tiff8434
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Ok, my ex and I have been broken up for 4 months and I miss him like crazy. I am still madley in love with him after several failed attempts to move on. He is dating some one 8 years older then him. I cant believe the way he is being. We have had NC for the last 2 months and he dosent even seem sto care because he is occupied with his new girlfriend. I want him back an dont know what to do from this point on. Please help me someone.
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here is the problem last time we talked he said I had changed and that he never saw me in his future again. I dont want to be a thorn in his side. Dont you think that if he wanted to talk to me he would call?
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I want to talk to him but I also want him to be the one to make the first move becasue then I would know that it is genuine.
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It has been 4 months since me and my ex broke up. ok, here is where it gets weird. I was out saturday night watching a local band play and I ran into my ex's neighbor. She told me that she was sorry to hear about Nick and I, she said that she seen him at a party like not even a month before. She told me not to worry about an ything that she knows that he loves me I told her that we havent spoken, and he told me that he never sawa future with me. She said at that party he spent the whole night talking about me and she knows he will be back because he loves me. I dont know what to think if all this is true then why hasent he contacted me?
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ok, here is the deal, I met this guy I am reallly intrested in this guy a met a concert on Wednesday night. Well, he gave me his phone number before I left and told me to call him. So I called him on Sunday. Conversation was short becasue he was at dinner with his friends. He is supposed to call me today to let me know if him and his friends are going out tonight. Well, it is already 1:00 and he hasent called am I jumping the gun by thinking he is not going to call now. It is tonight that I am supopsed to met him. Should I call him? AHHH! Please help me!
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Feelings of hopelessness
tiff8434 replied to vegetarian's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
It is refreshing to see my age guys on here tha thave the ablity to care and love someone the way that I love my Ex. I know it will not make the pain go away for you, but with the heart that you have you are going to make some girl very happy one day. -
Anybody now how to help anxiety? I am doing everything I think I can do but the pain and feelings continue. How do you kow if it was "true" love and not just a foolish heart? I think it was true love and there is hope but in the circumstances that have alresy been described on this board I feel foolish. [-o
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Thank you for the advice. I do have one question though. In our last conversation I asked him if he saw me in his future and he said no! I was heart broken. I really dont know if he really means that or if right now he just wants me to leave him alone. It all changed so fast like a month before that he still said he loved me and just needed some time to figure things out in his life he was really stressed. But how is he figuring this stuff out with another girl?
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yes, last time we talked he got very irate and has a hughe wall up towards me. It almost seems like it is easier for him to just try to hate me then to deal with it. We had a great relationship while we were together but since we broke up he is very cold towards me. He had talked marriage with me and even took me to pick out rings. So I dont know why in like a matter of weeks it all changed. With all this being said and done I still am hoplessley in love with someone I dont know even cares about me now.
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I know that I do want him back that is what the problem is. I am still madly in love with him. We actually didnt fight when we were together for 2 years. It wasent until after we broke up that he started being so mean. The situation seems hoeless and I hate this. I want nothing more then to be back with him.
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Here is an overview of what has been going on. My ex and I have been broke up for almost 4 months. We have had no contact for 4 weeks now. It is absoulutley killing me. I miss him so much. However, he is dating someone else I am starting to loose hope in this situation. I think tha the is the one for me but then again there has been alot of stuff that has happened. He is partying like crazy, and from mutual friends I heard he has completely changed. I miss him so much, and feel that I cannot do anything to make this situation better. I believe with all that I have that it is true love but I feel so foolish in thinking that when he obviousley is not thinking about me at all! Please help me.
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OK, so it has been three weeks since we have had NO contact. I am sad because he has not even triend to contact me. It is like he has completley forgot about me. My friends are telling me I should start dating other people but I feel that it is wrong because I am still so hung up on my ex. I dont think "true Love can be forgotten as easily as he has, I know I cant forget it I am trying to move on but my heart is not in it. Please help!
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Thanks, for all the great advice ther eis a twist to the story now. I have heard that he has been datinga girl for like a month, I dont know if it is seriouse or not becasue there has been no contact for almost three weeks. I am staying busy and at times are very haoppy there just seems to be apart of me that is still missing and it is him. My question to all is if he is dating someone else and he told me last time we talked that he didnt see me in his future, is it hopless. Just three months agao he still wanted to marry me. It is all so confusing for me. The other girl thing is really freaking me out the thought of it is driving me mad. What can I say despite all I am still madly in love with him. What am I to think of all this?
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Am I wrong to think that he can change bact to the person that he was? He acts like he hates me and I can honestly say I am not guilty of anything but loving him more then I think anyone ever has. I am doing better emotionally, however, I fill like I am holding on to a memory that may never be the present again. I miss him and love him. I really still think that he is my soul mate but I dont want to be completley nieve. Any suggestions?
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I think that people just choose to be that way for whatever reason. Im my situation it is my ex's way of dealing with our breaking up. Instead of being sad about it it is easier to be mean and hateful.