Suavemantotherescue

Well there are girls who like to firlt with guys they really admire, but not like, even though they have a bf. These girls are usually insecure and always need constant attention, and some girls are friends with guys by flirting. However, at the same time she might like you but don't get your hopes up, she probably has intrest in you but is bound by her bf, but since its a long turm relationship this is unlikely, unless she is experiencing problems with her bf and wants to make him jealous. Another possiblity is shes sorta holding you as a last resort inchase she dose break up with her bf. All in all, you two seem pretty close and she dose seem to like you a lot, but not love like but kindda like best friends kind which can later lead to a relationship if you play your cards right. If you want her, wait and see if she breaks up with her bf, which is still possible. Sine its a long term relationship, she'll be all bummed out so you can cheer her up, then wait until you feel its right and ask her out on a date and see what happens. However, don't wait too long for them to break up, I would give it a month, then try seeking someone else. Being around her for too long will cause you to pine someone you can't have, so you'll either have to ignore her or ask her why she flirts with you so vigorously. Basically, don't set yourself up too high or the fall will hurt a lot. Hope that helps.

Well this is gonna sound cleshay (I can't spell) or whatever but you should just be yourself. Some people have valus and don't touch until a 2nd or 3rd date. Don't do anything you normally wouldn't do around her. However, you could TRY and see what happens when you hold her hand. If she lets you, just do it, but don't like grab it. Also, another good ;move' is if its cold, offer her your jacket if you have one, by doing this it'll show that you care and she might consider touching you. Finally when you take her home, try asking her if she wants to kiss. And remember don't force her to do anything she dosen't want to do, physically or word manipulation thingy wise, and just be yourself like I said before.

Well the girl probably just got caught up in the moment of being stuck in a hole with you and, maybe now, regreats it. I agree that she probably just wanted a good time, try talking to her like you originally where but don't set you expectations too high or you'll get hurt from the fall. It wouldn't hurt to bring up the insident and ask why she let you do that to her, but I dunno. Good luck.

Well its good that he knows how you feel so it wont be a horrible shock to him. Usually, if a guy avoids a girl, it either means he dose like you but hes nearvous or is affraid to resolve the issue of you liking him because he might think what he has to say to you will turn you off/ ruin the relationship, wheither those feelings are the same as yours or not. Well this is actually the biggest risk in a boy/girl friendship that all people in these relationships must face; not telling them will keep you friends which is undesireable for you, or telling him which is the risk will push your relationship further or tear it appart compleatly. Once they know how you feel, its hard to go back since they know and its hard to deal with. You have to be willing to take that risk... Consider the consiquences like if we lost our friendship, will I feel better because I told him or will I miss his friendship more? You know, stuff like that. Anyway, what you should do is go to this guy and tell him you think you should talk about your relationship, ask him straight up how he feels and if he's willing to take the risk or not, if he says no then its up to him wieither he wants to stay firnds or not. remember not to be too agresive or you mgiht scare him, talk to him as if you where talking about any other subject you normally would. Also if he dose have a GF, I think you should wait till their done with eachother for good, otherwise you'll put him in a very dificult situation, which may alter his decision. Also, its better if you do tell him because even if he says no now, later on, what you tell him might get stuck in his head and he might change his mind! Good luck!

Well yeah... Its weird since avoiding someone either means you don't like them or you like thme so much, they are afraid to tell you because they are unsure of the way the other person will react or they might think that person has a bf/gf and don't want to make things worse than how they feel already. Going to college is probably another good reason for 'avoiding' people since they are either away, busy, or focused on studying and talking could be 'limited' because they could be using college as an excuse to avoid their problems. I suggest talking to this person, if the person in questio in is you, and talking to them and maybe asking why they are avoiding you (if you guys are/where close and are at least friends now). Maybe he/she really likes you too (if you like them, that is)! Even if thats not the case, at least you tried and you'll feel better and they might change their minds later, you have nothing to lose.

Well I don't think you should send this letter for two reasons - Reason 1: Even though you like your ex's best friend, I'm not sure if he knows you well enough to like you back since you didn't specify that. Reason 2: He has someone and that person is your best friend, but then again I'm not sure they are since you didn't specify that either.... Well I'm sure you get my point, he really dosent't seem intrested in you at the moment and sending the letter might only scare him away. Instead, put the letter away and talk to him more and be liek best friend with him or whatever. If he ends up dating your friend, it probably wont last, however, if you like him this bad you should just tell him in his face since its better to hear these things from the person in question. Its up to you what you want to do, I just offered some alternatives and stuff.

