Shinobie

Hmm its kind of weird and i dont understand it.It seems like when i talk to girls or around girls they get totally turned off around me and give off this feeling that im like stupid.Its like they treat me or give off that vibe that im like lower then them like im scum.This is not a vent but just a question why maybe all girls do this around me?

Its hte negative way but the way i get over something like that is i tell myself im not good enough.Thats the onyl way i see doing it because i dont have any good thought about the subject.good luck with it mang.

lol i have the opposite hobby i try to look away as much as i can whenever i walk by my reflection.I dotn wanna see my ugly mug anywhere so i never look at my reflection.

ya im kidn of like u man but not as bad as i used to be.I am too incredibly lonely and have been looking for love for a long time but cant even get the nerve to walk up too a girl and talk.I too dodge looking at girls that look really pretty because im far to ugly for them.I do a lot of things that u do man hopefully i jsut get the nerve to do more then i have been doing.Ah o well i just stay home and play games to keep my mind off these things.Good luck man and just try to be easier on yourself ive been trying hard too but it doesnt work to well

Iono ive never really believed in the whole soulmate thing but maybe thats because my mind is so negative.Cause most of the time it thinks that ill never get a gf but that frame of mind is just from friends saying i will never get a gf.So my comment is very confusing.Because iono if its my negativity talking or me just thinking its not true iono

ya dont worry ur not doing anythign wrong like many of these people are saying.He might just be afraid and way too shy to go up to you and kiss u.Cause is he a shy guy?Most of the time it takes shy guys to do one certain thing even if its not that big of deal.Cause look at me im a shy guy im really shy.Ive never even gotten the nerve to go up to a girl to talk and im 17!That just shows u how bad some shy guys can truly get.So even if hes a lil shy he might be afraid of something like that.Dont worry and good luck.

Ya i agree with the comment to ask her out because she said she would have said yes so she prolly doesnt have a boyfriend.So i say just wing it and go for it.I have a feeling she might say yes so just go for it but iono i might be stupid and wrong.But the worst thing is her saying no and thats not abad thing then just be friends with her.Good luck.

ya iono no matter how hard i try i always think that i wont get one.It just feels so distant too me like its never gonna happen.Its because ya i get looks from girls for long periods of time sometimes but its rare.So im thinking maybe i am a given taste as far as looks like its rare or something like that.But ya like ive said before dont be negative like me.U get too far down into negativity that u cant pull yourself out of it.

Ya i agree with the post up above i persoanlyl think thats how u should go about things if u are so anxious to get the response.If u feel really nervous u should just overcome it or wait for her to come back if u want to wait.Its all up to u man and i hope everything goes well good luck mang.

Ya i agree with that comment of when girls or guys will look at you for 3-5 seconds with that certain look they are interested.This happens rarely for me but it happens.What usually happens with me lol is they will look at me then look away really fast so i know what they truly think of me that im the ugly man o well its all in good fun doesnt matter.But ya just look for those signs and hopefully many girls are doing it to you!

Im currently taking anti-depressants that is for people who are bi-polar and thats what i am.They are currently helping me although sometimes i have these lil bouts of depression where i sometimes get really depressed again for some reason.Maybe check out something with your doctor and see if u can try out some anti depressants or go get some counseling.I've only been through counseling once so i dont know how it will do but ill find out in the momnths to come.Gl.

It should come when it comes.Dont be like me because i have my mind thinking its not gonna happen for awhile cause ive never had one.But just keep doing more man and listen to what some of these great people have to same.And stay away from being negative because ive noticed negativity likes to rear its ugly head and make things worse.Just let it come man.Because i agree with some of these people that it happens when it happens and you will know.Gl man.

Ya im 17 and im prolly a lil bit bigger then 6.5 inches the average.But it seems like most of these youngins say they have a monster penis the size of a porn stars.Im just saying the general people that post on this say theirs is huge.Im not calling anybody lyers just saying a general opinion.

Ya one trend i have noticed is that all these kids 15 and below say theirs is like 7-8 inches.Ive never seen one post with one that age saying its like 5-6.

