dan_the_man2004

Basically sent a funny valentines card to a girl that I like and it seemed well received but I still do not think that she knows it was me! whats the best way to let her know suttly? in a light-hearted manner.

Cheers Big ears! Yeah I think thats true, give her a couple of days and then just ask her in person. I'm on a slow learning curve about these things. Girls love confidence and i do have the confidence to ask her out in person. Thank you

I asked a gurl out by a message in a christmas card and i left it a day or two see if she would reply, but i didnt see her and then the christmas holidays hit. 3 weeks of them! (she went away for the whole holidays) so I have asked sumone out and no reply for three weeks! were good friends so i can easily talk to her so I don't know how to go by it? should I say something like, 'hey there! did you like my christmas card!' any suggestions would be welcome. cheers and happy new year!

thanks guys cheers yeah i will wait coz she's getting a new mob for xmas and she doesnt use her old number! so basically i have no way of getting to her! i will put the good or bad news up

I asked this girl out just a few days ago by a note in a xmas card. Nothing corney. however i left it to her to talk to me but she's gone on holiday to hugary all of the xmas hols so I will not see her for three weeks. I did not find her on the last day of term however simply because i didn't see her. does anyone think that it was good to leave it on edge for three-four weeks so she has time to think it over? any stories of your own would be welcome.

thanku very much everyone. has helped, just needed convincing myself! cheers

alrite, Im 16 and lyk a girl who is also 16 but in the year above (or grade in america). we play b-ball a lot and been friends for bout month but I started to get the idea she is thinking different. two examples r whenever I get picked for her team in b-ball she gets relli excited and another is in the corridor she starts staring at me a lot. I feel relli awkward asking her out coz i get mixed signals. probs the answer is to take the plunge and ask her out sumtime and see how it goes. lol soz to be depressing. also an issue is is it wrong for a younger boy to go out wit a girl in the year (or grade) above? One last thing is that maybe I shud go for a girl my own age, coz i feel that people will look on her and saym 'oi look, its that girl thats goin out wit that year 11!' Gud thing to spark off convo I hope! Fire away.