Okay, basically I've been running everyday since Febuary and 've became more endurent and stuff and able to go much further than I ever could when I was younger. Well anyway, lately, my sides been hurting when I run. Before now, this has only happened once before when I first started because I ate a burger so I think thats what happened, but I'm not sure. Yesterday, it hurt. For sure, I know its not my body beging tired because I've been going the same distance for 3 weeks. I just want to know why anybody's side would hurt from running and how to prevent it. (If it helps, its been hot here lately and the heat makes my tummy bubbly..)

Obviously losing weight kicks major butt! A good way to lose weight is to run everyday except maybe 1 day in a week, of course if you don't run much you might have to skip some days in the first few weeks. When you first start, you get killer sweat which is good, then go home and do another few exercises like push-ups or sit-ups or squats or whatever. Its best, if your a beginner, to begin with 3 sets of 10, then gradually increase the number you do by every 2 weeks or whatever your fancy. Cut back on Nacho chips and soda and other sweets. Eat breakfast everyday becasue that boost your matabolism, but its a good idea to work out before you eat because your body's matabolism is at its lowest when you get up, and all the fat from your body is prime for the cooking! You'll lose extra weight and get your heart rate up for the rest of the day so your matabloism will be higher, especially after breakfast. Working out also makes you feel great so you may actually be in a beeter mood. Like I said before, cut back on nacho chips and soda, but remember that still need carbs to run yor body, but dont eat too much, learn from your doctor how much you need. Remember to stay below 2000 calories a day because you gain 1 pound of fat per 3500 cals, but you burn that when you function. Another good thing to do is to wash your face and stuff like that. IF you want to get rid of your bread thats good, but you don't have to nessacarally. Try trimming your facial hair like the little hairs around your face, all around your bread so your skin looks smoother. Wash your face with Clean & Clear Morning Burst, it actually does wake you up because it feels pretty cool on your face becaue of those bubble bead thing-ama-jigg dudes. Also smells like oranages so you'll smell nice I guess, try spraying deodorent spray or coloange (I can't spell) so you'll smell good too. One last thing, talking to girls. (Oh no!!!) Never fear, Suaveman is here! (yay....). What you wanna do is be yourself, however, be your good self; don't be like "I'm so depressed. The world sucks and the economy is in shambles..." Try to be funny, like don't tell jokes but try making obviously funny observations of your dayly life. Try to find out wat your date is in to, like if she likes puppys try to think of puppy stuff you do, "I have a dog named Bart and he barks too much, maybe you could help me train him." Complament her on something like her hair or whatever you notice is nice, but don't go too deep, you can tell her shes funny but thats about it. Don't forget to laugh and enjoy her company and try to find the goodness in her, she could be a vet so think of how kind she is and nothing else, this way you'll always be happy with her. Well thats about all I got, I'm not good at woredrobe so maybe someone else can help you with that. Good luck.

Darn, dude, sorry but I doubt that would work, especially if you bearly know her. Unless shes like one of your friends, you really can't just go "Duh.... I bumpped into yous, lets go out sometume" (sounds dumb when you think about it, sorry). However, never fear, you still have a chance. Instead of asking her out when you bump into her, ask her if she wants to hang out with you during the summer because you think shes cool and you want to get to know her better. Don't go and say "I think you are pretty and nice and stuff," instead, just say that you know her in class and you want to get to know her better, don't be too in-yo-face, be approchable. Of course, its kindda a long shot but still better than your plan, a better yet more unlikely plan is to wait next year and hope you get a class with her. IF you do, you can make your move by saying "Hey, I had you in a class last year, your pretty tight wanna be cool or something?" then make your move that way.

Gee, guy, its kindda hard to tell. All that hugging and scared stuff I guess are pretty good signs she trust you and feels comfortable with you, but I dunno about liking you. I dunno if your outta school yet, but anyway, go up to her and ask her to hang out during the summer and to get her phone number and address if you aint got them. Anyway, then what you do is just give her signs that you like her like every week or so, give her a complament on something other than her cloths or shoes. Say something like "Thats nice hair you have today" and give her a newer, deeper cpmplament every week. Try touching her more like poke her on the shoulders playfully or try to touch her hand. If you get near her hand and she pulls away, thats okay, but if you try again maybe a day later and she does it again thats bad. Well anyway, once you feel the time is right, ask her if she wants to date then you can hit it off from there. Good luck.

