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Shinobie

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  1. Maybe i should try that imaginary thing lol.Im going no where with girls and have never gone anywhere with girls.I just keep aging and i wonder how long will it be until i get a gf.Hopefulyl i dont become a guy who hasnt had a gf his whole life and is 30.that would suck so much i couldnt believe how i would feel then.Ill try to keep positive though as hard as i can.
  2. Your feelings are completely normal.U are just a lot more mature then all the kids around you and that is a good thing.U want a deep loving relationship.I too am the same as you as i am more mature then all the kids around.Dont worry you will find it one day u just have to be patient.IVe been trying to be patient for a lil bit lol so good things will prolly come for u.
  3. I think im a lil obsessed with it.Because it is like on my mind all fricken day long and i cant get it off my mind.So iono lol.
  4. Ok lately i have been really happy.But one thing that still plagues my mind and always has been for a long time like ive said on here is girls.I wish i can get it out of my mind but it just wont get go away lol!I was just wondering if any of u guys can stop thinking about this subject or does it always plague ur mind?Everywhere i go thats all i think about.The only way i can stop thinking about it is if i sit down and play games thats the only time.Whenever im at work thats what im thinking about,at school,at a friens house.Also involving jealousy whenever i see all the girls liking my best friend and they never like me or anything.Its something i want to get off my mind and not care about.I was wondering do any of u suffer from the same problem?
  5. You know u dont want to do this because people love u and care about u and u know it.I feel this way a lot of the time because i feel like i dont have many friends.Or i feel like im gonna be hopeless wit girls and never get a girlfriend or juust one as a regualr friend since i havent had one yet and if it will kepe persisting.PLz dont do it because u should know its not the right thing to do.I have felt the same pain day after day for like the last 6 years.But it finally fixed things up when i took care of my bi-polar disorder.Just look at the positives and go from there try to be happy.
  6. O cool padreamer ur back im glad u are!NIce to hear that u r getting married and i hope it is a great one too.Gald to have u back.
  7. Personally I love girls that are shy I dont know why it always has been a thing i loved in a girl.I just think it makes them that more attractive and its just really great to me.So i was just wondering is there any girls out there that like shy guys.Because me i just cant seem to break out of this shyness no matter how hard i try.I always end up just smiling and being struck with fear and not saying anything when girls try to flirt with me for fun.So i was just wondering is there thta certain girl that goes for shy guys and finds that appealing in any way.Just seeing if there are any girls that are like me with guys.
  8. Dont worry my best friend is a compulsive lier and i have to go throuhgh the exact same nonsense.I've learned to just cope with it and ignore that non sense.Because all they ever do is take a lot of offense to it when u get them at something.I know it sucks but ive tried to confront him a couple of times and he got mad.So i just let him get away with it now.But maybe i should keep confronting him but iono.Im just as lost as you are
  9. Sorry this picture is very bad but it is the only one i got.I was just wondering if i look ok or bad been grown up thinking im bad looking because of how people treat me and some have called me ugly.
  10. Its not lust at first sight at all for me.For me im just captivated by her beauty and cant get her out of my mind.I dont feel lustful i feel love for some strange reason iono why.
  11. Ok this question has prolly been asked before but i havent seen a post like it before or remember one for that matter so i just wanted to see how many people believe in it again.Cause there is this one girl that i first saw back like 3 years ago and i have always had her in my mind and its like something struck me when i first saw her.Its like there is something about her that captivates me and i cant get her out of my mind.Its like i have always liked her and stuff.So i was just wondering how many of u believe in llove at first sight?
  12. I just had the question why is it so important to people?I mean people put down people who are virgins and like aging old enough past the age most people do it.Cause a lot of people in my age group have done it before me and they act like its so important.I personally believe that kissing would proly be more intimate to me.But people always want to have sex right away and thats the most important thing about their relationship.Iono i just think there are other things about a relationship that could be just as intimate or even more.Many people just treat it like something they enjoy so why is it so important then?Wouldnt it be much more special if it was waited for?So ur actually making love and maybe make it more special?Cause o man i think kissing would be great it just feels like it would be nice and intimate u know?Well iono i just dont get why sex is so important just a lil question.
