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to all those who took time to reply to this simple problem... thanks a lot! i'm now enlightened but not yet decided... but somehow things are getting clearer... it takes time/hurt to fully get to know the answer. sometimes, it's infront of you but you're just too blinded to see. i know i can have someone to lean on with this egroup...it is so comforting to know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE...

i'm a newbie here and i want your advice. i have a live-in partner for 4 yrs. now... but i met this guy online. we connected very well coz he's from my place, he migrated 8 yrs. ago.. we chat, exchange mail, call each other almost everyday.. we get along well coz we share the same interest...things that me and my partner don't share. my problem is i'm falling in love with him, and i know he is too. each time i break up with my partner, he don't want me to. im confused... i don't know if i'll continue chatting with the guy abroad, or continue the relationship with my partner, though i'm not happy.. i maybe secured with my partner now coz i know he loves me, but i'm not in love with him. please help me.