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Hey toggle, it's been a while since ive heard from you. and im glad that i finally am. i still think th at you should seriously reconsider this whole thing. you say that you need someone to talk to? well id say you have a lot of choices... soo many people have responded with their thought, advice, and care. im sure that theyd love to talk to you if you asked. heck, you could tal to me if you want. just so long as you think this through. i dont think you really want to do this. everyone else doesnt want yu to do it either. please dont, dont throw away what you have. you may want to end your life because it seems so bad, but you should want to lve it, because of all the good. dont do this, talk to someone, do whatever you think would help. go with te good. i know i ramble a lot, and im sorry if i did. i hope you do contact someone and decide not to go through with this. *Wishes for the Best*

hey, Yeah, its a really stressful time. my moms loosin it all the time. my dad was layed off 2 years ago when time warner (= ) bought his company. He's been looking for a job since then, and my mom has been picking up more and more hours at work. she says that we're running out of money and shes always srtessing about something. lots of fights have been happeneing between her asnd my dad, like i said, things are falling apart. i dont know why exactly im sudenly falling in my classes, but its just that suddenly instead of receiving tests with 95s and 98s on them, ive been getting them back with 67s and 73s on them with a note saying "better prep needed". but i know thats not it. i think its bc of whats going on at home... because if ity wasnt then what has changed in my study habits? nothing has, ive been doing the same thing year after year, always getting the same results. its not that its getting harder, i know most of it from learning it last year, and i understand everything fine. its not that im paranoid about getting a bad grade, its something i know. ive been looking over my grades, and hearing little comments from my teachers hinting at my unsatisfactory progress this quarter. in western civ, i caught a glimse of the grade book, the grades were in chronological order, and this is what it read for me: A-, B+, A+, B, 73, 89, 67, 76 it sux! the As and Bs in the front are homework grades, they're averaged together, then averaged with the number grades. this is my calculation: home work average: 88.75 Test and quiz average: 76.25 total: 82.5 Extra credit work: +3 Fina total: 85.5 .... ok, so my calculations were wrong on that one... either that or i messed up one of the numbers in the book. but western civ. isnt the only class im bombing. theres also english... omg that ones bad, she didnt like my essay, i failed 1 or 2 quizes, i did bad. spanish isnt that bad, neither is algebra, or chorus. the only other 3 that im worried about are gym, religion, and bio. i saw the grade book too in gym and the grades were thus: 100, 85, 75, 75, 90. total average: 85 bio shouldnt be that bad... but its so uncertain. religion is uncertain too. my suspisions arent paranoia tho. just yesterday i got back 3 tests: 67 (western civ.), 73 (bio, 83 w/ 10 pt. curve we got), and 72 (religion). im so upset with, myself. i know i can do better, and i should, its just not working out. i dont know what to do. i study, and its not how i study, bc most of the time i dont study at all, yet i get As. Maybe its bc i have been studying?? it doesnt make sense.... ... im so lost and upset. i dont know what'll happen. please, help.

hey everyone, i have a real dilemma on my hands. im a good student in school. usually all As, if not 1 or 2 Bs... my mom always expects it, and nothing else. shes always giving me lectures, saying, "you can do it.... ill accept nothing lower than a 90.. etc." well.... things at home havent been that great, but then again, thats not the point. the point is this : i blew it. i think... im not sure, i think im going to get a few Cs on my report card... ... for the first time ever. shes going to murder me if my suspisions are right. im terrified. i dont know what happened either. so when she asks "what the hell happened?" ill have to say idk. and that will only make her anger worse. i want to talk to her before the report card comes, but shes really moody lately and is pressuring me about finals. idk what to do. she always expects me to be purfect, but i canr. i just cant. im falling apart... im breaking down, and shes to self-centered to notice it. please, help me.

hey, you know what, i can almost relate. theres this guy that i alwas talk to online, but never really any words are exchanged between us during school. y opinion is that you should always be yourself. its not that she doesnt know you, it sounds like you two know each other really well. the reason why trust and conversation can be gard between you two is because when you're talking online, you dont see that person saying it, you dont hear them say it. so when you see them in person, it seems as if you are looking at a completely different person. i hope for all the best between you two. i think you should trust her. you know her, just not her face. ttyl, byez.

hey, i can help you with that, i run on the cross country team. you are right, eating isnt good before your run. eating and drinking is off limits an hour before you run. and dairy products. dairy products cause major cramps and slow you down. when you're runing set a beat... dont be breathing in and out at random times with heavy or fast paced breathes. keep it at a steady pace. when you go up a hill, pick up your knees, when you go down hill, lean back a little, and lengthen your steps, and speed up. if you dco get a cramp... try running with your hand on your head, or try running sideways. also make sure you stretch A LOT before you head out to run. the more you strecth the less youll get cramps. i hope this helps. Happy Running.

