Shinobie

Dont worry nabi_met there are many guys like us.We just get too sit at the side and spectate all these mistakes people do.We are all really shy too but ya.We just think in our heads none of these girls will want us because they try too find the hot guys or the jerks.I dont know about you but i watch whats going with these people theres many accounts of guys just using these girls or them getting into an abusive relationship.Or the ones where guys get women get pregnant then leave them.Iono if some of u guys feel this way.But i feel like i have so much good too give to a girl but im never gonna have a chance too use it.IM not kidding they seem too look down on guys like us because of our looks.Ill just look up and look at them once and they look at me like yah your ugly.So i just never look at them or look at the floor like usual.Dont know if any of u guys get this same from girls and i see you do nabi_met.

Ya i think u know what im talking about shysoul.O and to clarify once again.Yes Anna Nalick is a dream girl but ive never had any dreams about her.What she does is she opens my eyes too women.She brightens my focus on teenage girls and tells me that there must be girls out there like her.She sets good standard for women i hope too meet out there like that.O and Btw shy i have found a friend that i did not ever think thought like us.He thinks like me and just wants too find love.Me and him know we wont find it in a town like this.This town sucks lol i hate it.So hes just using myspace too maybe someday find a girl like this that wants love.I hope he finds it i will be very happy for him.

Wow sorry u make my mind hurt out of frustration ](*,) .Wow i get bashed online yay.I know you kind of girls from my life.Well ill just call u clones because thats what most teenage girls are.But ill leave the rest of the words too myself.The key thing in my dreams is that im dreaming about loving things not sex so yah whats that point got to get me too put me down or something?

NO lol dude those dreams arnt about Anna Nalick.I listen too her music and like her because of how it makes me dream about how there are girls out there actually like that lol shy.IM not jking lol trust me.I usually dream about girls i have admired at a distance not doing anything sexual in these dreams.But like some of them i dream about kissing and some i dream about hanging out with them walking around.

Ya dont worry dude dreams can be stupid and idiotic.I do get lucky and get dreams where im doing romantic things with girls but thats only prolly because i want that and have never done that before.Dont worry when i wake up after a dream like that it makes me depressed because it wasnt real

Ya dont mind him.There are a lot of guys especially teenage ones who only think about sex when they are around their gf's.I dont really know lots of guys do not have control of their own minds when it comes to that.Their hormones like control their mind or something.Ya if u dont want to have sex then dont do it with him.Maybe if you like him still but he keeps on bugging you and making you feel this way prolly leave him like the above poster said.

Oh my goodness praise u nosoul!!!!You are like one of the very few girls i hear say that!Some teenage girls do have some great and high morals and im glad i hear that your boyfriend accepts that u dont want too .I personally dont think its stupid you are truly beatiful person for thinking that.Hope i meet a girl like you someday u give me hope.I wish the best for you and your bf hope things go well take care.

Ya dont mind a lot of men when they are around women they think with their big head maybe 1% and with their smaller head about 99% .

Hmm ya were u trying to say that was the meaningless types of sex but iono?Ya iono basically it seems like there are about only 5% people in US who have a lot morals in their lives or at least teenagers or the young people i am surrounded by.

Because it's some instinct to like physically attractive people. We want to mate, and we want to mate with a person who will bring good genes to the table, so to speak And also i believe that is our gosh damn right to act like human beings and not act like animals.We have a mind that can think up amazing, great, wonderful thoughts.Why not use it?IM not gonna go through life hey let me use a monkeys instincts ya!With these basic teenage thoughts most girls get burned by these heartless guys because they are hot and know they can take advantage of someone.I dont really care about that gene nonsense.Because the fact is the people that are good looking did nothing for their looks what so fricken ever so it doesnt matter to me they born that way like i said.They have no right to put people down.Cause ive seen people getting picked on for their looks before.Ok time to listen to Anna again and drown out my bad thoughts and just think good like maybe theres a girl like that.

Iono im not too fond of the gorgeous batch of girls.Practically all the time ive ran into one they think im ugly or some of them put me down and think of me as scum.Cause what i personally think is that we did nothing at all for our looks nothing at all.We were born that way.They didnt do anything at all to achieve it so why do they brag and put it in your face.Sorry now back to the point.Thats how i feel about gorgeous girls and i stay away from as far as i can.I like less attractive girls more because they are usually shy and sometimes give me looks if im lucky.

I would never do it and that goes completely against my personal morals.I personally think its disgusting and stupid.I dont like it all.

Ya i mean even if a girl has like nothing there.I know some guys would be shallow enough not to date her.But i mean you should love a person for who they are not by being so obsessed with theirs breasts.I mean it just seems kind of lame.

Your own parents told u that tigris??That sounds like kind of a harsh thing to tell your daughter or son.My sister is basically the same story and they didnt tell her no matter how mad they get.