  13. I guess im very different from a lot of people.Personally i would wait 1 year at least and see if we are comfortable with each other.I think sex is a special thing that should be waited for.I dont treat it like something regular that u do right away but thats just my opinion.I believe u wait for these things till u really know u truly love someone which takes at least a year i think.My ideas are the same as my friends and we agree on both of our ideas.We think that it should be waited on until marriage too most of the time.But we agree that we would wait a whole year to be comfortable and truly know if u love someone to even start thinking about sex.
  14. Lately with these new pills for my bi-polar disorder i have feeling pretty good and happy.I'm finally getting a lil more serious on the subject of girls and i already got my ideas down for when i go back to school.I feel like i can actually make some progress with girls now maybe since ive gotten a lil bit more used to communicating with girls.Well this one girl ive always liked at high school that rides my bus.I'm Thinking im gonna try and talk with her.But that is like 1 month before i can try that so from now till then im gonna try and get better and better at talking with girls.There is this one waitress that always flirts with me for fun cause she thinks its funny since im easy to pick on so that can help me out until then.So i got my plan set down and i hope i can get it working and hopefully i can get to know that girl.And one question to end it all off.Whats a good way to start a conversation with a girl on a bus any ideas?Is it bad to maybe pick up something from ease dropping sort of and talking about that or what?
  15. Hope you are feeling better.Ur such a great help to everyone on this forum and i hope u keep feeling great and healthy!
  16. I agree with people who say whatever a guy is is what he usually likes in a women.IM tall and lanky so i like a girl that is kind of tall and lanky to but has some shape to her.I think that is the hottest thying about girls is the shape of their bodies.So i like having that too.
  17. I think your way too old to think about f buddy's and all that non sense.Dont u think about having an honest loving relationship with someone?I guess im just really mature cause i dream about being married to the one i love and having kids.I dream about stuff like that and im only 17.Maybe since i havent had a girlfriend all my life it has given me new found morals and dreams about having a special relationship and dying for it more.
  18. The only ones i remember is when i dream about having a gf ah i wish that was the true world lol
  19. calm down its not that bad if everyone has done it except.Look at me im 17 and ive never held a girls hand or done mere childs play.So it just shows ur far from behind.I mean 13 is such a young age.IM still aching to have a gf but it doesnt come so o well ill just keep waiting hopefully the wait isnt to much longer.
  20. For guys like me who are shy as hell no its not the good way to be because we become more intimitated and back off a lot.But if the guy is probably really confident and really interested in going for girls then maybe playing hard to get will be more of a challenge for him and maybe he will keep going after that girl since his confidence needs a challenge.IOno im not way to sure but i hope i have helped.
  21. well somethign that sort of bothers me like my friend complains about how he cant see his gf and stuff and just keeps on ranting about it.LIke blah blah "so fricken lame i cant see her at all today because of her stupid dad and stuff".Its like lol.I havent seen my gf my whole entire life cause ive never had one do i really wanna listen to you?BUt i definitely dont say that because im so clammed up and dont tell them anything about that.Thats why i come to this site dont things like this bother u fellow girlfriendless/boyfriendless for your whole life people?JUst wondering if the same thing bothers you cause it bothers me lol.MAybe its just because im jealous or something but o well now back to listening to fall to pieces by velvet revolver that song is great
  22. Iono for me since im a shy and really low confidence guy.Girls with lots of confidence is usually a turn off for me since it feels likke they are too good for me.I personally think that a shy unsure of herself girl is more of a turn on for me.I love girls who are shy just like me
  23. Iono ive noticed its the other way around here like girls like when hair is short and they can see your eyes more.Or maybe its just for me since some girls say my eyes are pretty for some reason iono why.
  24. Im exactly the same as you dont worry i think there are plenty of us who are the same.Ive never done anything with a girl and i think the same way about sex as you.I personally get totally turned off when girls talk about how many people they have done and i bet plenty of girls get turned off by guys who have had many sexual encounters with girls.Like u said when u heard that girl had sex at 14.I personally think that is way to young of an age to have sex and lame.Altough people all have their own decisions about it.
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