Well guy, this is sort of a sugestion but before you start your no contact dedication, you might want to consider writing her a letter. Okay, like write a letter saying whenever you get the free time, call me or something or ask to do something or whatever, just don't put 'I love you' or "lets get back together" or anything like that but you can put anything else you want to really, just tell her to cantact you. Send it off then wait for her to respond. Don't call or bother her or anything. You should wait a resonable amount of time, a week should do it but you can go up to two weeks if you want. If she doesnt respond then you'll know to move on. Remember its kind of a dumb idea to go NC unless the person knows you want to talk to them, especailly if you havent even seen her for awhile, you know. Laters.

Depends. If we start of as friends it takes awhile but the relationship is more meaningful. If I just know her and she gives off an obvious attraction to me instantly and if I dig her too, it might take up to 2 weeks. It depends for different people and different situations.

You don't have to get him anything too expensive. If you want to get him something, get him like a jersy of his favorite team or even a ball of that sport with his favorite team on it. Also, a card would do fine but it would be more meaningful if you MADE his card. Its cheeper, and customized and from the heart, you can put whatever you want in it and stuff like that. Theres nnothing wrong with that, thats what I do for girls and they like them and I'm sure your BF would like it too. However, if thats not your style and you can't get him anything, take him out to dinner (Like a burger) or a movie.

This might be a "duh thing" but your confused and scared. You think that by asking him out, you'll get it on then something will happen then you'll break-up and he'll hate you or vice verca and confused because of the seemingly mixed signals he gives you like doing stuff for you and all the kissing. Right now, your in a phase of adjustment where you two are finding your "couple groove" or whatever because he's scared too and just experimenting. I think that you two seem like your ready to get together but that's my observation. He likes you and your sure of your feelings, so what you should do is make it safe for him to ask you out. Try acting couplely with him. like hold his hand and rub him or give him complaments and stuff like that. Try giving him hints like "we make a great pair" or something like that. If he still can't catch on, I suggest you just tell him how you feel and ask him out. Its a big step and a slight risk but if your true friends, you'll pull through.

There really is no 'magic kiss' that girls will die for, it really is something that happens naturally. As for knowing the right time to kiss, you'll know that too when it happens, its basically an urge that you get when you look into her eyes and you find yourself getting closer and closer without any control then you'll just do it like "Duh...did I just do that...?" A good thing to remember is don't force it because not only is that weird but if you force it, you probably slobber all over her and thats kindda nasty. Also, don't push it either, if you kiss, don't try to bend her over and do some weird French kiss movie thing because that ruins the moment too. The best thing to do is go with the flow and the type of kiss you'll get will vary. I hope thaqt helps.

Do you know her from your school or does she go to another school? Does she have your picture or do you have her's? Its good to have eachothers pitures so you know what you two look like. But anyway, if you don't know her personally, ask her if you two could meet at a local place like a cafe or some junk like that so you can "talk in real life" but don't ask her out. After that, the next time you see her on the internet see how she liked your date and see if she'd like to do it more often. Remember not to rush things. Try giving her a complament like "you look better than I thought you would in real life" or something, then the next time give her a complament about her hair, then you can give her deeper complaments everytime until you can ask her out.

Well how well do you know her? Is she like "Dur..Hi" or somthing or is she like "Hi Bob, bla bla bla bla"? If shes like a "Dur...hi" friend then you will have to try and get her to be closer friends with you. Instead of just saying hi, try to have a conversation with her. Talk about what she did on the weekend or ask her if anything intresting happened lately or talk about the latest gosip or whatever. Try giving her a complamentlike on her hair or something, then later as you get more close give her more deeper complaments. Eventually, you'll be closer friends so you can ask her to do stuff with you and her friends or your friends or whatever. After you get close, just wait until the right moment to asj her out.

Hey, well many of you might know my situation since I posted a few things about it, but anyway something kindda came to me last night. Last night, I was talking to my friends and the whole situation of me and the girl (whom I've known for since the 8th grade and we were best friends but I started liking her and things changed after the 11th grade) starting to talk again came up. I mentioned that I called her about one or two weeks ago and I got through to her finally but a minute later her cell phone rang. Other times I try calling her, shes "never home." Like 1 day I call and her sister answers and I asked if the girl was home and she gose "No, shes not here" so I asked if she was at wrok and she goes "Oh yeah." I asked when her hours where and she struggled to answer then I said ''its random, huh?" and she goes yeah and asked if she should take a message. I call at least 2 or 3 times a week with no success. I also mentioned the times that I see her and she gets all excitted (and blushes and plays with her hair) and how she gets excitted when my friends say something about me and she ask about me sometimes, but recentally I havent seen her again. Well my friend mentioned ''It sounds like she likes you but she might be playing HARD TO GET!" > Well anyway, I want to know is shes right or if this girls is avoiding me and doesnt want to talk to me anymore. Is there anyway to know?

