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  1. hurtbylove
    Unfortunetly there isn't much you can do to stop it. Do you know who has been spreading these rumors around? If you keep yelling at the people who are talking about you, they will assume it's just true and keep talking. The best thing (and hardest) is to ignore them and it will go away in time.
  2. hurtbylove
    If you have to fight to keep your girlfriend, I'm sorry, but are you sure she is your girlfriend to begin with? A girlfriend should be able to stand up for herself and say that she is flattered, but is in a commited relationship. Having to fight someone to keep guys away means something isn't right. What if you're not there to fight them off? She runs away with someone else?
  3. hurtbylove
    I think a lot of the times, friendliness is misinterpreted as being flirty.. A lot of girls can be flirty and mean nothing by it, just having fun.
  4. hurtbylove
    Try to relax more, vary your speed... Yes, condoms definitely take away a lot of feeling, but don't do unprotected sex just for you to cum. Do you masterbate? You should know what turns yourself on best. Otherwise, the best advice I can give is relax, and don't worry about performance. I've had that problem before too.
  5. hurtbylove
    What kind of advice do you need? I think he does like you. Guys do sometimes keep girls around as friends, flirt with other people. Just keep going out with him and see where it goes.
  6. hurtbylove
    Why are you still contacting her at all. Just give her all the stuff that really is hers, minus cash, who asks for cash for stuff exchanged during th relationship. Sounds like she's trying to get back at you in any way possible. You should NOT have to be dealing with this at all. You don't deserve it. Especially the part about her new BF beating you up. Who does that? Just tell her firmly to leave you alone and to never call again. This is way out of line.
  7. hurtbylove
    Oh boy, I would be in so much trouble just to get on a date with 5 different girls. Just let your relationship run it's course, nothing is ever guaranteed. He might be right one, or not. Whatever happens, it's a learning experience.
  8. hurtbylove
    I don't ever believe it is right to string multiple people along at the same time. What if they ask if you are seeing other people? Do you tell your partner what you are doing? Or do you lie to them? It is fair if your boyfriend suddenly took a break from you to go investigate a new girl he liked? To put you on hold and have fun with someone else? What happened to commitment? Tea, she has been with her boyfriend for 2 years, Arif_ikth has a boyfriend. As long as you are willing accept the consequences of your actions, such as your boyfriend being resentful, or possibly never coming back, then go ahead. I just really dislike game playing when the feelings that people have are genuine. I'm sorry, but after 2 years, you are NOT in the free dating zone.
  9. hurtbylove
    I don't know many lesbians.. But I'm not sure it's good to perpetuate the stereotype that bisexual people love to have threesomes or multiple partners. Just because someone has chosen an alternative lifestyle, like being a lesbian or gay, does not mean they are no longer monogamous.
  10. hurtbylove
    *checks into insane asylum* I'm hopeless
  11. hurtbylove
    that's good that you are finding more out about your feelings every day. Yes, people do act differently around people they like 8) Sounds like you're having fun
  12. hurtbylove
    What is good about him then? Sometimes, after doing all you can and things don't change, just leave it at that. Why are you still in this relationship? He is probably taking you for granted. Why don't you make some demands? I think it's best for you to just walk away from this one, it just isn't worth it if you aren't being appreciated.
  13. hurtbylove
    Well, communication is key. Have you talked to her about this? Just tell her that "hey, it's ok for you to make plans for us too" No one knows what their partner is thinking, except maybe some exceptionally lucky people, you have to tell them so they know. Since you're making all the plans, she probably feels like she doesn't have to
  14. hurtbylove
    Well, so you know he likes you. He likes you. Go and see where it leads, thanks for the updates
  15. hurtbylove
    then I think you are on your way to liking him Good luck and keep us updated
  16. hurtbylove
    Did you like it when he flirted with you? If you reciprocate his actions then he will keep going further.
  17. hurtbylove
    The combination of substitution similarly sound words, "wood" for would and british speak threw me off a bit. Yes this was an obvious attempt to rub it in your face that she is with someone else now. Is it right? No, it's not. What can you do? Ignore her the best you can and move on with you life. This chapter is over for now, and leave it alone.
  18. hurtbylove
    Don't worry, many of us (ie me) have this problem too. I'm terribly shy, don't have much to say, even if you (girl) give me the fuzzies down in my heart. The more I like someone the worse it is. Practice is how you get better. I used to be terrible talking on the phone. My phone conversations used to be 30 seconds or less. Now I've moved up to 20 minutes, or until someone has to go do something. Just going out there and communicating will help you loads. And it's cute that you do that. Don't overanalyze things, you're normal and just fine ok?
  19. hurtbylove
    I meant to say "death of the relationship" in my last post. I had a sort of bad breakup. I was a mess. She left some valuable stuff with me and I really debated revenge of keeping it instead of giving it back. We had an argument about it and I didn't sleep too well that night, the next morning I dropped it off on her doorstep. But I held onto it for a while because I felt like she would have no reason to talk to me otherwise. Ironically she hasn't contacted me since either. I'm guessing it's to give me space. So just let it sit for a while. It's like a piece of hope, just a stupid reason to go and see her.
  20. hurtbylove
    I know how you all feel and I'm there with you. It's been really hard for me, but a good learning experience (such a minor silver lining) the bad far outweighs the good. I'm anxious to move onto the next stage of my life and leave this all behind me
  21. hurtbylove
    So far I can't tell if there are signs or not they want to come back. My ex hasn't talked to me in 6 months though I think of her everyday. They probably move on, think fondly of you, but are happier where they are. Blunt, but sad truth. If they weren't happy with their decision he/she would come back. I would like to say it gets better, but for me it's still kind of bad. Sorry for being such a downer. Getting over someone is different for everyone, we all have our own coping methods. Some better than others
  22. hurtbylove
    I think it's ok to just go ahead and grab your stuff back. But I also know that this is one of those, seeing you for the last time kind of deals. Getting stuff back is like the nail in the coffin, the final breakaway and deal of the relationship. Try to keep it neutral and brief.
  23. hurtbylove
    Given these brief tidbits he probably does like you. Why you are feeling the way you do I do not know. You should know youeself best. The next step? Go ahead and go out on a date. That's where you find out more about how you feel about yourself and him.
  24. hurtbylove
    dude stop analysis this stuff you will go insane trust me.
  25. hurtbylove
    empathy empathizes with my sentiments exactly.
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