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Ok, my ex and I have been broken up for 4 months and I miss him like crazy. I am still madley in love with him after several failed attempts to move on. He is dating some one 8 years older then him. I cant believe the way he is being. We have had NC for the last 2 months and he dosent even seem sto care because he is occupied with his new girlfriend. I want him back an dont know what to do from this point on. Please help me someone.
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here is the problem last time we talked he said I had changed and that he never saw me in his future again. I dont want to be a thorn in his side. Dont you think that if he wanted to talk to me he would call?
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I want to talk to him but I also want him to be the one to make the first move becasue then I would know that it is genuine.
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It has been 4 months since me and my ex broke up. ok, here is where it gets weird. I was out saturday night watching a local band play and I ran into my ex's neighbor. She told me that she was sorry to hear about Nick and I, she said that she seen him at a party like not even a month before. She told me not to worry about an ything that she knows that he loves me I told her that we havent spoken, and he told me that he never sawa future with me. She said at that party he spent the whole night talking about me and she knows he will be back because he loves me. I dont know what to think if all this is true then why hasent he contacted me?
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ok, here is the deal, I met this guy I am reallly intrested in this guy a met a concert on Wednesday night. Well, he gave me his phone number before I left and told me to call him. So I called him on Sunday. Conversation was short becasue he was at dinner with his friends. He is supposed to call me today to let me know if him and his friends are going out tonight. Well, it is already 1:00 and he hasent called am I jumping the gun by thinking he is not going to call now. It is tonight that I am supopsed to met him. Should I call him? AHHH! Please help me!
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Feelings of hopelessness
tiff8434 replied to vegetarian's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
It is refreshing to see my age guys on here tha thave the ablity to care and love someone the way that I love my Ex. I know it will not make the pain go away for you, but with the heart that you have you are going to make some girl very happy one day. -
Anybody now how to help anxiety? I am doing everything I think I can do but the pain and feelings continue. How do you kow if it was "true" love and not just a foolish heart? I think it was true love and there is hope but in the circumstances that have alresy been described on this board I feel foolish. [-o
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Thank you for the advice. I do have one question though. In our last conversation I asked him if he saw me in his future and he said no! I was heart broken. I really dont know if he really means that or if right now he just wants me to leave him alone. It all changed so fast like a month before that he still said he loved me and just needed some time to figure things out in his life he was really stressed. But how is he figuring this stuff out with another girl?
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yes, last time we talked he got very irate and has a hughe wall up towards me. It almost seems like it is easier for him to just try to hate me then to deal with it. We had a great relationship while we were together but since we broke up he is very cold towards me. He had talked marriage with me and even took me to pick out rings. So I dont know why in like a matter of weeks it all changed. With all this being said and done I still am hoplessley in love with someone I dont know even cares about me now.
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I know that I do want him back that is what the problem is. I am still madly in love with him. We actually didnt fight when we were together for 2 years. It wasent until after we broke up that he started being so mean. The situation seems hoeless and I hate this. I want nothing more then to be back with him.
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Here is an overview of what has been going on. My ex and I have been broke up for almost 4 months. We have had no contact for 4 weeks now. It is absoulutley killing me. I miss him so much. However, he is dating someone else I am starting to loose hope in this situation. I think tha the is the one for me but then again there has been alot of stuff that has happened. He is partying like crazy, and from mutual friends I heard he has completely changed. I miss him so much, and feel that I cannot do anything to make this situation better. I believe with all that I have that it is true love but I feel so foolish in thinking that when he obviousley is not thinking about me at all! Please help me.
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OK, so it has been three weeks since we have had NO contact. I am sad because he has not even triend to contact me. It is like he has completley forgot about me. My friends are telling me I should start dating other people but I feel that it is wrong because I am still so hung up on my ex. I dont think "true Love can be forgotten as easily as he has, I know I cant forget it I am trying to move on but my heart is not in it. Please help!
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Thanks, for all the great advice ther eis a twist to the story now. I have heard that he has been datinga girl for like a month, I dont know if it is seriouse or not becasue there has been no contact for almost three weeks. I am staying busy and at times are very haoppy there just seems to be apart of me that is still missing and it is him. My question to all is if he is dating someone else and he told me last time we talked that he didnt see me in his future, is it hopless. Just three months agao he still wanted to marry me. It is all so confusing for me. The other girl thing is really freaking me out the thought of it is driving me mad. What can I say despite all I am still madly in love with him. What am I to think of all this?
