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guys...I know it's long but please read it and give me your thoughts. I value you guys. Where are you?

Sorry man...but I think any woman who is this forward isn't going to be with you long-term. She only wants sex...which is not really healthy for a woman...women who are healthy desire emotional attachment and connection. Not sex...sex is part of a committed relationship for a woman. So...this woman is going to get you, tease you, get herself pleased and move on. She's not into you...she's into an emotion she gets from pursuing you. I hope that helps and you make the riht decision.

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Flirting a lot yes...touching yes. Brushes up against me, bumps into me and tries to knock me over. We were sitting late at a cafe one night and I got up to go the bathroom and he had repositionned himself so that our legs were completely touching and I had no way to avoid it. So I just went with it. It's almost he realized things were going quickly and freaked out. And since then he hasn't been doing any touching and not much flirting either.

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Great idea...but that won't work into my schedule for today...but I get what you're saying. He won't interpret that as pressure?

Hi guys, Alright yesterday I mentionned the 21 year old that I am interested in who might be freaking out (remember?)...saw him last night and he started up a short conversation with me, but was much more reserved than normal. Since Monday his normal hugs goodbye have now turned into high fives (yuck!) and it was really awkward when I was leaving...normally he sticks pretty close to me and even walks me out...but last night I past him holding the door open and walked down the steps. He stayed where he was and waited for his guy friend. I want to just get this awkwardness out of the way and am thinking about talking to him about what our friend said to us "you should be dating"...cause the awkwardness isn't cool. What's the best way to go about that? I text him last night and he replied this morning. I then text him at lunch saying if he had a minute then call me. Nothing so far. I don't know what to say. I actually do want to be dating him. But I don't know how to say that. I'm okay if he doesn't want to date me... please reply guys! What would you want from me if this were you?

How do I go about giving him time? We are in the same social circles and in fact, I will see him tonight for sure. And could it be anymore confusing: ask again or give him time. Those are polar opposites.

Alright it won't let me post a separate topic. So guys here is another question: If you are spending a lot of time with a female and there is obviously serious attraction, you are concerned with what you say to her, you are vocally bummed when she can't come to things you are going to...and then a mutual friend says in your and her presense: "You two should be dating." (Of course, we both blushed and somewhat freaked out...way awkward moment.) What goes in your head for the next couple of days? This guy has pulled back, not returned a phone call (highly abnormal)...is he just freaked out?

Guess I've got nothing to worry about. I'm still in my 20s. Whew. Okay I'll add another question in another post.

Guys, How much older will you date? Let's say you are 21 - 23. =)

I absolutely shy away. It's a gut reaction girls have when the attraction is too much for us. So if you felt chemistrya nd she changed, it's probably cause she likes you so much and is worried and trying to do everything right.

Hello everyone. Fairly sure my guy likes me...(which I've wrote about on here before). But for some reason he is pausing...is there anything I can do to get him over that hurdle or does he pretty much just have to figure it out on his own?

That doesn't necessarily mean she's attracted to you. If I did that, it'd be because you made me happy...something you did, something you are wearing...or you remind me of someone and that thought makes me happy. Has nothing to do with attraction.

she might be attracted to you...or she might be just weird. It kind of reminds me of Napoleon Dynamite. That girl with the side ponytail who never has much to say.