviously insecure and is worried that you might be tempted to go back to your ex. Spend some more time with her and show her that she means the world to you then she will be more comfortable with you seeing other girls as friends. I think alot of girls would do this in your girl friends situation it is natural for girls to want to keep boyfriends in check! Just focus on your gf for now when she is ok with everything ask her if it wuold be okay for you to catch up with your ex as friends only.
  18. rosierizzle
    just sit/stand close in a private place and start leaning in gradually when your noses are almost touching lean your head to the side and kiss her!
  19. rosierizzle
    I'm an impulse fan myself!
  20. rosierizzle
    I wouldn't go to a salon that costs like £30 every 3 weeks. I'd go for the home with mother/sisters to help.
  21. rosierizzle
    Congratulations!!! I dunno how old you are but congrats anyway!
  22. rosierizzle
    That is so sad. That could have been a metaphor - I don't know - but I hope you find what you are looking for. You obviously loved this person very much and love makes people do amazing things. Keep searching, with enough love and determination you will find her. Good Luck Rosie Rizzle
  23. rosierizzle
    thank you! you are the first person who has ever said that to me! The sad thing is that the first person to ever tell me I was a 'very attractive girl' was someone giving me advice over the internet! lol!
  24. rosierizzle
    Give him a bit of time! He will come round eventually and if he doesn't why don't you ask him out instead!!!! I did! And it worked for me. So yeah, just be patient and don't give up on him. If you are his firts major nearly girlfriend sort of thing then he is bound to be very nervous!
  25. rosierizzle
    That's a really fab idea. The idea of rather than killing yourself-killing the parts of yourself that you hate and want to 'die'! I'm personally not suicidal but I found that very interesting and I'm sure loads of people who are thinking of killing themselves will find that very useful!
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