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  1. Shinobie
    If physical attraction is actually that important then ugly people like me have no sense of meaning or hope in our lives to love,to be married,or someday have kids.If it was like that i would feel worthless, like i have no meaning too live for anything.That would make no sense and i would hate it to death.If it was like that i would commit suicide.But i do believe there is a girl out there that will look past looks and look at me for my inner qualites.
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    Thnx for the very nice post i appreciate it a lot.Ya ive never had a gf so it gave me time to think over what is wrong and right about whats going on with my friends and other people's relationships so it gave me some morals i guess.Like from their thoughts and peoples thoughts here.I dont really how i got to where i think today.I thinks its just because i went without.
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    She sounded like a good moral person that one that gave me compliments.She goes to church,shes nice,and she doesnt lie much and dislikes lying and people who lie.But this one guy she thinks that is really hot she has really gotten into him.A guy i work with said that she took this guy home to do u know what.And they like prolly been out like 1-2 times im guessing.So maybe she is just one of those girls that wants to have sex with attractice guys if what my co-worker said was true.It seems like the girls that are beautiful on the inside and dont mind looks so much are taken.And the girls that want to have sex all the time or the ones that are only attracted to guys who are hot are the ones i run into that arnt taken.
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    Ya i feel the same way as u darkblue.Was just wondering if people think its better to be the other way iono.
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    Ok when it comes to things personal im a very closed up person and say nothing to anyone in my life i only vent here.Ya when i wasnt on the depression pills i did the same thing and do u think this might have cause my depression to be a lil bit more severe?Ya i dont go to my mom for help i just keep everything clammed up,i dont tell my friends my problems with girls or anything.Would it help more if i was more open with people?It feels like its too hard for me to go that way.Do u know anyway i can become motivated too maybe become that way?
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    Ya dude ill see if i can go by your advice because its great advice but doing that i would be too shy and way too nervous and i would prolly screw everything up iono ill see if i can try.
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    Im just saying caldus my friend can have sex with a girl so fast it isnt even funny.As for a guy with me if i was one of those guys who cared so much about sex it would take a long healthy relationship to have it but i liek it that way.Like this girl at work she said im not as bad looking as i think,im fun to talk too,and im really nice and caring.Shes really nice but it seems as tho she would want to go out with the really hot guy that works there instead.Just like usual i can never find a relationship but o welli dont really mind just keep on looking.She either thinks of me as more as a friend or just like usual what ive noticed wants the more attractive guy.O yah and for the 5 seconds thing shy i meant when u climax.I mean i see it as the whole process of sex the whole thing can be very loving and passionate.But i meant that some guys just look at it that way as the climax.
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    Dude ya maybe the girl shouldnt hit on the guy but what about if she comes up to talk to the guy?And just start out a conversation i personally think that would be great.Or goes about it more slowly and gives the inclination she might like you.I personally dont believe a girl that goes up to you and starts it is easy.I personally think this would be good for going up to us shy guys or the ones that personally dont care about the whole male domination thing for starting up something.This definitely would not be for the type that are hot and confident because they are so used to getting girls they would think this girl was easy liek said before.
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    No dude women do the same thing just not as much as guys i believe or maybe they do iono.I was just agreeing with shy's comment too.I was just specifically talking about the good girls that fall for their tricks.Maybe i should of mentioned the other side of the conflict sorry.
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    Dont u diss shysoul like that man he posts a lot of good encouraging,expressive,and great information.Romance is good for some people and thats what they like.I truly think like shysoul and i think im gonna wait till im married before i have a sex.Maybe ur the type that thinks "O ya im the man gotta have sex as many times as i can to be teh man!"I dont mind that u think that way if u do because its your life.As too us its our lives and romance would be the key thing to a relationship we would like.
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    I dont think its a matter whether ur a guy or a girl which makes it easier to have sex.I think it matters about looks.Cause if your good looking BINGO! U can have sex with somebody prolly like 95% easier then any ugly person.My friend is really hot too girls and he attracts them the second they look at him.And why is sex so important to everybody i mean holy crap.I mean 5 seconds of joy then boom ur done.I would think being in love and having a passionate kiss would be more exciting. O yah and before u say it i know im gonna get a couple of o you dont know what ur talking about uve never done anything or otherwise stafoo noob like we say in cs or the game world.These are just feelings from the heart that i feel i would like.