Hey, Sweetie14, You're soo right. life can hurt, and life can be the reason why some people don't even want to get up in the morning. Life gives everyone unexpected turns, but we learn from our experiences. im not saying experience is a real good thing bc I heard once that "experience is the worst teacher bc it gives you the test before the lesson". but im saying that experience can be helpful. im sorry to hear about what happened. dont patronize him though, as bad as he is, he doesnt deserve torment, no one does. i think you should avoid him. try no cantact... i think its obvious that you 2 wont be dating anymore. i hope your "hurt" goes away soon. just give yourself time, time heals all wounds. *Wishes for the Best* byez.

Hey, I'm in some waht the same situation, i cant talk freely, but im always online chatting. My advice to you is to be yourself, and go with your gut. in flirting there's really nothing to loose except that particular person that you are flirting with. but here are 3 rules: dont be pushy, dont pester her again and again, bc it will only push her further away from you. dont hold back, if she doesnt like it, then its her loss. and finally, a "do" Be yourself, if she can't accept or grow to appreciate who you truly are, then shes not for you i wish you the best, and ill see you around Ttyal, byez.

hey thats cool, your welcome. im glad it all worked out. see you around ttyal, byez

So You Think There's No Way Out? Almost everyday you end up crying, You feel like it's your time to be dying, No one understands your pain, They all think that you've gone insane, But on the inside your just screaming for help. No one has been there for you, Thats why your so down and blue, Your parents are always abusive, You feel so very exclusive, But is this really the way out? You ask for help but none satisfies, Nothing gratifies, So you plan and plot, Fosaking all you've got, you think you've found salvation, You want to give into the temptation, But let me tell you now, You'll never get it that way. You life is not so easily forsaken, Not so easily left behind, You think know one will care when you're gone? Well excuse me, You're blind! People care for you, People are there for you, Your looking in all the wrong places, Your covering the wrong bases. So wake up, Grow up, And LIVE You have to learn to live before you can learn to die! This is dedicated to the people who think that there is no way out. read this, then tell me what you think. its not the way out, so dont go through that door. *hugs* Byez.

hey again, richgabe is right, i remember now.. i did a project on toothe decay and disease and halitosis can be treated by a dentist. im not saying you have halitosis, but i am saying it is a possibility. *wishes for all the best* ttyl. byez.

hey everyone, I think its all finally over. its not certain, because after all, jen can be a split personality phyco sometimes... lol ut i think it is... (finally!!!) i just wanted to say thanks again for all your help and advice. it not only helped me in this situation and gave me insight, i now am more capable of handling these things in the future. Thanks again everyone. see you around, byez.

hey, First of all, im sorry to hear about that. my suggestion is to either keep a pack of listerine pocket pack with you, or carry aroung mints like ice breakers or altoids. the listerine pocket packs are good because they freshen breathe and dissolve real quick. another option would be to chew orbit gum, since you say that you chew gum a lot. it keeps your mouth "fresh and clean"... lol* i hope it all works out ttyal. byez.

hey, it sounds like he's feeling this pain too, either that, or he's trying to drag your pain. agree with him, dont "try" to see him when goes to collect his things. because, either he'll wig out because hes hurt, or youll break down because he doesnt care. boys are confusing, no offense meant to any of them, but its the truth. if we just follow the clues and pick up on their hints, we'll all be ok. i wish you the best, i hope you'll be able to get over this guy. see you around. byez.

hey, leaving someone behind can be soo difficult, i kno it. im still trying to get over this one guy, and i was upset for a long time. but "this to shall pass". it may sound stupid, but its true, and i say it all the time when im miserably unhappy. avoiding him wont help as much as some people think it will, it makes you think about him more and more... that doesnt mean that you should follow him every where, it means that you shouldnt change your regular everyday routines. dont "try" to not think about him, because that will only cause the exact opposite. this may all sound confusing, but its the truth. i hope this helps, its helping me to get through it too. ill Ttyl. Byez.

you're all right. self esteem is also another important factor. feeling sad or embarrassed is a low self esteem. low self esteem leads to decrease in self confidence, which will lead to disrespect. another thing, if someone is disrepecting you, you should let them know. tell them where you stand and how you feel you should be treated. ttyal. byez. 8)

hey, yeah, in my opinion the two are weaved together. your portrayal of self confidence influences how you want others to treat you, how to respect you. if you seem to hate your self, or seem uncertain in your ways, then people will think of you like that, and only that. the way you act is the blueprints for the way people treat you, draw well. i hope this has helped, see you around! Ttyl, byez.

hey, Thanks for writing me, now that i know whats wut i think ill be able to help you out... First of all you should be confident with yourself, having a girlfriend shouldnt be embarrassing or an awkward situation. when ever i have to tell my parents sumthin i dont think they'll like it keep sayin "this to shall pass" again and again in my head, because i know it will. i think you should just bring it up casually, dont try to make it seem like a big deal, because then thats how they'll consider it to be. the key is to be, like i said before, confident with yourself. i hope this has helped you out. sorry i responded a little late. i hope to see you around. ttyal. byez.