Well ty for your post and ya maybe u should check to see if your bi-polar or not.Cause lil things like that can make me sad out of no where.Well gl with yourself and hopefully u can find out whats the prob

Man ive been taking these new zyprexa pills for people who are bi polar are great!Ive been happy for like the last 4 weeks pretty often and they seem to have been working.Unless this a manic stage of being bi-polar i feel great right now and im so happy and cant stop thinking about only good things.What medications are u guys taking anybody else that is bi-polar.How do u guys cope with it?And how much do u guys love ur new found happiness? Im currently enjoying it

U know u shouldnt want to do this and it is a bad thing to do.I always think i want to do it like i have tried once before but its my problem with being bi-polar.Im in a real high manic point right now and i think u should live.I believe there are plenty of people that care for you and dont want u to die.I too have the same problem that u do any girls i liek tend to think im stupid or somethign for some reason but thats just one problem.Just forget about that guy if he thinks of u like that.U dont need him.Try to do more things besides watching tv.I too have a way to get away and that is sitting at my computer playing video games.But people like me and you need to try to get away from these things that are so dear and helpful in our lives and do more with ourselves.Maybe get a job or something thats great way to feel good or do something u have always wanted to do.Like me im gonna try out snowboarding for the first time in my life here pretty soon hopefully that might be pretty fun.Just lil things to improve.Hope u have a good night and stop thinking about suicide and try to be as happy as u can be.People like me and many people at this site care about u plz dont hurt yourself. -Shinobi

Ya iono why i have such a problem with going up to a girl im just an incredibly shy guy that does not want to be rejected.I know i havent went up to a girl at all in my whole life thats just how shy i am.I do not know why im so shy i wasnt when i was younger but it came out of no where.We just fear rejection a lot of us shy guys.

I personally dont have those fantasies at all.I would just like to have one girl that i love all the time.That is the fantasy i got since i havent had a gf my fantasy would be having one since it seems so far away for me for some reason.

u guys always say that u go out with them to change em but whats the point almost always they never change.They jsut stay jerks because they constantly get women because they are attractive and shallow people like people who are attractive and have a mean personality its just human nature i guess for most to like that.

Tea what u dont see is that i come here to vent because i have no where else to go.U dont know how i act in real life.In real life im very clammed and tell nobody my problems not even my best friend or my family.I NEVER complain about girl problems to anybody at fricken all in real life.In real life im extremely shy too and dont know how to act around people.This is the only place to vent so i use it.

It just never stops many girls just keep on going out with jerks all the time its just an endless cycle.Like my friend jake keeps on getting girls and he is a big jerk.All he wants is sex sex sex he does not care about their feelings at all.But girl after girl just goes out with him seeing what i do not know at all in him.When they talk about marriage he just blows off those conversations and wants nothing but to get to the sex he doesnt care one bit about them cept for his own pleasure.O yah but the reason he gets all these girls is thta he has attraction which is what like 99 % of people go by and dont care one thing about the nice shy,unattractive guy or vice versa.I just dont get what the heck u girls see in jerks cept for their attractiveness.Any girls that have dated jerks why do u go for them and like them?What do u see in them?Why dont u ever go for nice guys like me?Is it because we are to unatractive?Anybody have some answers?I dont believe in u get what u deserve i think that bullcrap is totally false.Because nice guys like me get nothing and jerks get everything it is the other way around believe that jerks get girls and nice guys get lonliness.

Man some days it just seems like some days girls dont like me and think im not attractive.Like thats the vibes i get.But then somedays i notice some looking my way like today at school.While walking past 2 girls at different times they both looked at me in the eyes and smiled then look away.That usually means they think your attractive rigt?Its just kind of confusing cause its like each day girls seem to act different around me.

Well ive been trying to fight this crap wi8th being bi-polar and all but things are still weird.Its like waitresses at work say things about me when i got this haircut and say i have pretty eyes but i think its all lies to cheer me up.Cause when im out and about maybe only few girls give me looks and they are very slim to none.Sorry ive been trying my hardest to keep happy and stuff and be positive.Its just really hard because people always tell me lies to make me feel better so i wouldnt be surprised if they are.Its like i cant trust anyone at all because they dont want to tell me the truth.but ill try to keep a happy face

Yes it doies and its nicew of u too point it out.I personally think it says a lot too maybe its true .