Thnx for the very nice thoughts and points shysoul.And o yah nah i havent really done anything to correct the situation but i dont know what u mean by that.Like what do u want me to correct just my negative thoughts?Well as for bad stories once again.There is this girl at my work that had a bf.But im not sure if she does now.Well this guy i work with is like 20 has no ideas of college and is dishwashing reminds me of a druggy and plus hes the type that believes girls are just best for sex and nothing more.Well he claims that she was hitting on him.Shes a girl getting her things straight getting good grades and just about to go to college.Well he went out to her car when she was leaving and they were talking about for 20 minutes.Cause i was out there waiting for my ride.Im thinkings wow plz dont go for this guy!And another waitress at my work a young one.Said that she doesnt believe in falling in love at her age.And she goes from guy to guy to just have fun.I cannot find any girls that think the way i do at all.Well there has been some that were at my work but they were already engaged and one has a great guy for her fiance im happy for her.Ya lol shysoul how u said u had a girl a that u liked a lot too listen too.Anna Nalick is definitely the girl i liek to listen too lol.I love every single song on her cd and all of them have meaning and are beautiful and has the greatest voice ive ever heard.Shes the most beautiful person ever in my mind sure she is great by looks but on the inside makes her how beautiful i see her just by listening to her songs and looking at her diaries on how things are going on her singing career.Gives me hope for meeting girls out there like her.Seems like girls are hard to find but i bet there are plenty

Ya it just depends on the person.I personally think its big thing to me and i should do it with someone who is extremely special in my life that special someone but hey iono just my thought.Im prolly gonna save it for marriage.

Ya im really glad to hear a lot of girls saying that the value of experience isnt as great as what people say.Cause personally i have never held a girls hand in a loving way or been in a relationship and im 18 so that might be a lil bad.So it makes me happy that i can still maybe be good at things in a relationship even if i havent done them.Nice post really encouraging.

Well iono some people hope it helps when they tell someone arnt they a lil young.Because they dont want to see their lives go bad say if they get pregnant or something.My friends mom was 14 when she had him and she has been in debt for so long.She had to drop out of high school and get a really low paying job to barely support my friend.People just hope maybe they get through to these kids to maybe help them.I know its small chance if they use protection but it still happens.

Dude lol no way am i jealous of those older guys of what i was talking about.These girls are 13 and im no pedophile at all.I just basically look at them like kids.These guys are like 19 going for them thats 6 years.And in teenage years i consider that pedophilism.IM 18 and would not go for a 14 year old at all.Maybe a 15 year old but that is only if they are really mature and remind me of an older person.Im usually more on 2 years younger only.Well yea i would feel jealous about all these guys gettings girls.For the fact that a lt of these guys are usually somewhat attractive to girls.Well im worried about screwing up and the fact that i am basically not attractive too like all girls.

Well im a very negative person when it comes to girls definitely.But my friends are pretty darn bad themseleves.My friend has gotten so bad off because hes never had a gf and he thinks all the girls are sl**ts in our town and that they are way too shallow to give him a chance since hes semi big and unattractive.And another friend thinks the same thing and always talks about it.My mom says that she was in idiot when she was younger and didnt make the right decisions with guys.As a long with like a dozen old women i have talked too.Maybe everybody i meet in my life is messed up just like me.But its semi true in the town like most girls go to these small dance places in town.And they have prolly had sex like 10 times with different guys cause these jerks that are like 7 years older go and pick em up.And even my best friend disappointed me before he went into the relationship he talked about sex as it being important over like the years ive been friends with him and he goes and has sex with 2 different girls in like 1 months.And the second one he did like 20 times and im like ok.... his gf had had like 4 partners in like 1 year.With how much girls dissappoint me by like lookin at me with disgust or never being interested in me.It has conditioned me into now whenever i walk by a younger girl i dont look at her at all and avoid her as much as fricken possible.Iono basicaly the subject of girls and relationships for me has been totally ruined.JUst by when my friend made hints of being ugly girls calling me ugly and stuff.Never one look from girls ever at all hasnt made me like myself much or give me any confidence let alone the stories or here or how bad my friends view on girls is.Now whenever i see an attractive my mind immeditely thinks shes shallow she wouldnt like you dont waste ur time.Without me even trying to think it just like goes through my head instantly.Iono i kind of wanna try and get myself better off too maybe give myself a better perspective but its kind of hard to do this with so much negativity.The only really positive thoughts that go through my head is whenj i sit here and listen too Anna Nalick.It might sound corny but i heard people with singers that make them happier when they listen to them.Sorry this is kind of vent but also maybe i need some thoughts from other people on how to think better about girls and myself but its just really hard.

Personally i am attracted too like any hair color.Personally i like the way girls do their hair because it makes them look really cute,pretty, or beautiful which are all different things to me.Personally i think u should be proud of ur own true hair color.Too any people with the less picky mind u should look just as pretty with whatever color your hair is.

Ya from what i see these other people are sayign and what i think its prolly just best to teach him how to kiss.Maybe u can try it in a gentle way or something.Becase if i turn out to be like this if i ever kiss then i would want a girl to teach me.Woops sorry started posting this before ur post was posted.

Ya from what its sound like she is definitely interested in you.Definitely make a move dude and gl.Listen to beec he sounds he knows what to do.

Ya then that should definitely be good.It sounds like she is prolly interested.But prolly get a lil more opinions because ive never had a gf so i prolly dont really know what im talking about.But at least im helping with what lil i can

Ya personally i havent really done both but i personally think i would find kissing much more intense and exciting for me then sex.Well im not thinking of pleasure but thinking about love.After reading and hearing how people treat sex it kind of grosses me out ruining what i see sex as.So many of my friends just want to get to sex with their gf's its not even funny.Or how many people see it.I dont really see it as that great anymore.