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I think we are both into eachother, me and the girl. Only that I'm a bit shy, and she, as outgoing as she is, always goes shy around me. I'm quite sure that we are into eachother, and I really have no problem with the idea talking to her, I'm even determined to ask her out soon. I have evidence to make me believe that it could work and that it's worth it. I just want a few small talks etc, because it would feel weird if I jumped out of nothing and just.. asked her out. (Note, we used to have chats back then when I wasn't too serious about it. After some good talks, she became shy around me - so I know her a bit. I'm the only guy she's shy around, so there starts the evidence.. and there's much more too.) My problem is, that there's unfruitful awkwardness between me and the girl, and I want to break it. For some reason I just feel unable to talk to her, and it is quite clear that she feels something similar. Now this is not very good start for a conversation, I've tried, and it has been a bit.. hm.. weird. Do you have any kind of advice of how to start confidently a conversation, when there seems to be massive problems with starting one at all? Once we get the convo going, it would get easier, just starting it confidently and keeping it up in the beginning is the problem. I want to be confident in the beginning in order to show that I want a conversation withher, and not come up like this crap I usually come up with: "hey, is there a maths lesson next morning?" "umm.. no.." "oh okay.." END The second, not school related question just doesn't come out. She answers the first question and thinks that I just wanted the answer, and nothing more. I'm sitting somewhere near her, and I'm like "****!? Why don't I just say something? I'll just do it now!" And I never open my mouth, or then ask something about school.. and then I don't keep up the conversation, and.. Cripes, I hate that. I want it to stop - NOW! I don't feel actual fear, I just don't say anything, even though I talk normally around other girls. How to push the words out confidently? Thanks!

There was similar topic about guys, I would like to hear about girls. Do you just look at your crush from distance and dream, and avoid talking to the end (unless HE comes to talk to you)? If you're normally pretty outgoing, do you still just be silent as the grave and never talk to the guy, unless he comes to you? Or are you more sensible than guys and talk to your crush always when you see him?