hey, the first thing to do is chill out and take a deep breathe. you probably have realized that you will have to tell them eventually, but think of this "this too shall pass". before rattling on with advice, i want to know why your so worried about what your parents would say? are they against dating at your age or something? knowing this would help and im looking forward to helping you out. i hope to hear from you soon. ttyl. byez.

hey, Tahnks for that, its nice to hear some kind of a compliment every once and a while. to answer your question, ill say this: i dont have any friends, or at least not any real ones. all thats there are a bunch of people im able to say hi, and wuts up? to, and thats it. the sad truth is that the last tima a "friend"called me was april first. yeah, itssad, i know. and i want to talk to people, and i want to have friends, but no matter how hard i try, it never works out. thanks gain everyone, and i wish you the same for your future. ttyal. byez.

hey, Nah, i dont feel thats somethin for me to do. its just not "me". im not sayin im a wuss or anything, i just consider myself as the smarter person. i saw how lies and threats only made things worse, last year they all collapsed from under that other horrible girl. i saw it all happen and it made me realize that its never a way out of the mess, its a way in. i think im going to be fine with this issue with jen, its almost been three weeks, and if she hasnt gotten over it then, oh well. ive dealt with petty remarks and put downs before, maybe not as well, but enough to be "experienced". Besides, i dont want to threaten he back. then she have somethin on me, and if any teacher heard, then id loose the credibility i got whne i walked away from her. i also feel etter walking away, its relieving, not tense like when shes up in my face. thanks for the advice anyway ttyal. byez.

Hey guys, Yeah exactly. she gota splash of water in her face for sure. I was wrong though, she isnt going to "steer clear" for a while.Today she approached me and said j- were you suspended? k- no, i was sick on tuesday and wednesday. but im feeling a lot better. j- oh really. k- yup. why would i be expelled? j- because of all the s*&% you said to me. k- i didnt do anything wrong, jen. i wasnt the one talking all the "s*&$" j- then what the hell do you call it? k- (i started to walk away) self defense i guess? j- no it wasnt. because inorder for it to be self defense your the person that speaks second. you were the one that started it. k- i didnt start anything. i usually do the smarter thing. good-bye jen. she was furious, but i walked away before she could do anything about it. she still wants to beat on me, when i was walking through the halls she was talking to her friend and yelled what she had been saying when she saw me walk by. "I wanted to punch her face in!" thanks for responding, its niceto know that not only are there people that will talk, but that there are people that will talk that actually care ttyal. byez.

hey, i know exactly how you feel. im a real shy person, and yeah, ive experienced love at "first-site". sadly it didnt work out between me and this guy, but that didnt stop us from bein friends. another thing thats oddly similar is that up til a few weeks ago, i was going to be moving. lol. all i can say is follow your instincts. do what your gut is telling you to do. in my opinion you should take her out. and dont hold back in telling her anything. bc later youll regret it. i wish you the best. ttyal. byez.

C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S!!!!!!! I wish you two the happiest times of your lives. There was an ebgagement between my uncle and a wonderful girl not too long ago. they were soo happy together, and i became vary close to her, her name was Aillie. we all loved her so much, but no one more than my uncle. Sadly, she died last year, she went in for a surgery of some kind, and suffered from a blood clot afterwards. i think of her often and miss her. i hope you experience the same care and love with your fiance as me and my family had with her. Best Wishes.

Hey guys, Thanks for your advice,its not only beenhelpful but reassuring too. Today jen returned from her 3 day suspension... (oh no!) lol, actually, nah, i couldnt even care about whethershe was in school or not.. im not afraid of her anymore. She stopped by during lunch and i got some insight about her perspective and her ways. she talked and tallked, acting like i wasnt there. i didnt have a problem with that, but she kept glaring atme between sentences... so anyway, the topic of talking back to your parents came up (and just for the record, i wasnt involved in this conversation at all, i just listened...) megan said that when she talks back to her parents or bugs them about something she wants, she gets sent to her room. but the jen said, if i dont get what i want i just throw a fit. i always get what i want. i mean, really, she's either stupid or a big antagonist cos shestill wont drop this whole thing. the funny part is that it all started over a lousy chair in lunch... so any way.. after school she wasnt in sight, im glad for that. i dont think she'll drop it , but i do think that she'll steer clear for a little while... thanks again, ttyal. byez!

hey guys, i guess its kind of like an instinct. for hundreds of years men were considered superior to women, and it bacame "natural" for this set up. Men were the head of the house, what ever they said was law. but even though some of thoses veiws and ideas still remain as a shadow to our customs, it doesnt mean that there arent women out there that wont ask guys out. there are tons of women out there that are like that. ttyal. byez.