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    You cannot, cannot, cannot have a healthy romantic relationship without sex or the possibility of sex. I am not talking about waiting till your married (because then there is the anticipation of sex)or shool age sweetheart things. I am talking about two mature people in or planning to be in a long term relationship. I would defy you to find me one relationship that lasted 5 plus years between 2 people over the age of 21 that had no sex involved. Anyway, i don't want to hijack the thread so maybe we'll have to agree to disagree. Melrich My friend who just got married like one year ago.They are very strong church goers after they screwed up their lives but now everythings set and everythings great for them now.They waited 5 years till they were married to have sex it does happen.
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    Dont worry dude m and all my friend have never had gf's except for one because he was mr.hot and mr charisma and he was my best friend tho so i wont be mad at him for being lucky ya so thats like 5 including me that have never had a gf we were the losers without girls in high school.But i can say one thing i did enjoy spending all my time hanging around with them instead of being in a relationship that prolly would of went to crap like many of them.So just enjoy what u got now.
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    Ya iono that sounds pretty rascist and u will question ur choices later on in life.I believe u can find love in any race we are all the same.Cept for appearance and maybe accents and stuff.But i believe we are all the same on the inside.I dont care if i fall in love with a black women id love her just like any girlfriend if id ever have,even if i fell in love with a chinese girl she would still be the same in my eyes.So basically too me love is not formed by how the person looks or their race its formed by how beautiful they are on the inside.
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    Most teenage guys are idiots i personally think too.A lot of them ive meant all they want is sex and nothing more.And plenty of poor girls fall for their tricks
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    I totallyagree with you saltwatergirl.I mean someone who would actually cheat on their true love does not have their priorities in line or something or they are just really mean and cruel too hurt the person they love so dearly.Even if the person ur going out with u dont love, at least be a nice person and break up with them instead of cheating on them.They might love u and it might break their heart
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    Why would she be desperate dude?Whats so bad about that if she wants to aska guy out.Maybe he is shy or something and maybe she wants to be the one to go up to the guy and start something.I mean why would that be so bad?Should girls have to listen some strange rule we've had for so many years.Maybe some girls would want to try going up to the guy.
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    Ya i have the same exact problem and i cant sleep and its making me so sleepy.My mom said it is these video games which i play late sometimes.But like tonight since i got home from work i tried to fall asleep for the last 7 hours and couldnt.Maybe we both just have some insomnia problems diva cause this has started happening to me just a lil while ago like u.Ive gotten like 12 hours of sleep in like the last week what about you?
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    iono anal sex sounds extremely gross.Me and my friend said we would never do it in our lives.His gf asked him for it but he said no way!
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    One question?What is the reason to cheat?I mean cant u just break up with him or her and get everything over with then move on?I mean if u r gettin these urges u do not truly love this person.And its easier just better to break up because then one of you will feel guilty and the other person will have their hearth broken iono relationships are confusing
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    I dont believe the fact that she will have no friends.I dont think it really matters it only matter sif your shy around the opposite sex.I am usually a really shy guy and i have had plenty of friends over my teenage years that i feel good about.Ive only never had a girl that was my friend or a real girlfriend.So i believe it mostly accounts for the opposite sex.
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    Ya i definitely think women making the first move is really cool.It makes things for say us shy guys a lot nicer or anyone.It gives me the impression that some girls want to change the rules and be the instigator and thats really cool
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    Im glad u guys have a found a solution to your situation.Cause if u guys would actually be able to get some college in u can definitely get good enough jobs to make ur baby's life stable and wonderful.I hope everything goes well for good luck.
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    Ya i like ur advice a lot smallworld ty.No matter what if some girl put me int he friend category i like to treat them the same way as i always would.
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    Ya thanks man im glad to see another guy that thinks the same way about these things.
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