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well the title says it all, to me after getting over my first serious relationship its not a matter of NC or talking everyone is different, You do what you need to do..I needed to know evertthing and found out. So people out there it takes time a lot of time but it does happen no miracle NC will work you will heal when you are ready to heal.
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Before you break-up i would suggest either talking to her i know it may be hard or take a break a break to me is that you still want to be with that person but just need time re-asses your feelings for that person. Why don't you organise some "hot" dates or suggest more adverenterous stuff.
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you will have up days and down, i believe you will never forget someone and even if you meet someone and are very happy there will still be days you think what if....
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Well we both have a bit of free time coming up so i know it will be the ideal time to spend time together if i don't have the feeling i will cut it off.
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no no i can get out of it, its just i never have felt like this before. She came passed today and i started really noticing her flaws, whilst before i didn't we had been going out for 3 years so i got a chance to see them but didn't. When you are emotionally hurt it can affect the physical side of things. I will keep at it for a while and then look at it again.
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yeah it takes time, but don't forget to tell people to have an open mind, sometimes true love takes years to return.
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Thats awesome, being in love is one of life best gifts... I guess the only advice is at this stage even though you want to see each other every second try not too.
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dude just relax and enjoy, i think she is really stoked at having a guy like you and doesn;t want to mess it up, tell her its awesome because she does it and only her. You can't stop thinking about it but don't expect it, she might suggest it then. Hope it helps Out of interest how old are you guys??
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thanks guys..your advice has been awesome..The pain was unexpected but i guess its part of the journey of healing. Thanks guys
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Hi guys...my Ex-Girlfriend broke up a little over four months ago, tried to get her back four about 3 months, it was over i finally accepted it and have no spoken for a while about 5 weeks. During this time i have been feeling pretty good, accepted the situation and looking to the future. However the last few days have been really hard it's like we just broke up in my mind and i can shake the feeling. Could it be just the New Year and spending it alone well sort off... i did hook up with a chick and i feel guilty for some reason. Has this happened to anyone else??
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thats awesome dude, exactly the same that i used to, don't worry about it
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i agree with prosper just take it has it comes.
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GF wants me back after 1 month break but told me she cheated
titan replied to Matt-Lee's topic in Trust and Relationships
well technically she didn't cheat, but i would run away your situation is pretty much the same as mine. I would forgive her but i wouldn't jump straight back into the relationship, be friends for a while i mean like 6 months then decide, i know it sounds stupid but i would want to make sure its just not another whim her wanting to get back together. People tend to tell white lies when this happens, perhaps she fancied this guy and he only wanted the chase got the goal and now she runs back to you. Sorry to sound harsh dude, believe me i mean it's been four months and it Austrlia is 2.00am and i am still up.. So i would want to make sure -
Taking a different view, maybe he has done something wrong and is trying to make up for it, or maybe he feels you have been pulling away.
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in reply to sisterlynch we are still very attracted to each other, but at times i feel like i am not sexually attracted to her i don't know why and i think she feels the same. My question is when someone mentally upsets you can it affect the physical side??
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one month i just don't understand how sexual desire turns off...I can understand mentally not being there but sexually??? Maybe its because i am a guy, but i feel as mentioned that it is the same for chicks.
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Can't get him out of my head.
titan replied to SilverManic's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
believe me its hard to go from talking like three times a day to not speaking. The adjustment period is the hardest. Never feel like there is noone to talk too. I bet all your friends are willing and able to listen. -
i mean i know she is hot...but i don't think we are connecting at the moment at least not like we used to and i sorta think she feels the same way.... I know when getting back together it takes time....How long do you guys suggest i should give it..ITs been about a week.
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Can't get him out of my head.
titan replied to SilverManic's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
after any relationship that is ended you need some time apart...It may be one week or one year..Its different for everyone. Take some time off...Continue that NC thing and forget trying to be friends for the moment....you may have to even ignore his calls, just do it and then see what happens. -
I am a guy and while i know i don't want to be with my Ex-Girlfriend we are still going out. I just wanted to ask whether its possible to feel sexually attracted to someone and then not...Its all physical so when she mentally gets me upset can it really turn off sexual desire and vice versa. I would like to hear from guys and girls
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i wouldn't say just young girls i mean where is the guys responsibility..
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These definitions could be used for everyone in my life in someway or another.. Doesn't anyone believe in one true soulmate???
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i wouldn't play games..ie not answering, ignoring...call her back ask what she wanted...be prepared for the standard "just to see how you are"...I don't want to give you wrong impression yadda yadda...Take it how it comes and try to be casual.. If you decide to call back.
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Perception of girls changes after learning sexual past.
titan replied to Double J's topic in Sex and Romance
dude i can see your point and you should wait...not for marriage but at least till your in a long term relationship and are in love with the person and she is love with you. Your first time like it or not is the one your always going to remember and you want to look back and smile everytime you think about it...So don't hold out in a relationship just let nature take its course and if it happens it happens..... On the other stuff about girls having sex b4 her history and life experience is what makes her the person she is today..if you like that person well then that experience has made her what she is so you shouldn't judge on things like that....but i can see what your are talking about with that chick 3 somes and all...i would stay clear personally myself. -
Dude i was exactly the same as you...As stated above make the C/Card the last offering but apart from that don't bother...even to find out whats happening..After a few days of not speaking you will see that its over "for the moment" (i Never close the door on anything), She will realise that you are an awesome guy and regret this stuff...Just give her time.. And don;t call and you must ignore her calls.