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  1. titan
    hey dude, so basically youn are are struggling with the question how could she do this to me? and it sorta has but a stain on the memory of the whole relationship, like during the relationship did she talk to anyone else was she doing this before. If thats the case she tarnished the memory of the relationship and you should just look at it as a decision she made and try hard to move on.
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    Yes i know its unfair but unfortunately its how it is for me for the moment, i am trying to change but it will take time, it really didn't mean to sound that harsh or rude. First time sex for girls always hurts for a few times is what i am told, isn't this true??? I understand what your saying about having sex when she isn't ready, but isn't she or is it fear, i cannot answer for her. As for borderline rape, i think that is an unfair comment for many reason but mainly with situations like this there is two sides to the story and we both dun know how she felt about it the time.
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    nah after what happened to me regarding my ex i feel less sympathetic towards those who have sex then say i wasn't ready and pressured into it cause no one had a gun to your head it was a decision u made, but thats not the issue. So if you know he is not after sex and are in love with him and know that he feels the same way, sex should be looked at as an expression of that love??
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    after reading your post i was tempted well lets just say not to be nice if you read my story. But after reading it again perhaps you should explain your fear to him, tell him you dun wanna it to be sex when u see each other and then cya in three weeks. It could also be the only way he feels he can express himself to you, as i stated the best thing to do would be to chat with him and it will soon be apparent what he really is after.
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    as i said i am not familiar with her story however, if it assists her with her personal learning i think its valuable to get other prespectives on her views.
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    then we can argue at what point is cheating, one would say we meet for drinks nothing happened then they meet for drinks for a few weeks/months nothing happens if the person then breaks up with the significant other to be with this person, according to you its not cheating but according to me it is.
  7. titan
    I am not familiar with your story emma, but it seems that you cheated with someone that didn't want a relationship with you and this is the only reason you came clean, went back etc. If this other person was serious and it worked out what would be saying then. AS i said i am not familiar with the whole story this is just the impression i got from your post.
  8. titan
    dude it passes, it goes from hurting all the time to hurting most of the time to hurting sometimes then rarely then hardly. I used this hate to drive me to do other things like go to the gym, now i am a regular and love it and have meet a few good friends through the gym, so channel you energies into something else.
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    hey i have been in a few situations when i have had to run from the authorities, and believe when the addrelanine is running through you, you don't have time to think its just get out get out. Personally you cannot judge a person in this state judgement is somewhat different.
  10. titan
    when i lost 50 KG's a few years back, i was the same eating when i was down. I just did something different when i was down and forced myself to do it, i usually go for a walk the hardest part was getting mentally motivated to do it but once i had that it was alot easier.
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    Hi guys its been a while since i have posted, but this stage is really confusing, after this happened link removed the anger is what had been carring me on, i mean i have grown confortable with carrying this hatred and anger that now that i knows its coming to an end i feel sorta lost without it. During this time healing i have gone to the gym, got better grades at uni, joined a football team and just keeping busy with the anger and hatred drving me. I am finally letting go but now feel sorta lost. Has anyone else felt like this and how did u overcame it??
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    lol i was trying to quote sumone else but didn't manage it not too sure how to quote ppl in this forum. I replyed a few posts above about my experience.
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    son of a gun. i was proud that my first time was at 15 with an 18 year old girl. i'm trying to decide which is more impressive cause your girl was older but i was younger don't really care though lol, but still, 22 at 16 lol yeah but but i have always looked older. Geez it was fun though.
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    i am surprised no one had a traditional in the car story like mine. Borrowed my fathers commodore and took out an older girl and i sort of lied and told her i had done it before but it didn't take long for her to realise that it was my first time. Car was parked in a dead end street 2 street away from home. I was 16 she was 22. I looked about 19 at the time thought.
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    you are only seventeen and still have a little bit of growing to do. My Ex was a c cup until 18 then all of a sudden was DD, so heres hoping. and no she didn't gain wait or anything
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    i think its just an easy exuse out of relationships, basically people mistake the new amd exiting for being "in love". this is what probably leads many people to stray from relationship, marriges etc. you either love someone or you don't and you can't fall out of love with someone unless they have done something terribly wrong to take that feeling away and when i try to think of love all you feel is hurt.
  17. titan
    i am sorry u feel like this with your friends, sometimes you do feel like a burden but have you not been there for them. I think the earlier you release what you are feeling the better you will feel.
  18. titan
    i don't think that true about being bad with the current partner. It cause u may not be over the first partner. Just out of curiosity is the new partner not doing something right??
  19. titan
    don't be ashamed, for many years i was considered the Rock of nearly everyone i knew. I was always solid and could never hurt my break up was particully pain full, (search my posts i have put a post up.) After this happened i felll apart and everyone was so surprised and shocked but now i have the total trust and confidence of my friends and they trust me so much more for opening up to them.
  20. titan
    exactly my thoughts. I also wanted to add are you really unhappy????? Or are u looking for resurance that your not happy to aliviate some guilt you might feel about this cyber relationship?? Just some thoughts
  21. titan
    I felt exactly the same and at times i still so. It doesn't go away just sort comes and goes in periods each period is shorter and shorter and futher apart. Don't hide from your friends after my break-up i found out whom my true friends were and who wasn't and i can honestly say its made me stronger knowing that if i need support i know i can rely on the friends that stuck with me.
  22. titan
    well have you actually meet up with this cyber fellow, and how long had this been going on, whilst you may get along really well now, things can change dramatically a) where there is commitment B) when u move in C) call yourselves a couple. Otherthan that i just suggest think everything through and don't built fantasies in your mind, not saying you are but people who leave partners for other tend to have fantasies about some super hero taking them away. (Not specific)
  23. titan
    yeah he was very very persistent
  24. titan
    Yeah i sort of agree woth you guys, but something is holding me back from letting go. She did mention a few times that she wanted to have sex and i just wanted to hold off till she finished her studies. I guess maybe i was also caught up in the emotion of easter it was my easter the weekend that just past so i was pretty lonely. I guess its tough but if she didn't respect her first time what will stop her again????
  25. titan
    Hello guys my story in short. Girl wanted to go out with me for 2 years during which i knew she wasn't ready she still had young girl issues. After wating two years ended up going out for 3 years, during her studies, towards the end started doing work experince in a law firm and pretty much all the guys started hitting on her. During the relationship i never slept with her, she was a virgin and i wanted to make it special i had planned a romantic get away for when she finished her studies, anyway one guy kept hitting on her and then did the usual, you can do better blah blah blah blah, she ends up dumping me and going out with him btw he is 35 - 40 and she was 22, what did she think he wanted. She slept with him and pretty much guys like this ignore her calls and texts the very next day. its been 8 months and even though i fell lonely and bad she is sufferring big time and just as announced she wants to get back together. I don't know what to do i love her and want to take her back but just sort of know i can't. I never pushed sex and she losess her virginity to some 35 - 40 sleaze bag who only was interested in the chase, during the break up period she was pretty uwful and said some pretty mean things. Is she just lonely or does she really want me back?? Am i mistaking my loneliness for feelings for her. i can't believe she would do that, why the heck did we wait for. any thoughts friends
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