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Am I wrong to think that he can change bact to the person that he was? He acts like he hates me and I can honestly say I am not guilty of anything but loving him more then I think anyone ever has. I am doing better emotionally, however, I fill like I am holding on to a memory that may never be the present again. I miss him and love him. I really still think that he is my soul mate but I dont want to be completley nieve. Any suggestions?
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I think that people just choose to be that way for whatever reason. Im my situation it is my ex's way of dealing with our breaking up. Instead of being sad about it it is easier to be mean and hateful.
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Please just be careful in whatever you decide. If this girl loves you as much as you say she does, she will be very hurt and may not be receptive if you ever wanted her back. If you are not happy by all means break it off before she goes away because acting as if you dont care on your 1 year will be way more painful. Good Luck!
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Come on guys I really need some help here. Thanks to the people who answered.
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My ex boyfriend and I have been separated almost three months. It has been a roller coaster ride since we have been broke up. The first two months he was still telling me that he had hope for us in the future and then this last month it seems that it has went down hill. He told me that he "NEVER" sees me in his future again. I dont know what to think. I feel like he is just saying that becasue he is scared and dosent know what is happening. He has alot going on and I understand that. However, he has got a whole new set of friends and is very angry and cold towards life. I love him to death and want it to work out but with him acting like this my hands are tied. I cant talk to him and I cant be there for him. He also told me I changed and I havent he is the one that is creating a whole new life. I dont know what to think, does he really mean itor not. Any guy's insite on this one is welcomed. Oh yeah as of last Wednesday No Contact has started.
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I finally got my stuff back! But there was drama!
tiff8434 replied to tiff8434's topic in Breaking Up Advice
I am having real issues on wanting there to be hope for us. I miss him so so much and every weekend that goes by I get sad not becasue I am bored becasue I stay so busy, but becasue I miss spending time with him. Anyone know what I could do to speed up this process this is killing me. -
For those of you who have been following my post I finally got my stuff b ack. The deal was that he was going to leave it on his screened in back porch and I was going to come get it the next day. Well, he calls me yesterday and asked me if I can come get it now. So I was like yeah I guess. Come to find out his mom would not let him leave it on the porch for what reasons I dont know. So here is where it gets tricky. I show up to his house and start putting the stuff in my car. He comes out and I try to make small talk. I am like how are you? and the reply is how it has always been since the break up that he is "not good'. Well, we both proceed to put my belongings in my car and he is not really saying naything at all to me. Well, I ask him before I go if he had like 5 minutes to talk to me and he told me no that he had to go to bed because he had to get back up for work. So I got in the car and had a break down the tears started flowing. He didnt see this he had already went back inside. So I get to my friends house and I am just an emotional wreck my heart is breaking and I am just sobbing. Next thing I know like an hour later my phone rings. It is my ex, saying that he just wanted to call and see if I was ok. So I was like, NO, I am not ok it was really hard to see you today and it hurt the way he acted. I then asked him if we were ever going to be able to be friends and he said yes. He then asked me again why are you so upset and I was honest and told him that I was still in love with him and he said he knew. After that I was about to loose it again so I decided to tell him I had to go. My question to everyone is why on earth does he act like he could care less when I see him and not even look me in the eyes and then call me concerned about me. I don't get it. I want to think it is because he still loves me but I dont know anymore I am so confused. Please help!
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pHX, That is a very positive and encouraging words that you received. I hope all works out for you. Trusting God is often very hard for myself I guess it is from where I have trusted people that I love and they have let me down. Prayer is the answer to it all. I pray God will give you your hearts desires.
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Am I being stupid for thinking we may get back together?
tiff8434 replied to tiff8434's topic in Getting Back Together
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Am I being stupid for thinking we may get back together?
tiff8434 replied to tiff8434's topic in Getting Back Together
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Good job on no contact. Keep up the good work and try to be strong. The lord has something wonderful for you and in time he will reveal it as long as you see after him.
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Am I being stupid for thinking we may get back together?
tiff8434 replied to tiff8434's topic in Getting Back Together
Last night him and I talked about a phone bill that is due. He was very depressed sounding and just plan wore out and not happy with life. I know that he is going out and having fun. My question sis does anyone have a clue why he wants to sound so depressed when he talks to me. Maybe that is angry not depressed, but I have done nothing at all to him. I just dot get it I was very friendly didnt talk about us at all and just lifted him up in every way I knew how to. Any suggestions?