Yeah almost everyone gets nervous before talking to someone they like. Some people are able to conqure this fear and learn to ignor it compleatly. Basicaally you just need more experience with girls before you forget about your nervousness. With this 1 girl, you have to conqure your fearthen it wont seem so hard next time. try visualizing yourself calling her and don't even think about what you'll talk about, just say whatever comes to your mind.

The human brain is very complexed and is capable of more things than that are already proven. The ties of the brain to the spirit is also unknown, but some people believe that your spirit is able to travel through time and other stuff like that. There are people that are more sensative to unseen things, clairvoyant. Of course, non of this this is really proven. However, I've had dreams where I saw things in the future that happened later, like new classes and people I met later in life, but I never really have a death dream, well I did but it was pretty stupid and kindda funny. I feel that the full capibilities of the brain have still yet to be discovered and if you feel your dreams tell you something, you should listion.

You really can't tell if you love someone if you just know them and you like them. To love someone takes time, a long time with that person to know for sure. Once your in love with someone, yuo'll know. All that stuff you put that that other guy wrote are part of love, but basically its a mutual feeling between both people and should be a uncondistional understanding and acceptence of that person's strenghts and weaknesses and the want to be with that person forever and be with them no matter what. You can say that'll you'll do those things but talk is cheep, sorry. ACtion speak louder than words and there really is no way to tell if you truly love someone or vice verca. Basically, love grows; its not just there. I believe some people are ment to be because they either have good chemistry and really get along from the start or just because of destiny, since theres someone I feel that bond with but I'm not saying I love them right now, I'm just giving an example what you could be feeling. If you want to be in love with this person, try getting together with them and show them that you care. If they love you for who you are and you feel the same about them, then theres a good chance its love.

Well theres nothing wrong with a friendship. I think no contact can go on for so long before it becomes 'dangerous' to a relationship. Staying away for too long, you might become scared to talk to him or the other way around. You should only not talk for as long as it takes for the other person to cool their jets or vice verca. Remember the old saying, the longer you stay of the horse, the harder it is to get back on or something, well basically staying away for too long will do that to you. Basically, what I'm trying to say is go ahead and talk to him, just remember not to stalk him or bug the fudge outta him, just take it slow.

Is this person your GF/BF or are they just a person who likes you? If they just like you then they were either joking or didn't reallt mean it, or thought that you didn't seem to shair the same feelings. If they are your BF/GF, then they probably just figured that you didn't care or they didn't mean what they said. Either way, you should talk to this person and ask them why they said the thing they did but turned on you. Remember some ppl are just natural flirts and wouldn't cheat, since its not really cheating to flirt if its done friendlyish. If it was your friend I would;nt play much attention to what they told you, but if its your BF/GF then its time for a talk.

Well obviously, this is bothering you alot and to keep it away from her will only hurt your relationship. Her being cheated on really gives her no right to cheat on a fresh new BF such as yourself, and her saying that she'd never do makes it even worse. Basically, the most important thing in a relationship is trust and knowing that leaving someone you love behind foe awhile theywont do anything. You should tell her how you feel but don't bum-rush it, start a nice convo then just say "Theres something I want to talk about" or something. After that, just tell her how you felt when she cheated on you and tell her where the relationship will go. Of course, give her another chance if you really want to keep going but don't ask her all the time if she cheated. Just continue like it never happened. If she does it again, you might want to consider leaving her.

Its good that you two started as friends, and became best friends. However, something probably happened so now you just talk on MSN. Do you have her number? If not, maybe you could ask her on MSN. Be like "So, whats your number so we can chat on the phone?" If you have it already, just call and ask her if she'd to meet up with you. You should feel comfortable talking to her since you said that she's the only person you can talk to. Ask her to do something that you guys use to do often like going to the movies or the bowling ally or whatever you guys did. Tell her 'lets do it for old times sakes' and she'll buy it, hopefully, and you can just be with her. Don't make your move immediately, perhaps re-kindle the flame by going to her house and doing more stuff together. Eventually, you guys would have spent enough time together then you can ask for a date. After that, you will know more about her and then you can start going out. It would be a good idea to give her complaments like your hair looks nice, then everytime you see her you can tell her deeper stuff like 'I like the way you smile' or whatever. Also, give her hints like good eye contact and playful poking and touching.