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  1. I am hurt
    A few weeks ago i posted a thread about a really shy gurl i have a crush on. Well things didnt go as planned. I planned on talking to her at church which she hasnt been been for 2 weeks. 1 week her parents were there and they told me she was working at the family restuarant. Last sunday she was working in the churh nursery! Last wednesday she stopped in where i worked on my day off and asked for a job application. My coworkers told me of some pretty girl and i knew it was her. The next day i was comin back from lunch and i saw her car leaving the parking lot where i work. She smiled and waved as i pulled in. I found out she had dropped an application off while i was gone. Im sitting here looking at her application, she has all the right requirements. Do you think its profesional if i hire her? I was tempted just to call her and she what was going on. I dont have her number but its on the application. Do you think shell think im a freak if i gave her a call? I know she would probably give me her number if i asked but i hadnt had a chance to talk to her in person. She is a very shy person and im not sure how i should go about this.
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    She was using you bro! I just got out of long term relationship and your starting to sound like me. My ex moved out my apartment and moved in another man within five days of the break up! She knew she couldnt afford the apartment by herself so she found another man to take care of herself and to help her deal with her insecurities. Hoping and Praying, I totally understand what your going through. From what i have been through i think some people are just addicted to the tinglys of the new relationship excitement!
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    Yes definetly! Have her take your hand and show you how she likes it! Every woman has her own way of doing things. 8)
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    Oh man, get this. This morning i forgot my wallet and went back home to get it. There were 2 cop cars in my driveway. So i asked what was going on. Well it turns out my ex was trying to steel my dog! I had told my neighbors to call the cops if they saw her at the house without my car being in the driveway. Now my ex thinks she has the right to have my dog on the weekends. I said look its a not a child its a dog! Leave me and the dog alone. Then i told the cops to let her go. Was i being too nice?
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    I just dont understand it. My ex leaves me after 2 1/2 years. I have been heart broken ever since and its almost been 4 weeks. I was finally starting to feel better and looking into dating other people and then SHE CALLS! She called to see how i was doing. I really dont understand I told her why do you care all of the sudden. Then she says what do you think im some cold hearted Bitch! Then i say well you did leave me and moved in a new guy 5 days after our break up. I just figured how can somebody who you were supposed to marry do that and still care. Then she said she made a mistake on calling and shell never call again. I was pretty happy that she wont call anymore but now im really wondering why she really callled? What do you guys think?
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    Well to tell you the truth i dont really want to rush into things myself. Ive gone through a lot of crap lately and im really just looking for a friend. You see im kinda new to this area. Ive only lived here for 2 1/2 years. In those 2 1/2 years i have only been with my ex and she hated it when i had friends other than her so i never got around to meeting new people. When i was with my ex on dates i would often see this gurl dating other people as well. So I dont really think she is new to dating. I just hope we may have something special. I never ever get nervous talking to females and this girl has me nervous. I dunno i sound like a wussy! I feel like this is more than finding this girl attractive i think i have a crush on her. Hell i no i do! Well see what happens and ill let yall know! Thanx everyone for some great advice. And if anyone else has something to say please do. 8)
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    Well guys thanks for the help. I usually dont get nervous talking to the opposite sex but for some reasone this gurl makes me nervous. I think its because she started shaking. Ive never had a woman shake like that before. It caught me off guard and i lost my train of thought. I probably wont see her on campus cause i go at nights. So i guess ill try to strike up a conversation at church again unless i see her around town. 8)
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    OK, As some of you may know i have just got out of a serious relationship. I would like to start dating again but im a bit rusty. Theres this gurl at church whose family sits in the same row as me. I catch her Eyeing me up all the time. Sometimes we make some serious Eye contact and all we do is smile and look away. Well, last sunday i went up and talked to her and her family. I introduced myself and started talking. When i walked up she turned around and acted like she didnt see me so i started talking to her mom. I told her mom i went to college and she said yeah Mindy goes to ur same school. Then she turns around and i said yeah ive seen you around. Then i went and shook her hand and she started shaking really bad. I can tell she was really nervous. SHe was so nervous it made me nervous and then i couldnt talk to her. So i kept talking to her mom. While i was leaving I saw her watching me as i was leaving. I know she likes me but now she makes me nervous. I never get nervous talking to woman. I will see her again this Sunday. Should i ask her for her phone number? Im really attracted to this girl and im not really sure on how i should go about this? Help please?
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    To tell you the truth i have never a had a really loose woman. But me ex was a pretty small gurl she was about 5 foot 4 and 110 pounds and she was bigger than i expected down there. It didnt bother me at all. I loved her and it never mattered. I never said or teased her about it. Infact sometimes i would tell her that her Tight $^((() felt soo good.
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    Meet some new people! That works best for me. 8)
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    You know i think you guys are right. The guy that shes with knows the situation and where it came from. Hes just looking for a piece of @$$! I dunno who she thinks shes fooling. She could have been with somebody who actually cared. Thanks for all the insight and if anybody has more please let me know.
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    Ok as some of you may know i have been going thru this breakup with my ex girlfriend of 2 years. We broke up, she moved out of my apartment and moved in and started dating this other guy within 2 weeks of our breakup. She has made it clear that she is to stay with this new guy but she still wears the engagment ring i bought her. I saw her in line at the grocery store this afternoon and she was holding hands with her new love. Then when she saw me she put his hand down and i happened to notice the ring i gave her. Why does she still wear my ring? I just dont get it!
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    If you love her that much you better go and get her! I mean it! She obviously still loves you and from what i understand she has nothing against you. You sound like you have a good woman. Make this Valintines day your advantage and go get ur girlfriend back! Plan a very romantic evening together. I really mean it! You let me know how things go too. I hope everything works out for you.
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    RRisalee, I know what your going through rightnow but you just need to let him go. Wating for that special phone call will just eat you up inside. I know from experience. If you want to talk tonight you know where i am.
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    I thought the rose might be nice because she wont talk to me rightnow. I did send her the rose and she called me back and i obained a check from her for her half of the bills. As for our stuff i pretty much just let her have it all! At this point i just dont care! Well thanks for the help everyone. I really appreciate it.
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    OK, this is my situation. In a previous thread i had talked about sending my ex flowers. Well i have decided not too and see if she comes around. This is the problem. We have been living together for about a year. We have a lot a things that we had bought together and we still have bills to pay aswell. she had been gone for about 12 days and she moved most of her stuff out. She will not answer her phone and i am affraid to talk to her when i see her around town. The problem is i would like to move out of our house and start fresh somewhere new. I need to contact her to get things straightened out. I have thought about sending her just 1 rose with a card saying are you up for chinese? We used to go eat chinese to talk about whats important. I know if I send a card saying we need to talk she wont reply to it. I love her lots but i think it would be more healthy for the both of us to not see eachother. Im really stuck on how I can get her to talk to me without her thinking i want to get back together. I just want to settle disputes about bills and dividing our property. I would like to be out of our house by atleast next week. What should i do?
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    thanks for all the help everyone. Ive been thinking about things and i am going with the no contact rule.
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    Wow! what you wrote sounded beautiful! I myself just got out of a relationship that sounded a lot like yours. Except i was the one that was always giving more effort. Its amazing what well do to keep our loved ones happy. My last relationship has changed me as a man and yours sounds like it has changed you as a woman. Good luck and the best of wishes to you.
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    IF your relationship is serious i think make up sex is great!!
  21. I am hurt
    My exgirlfriend and i have been apart for about 10 days. I know it doesnt sound like a long time but it is for us. Valintines day is just around the corner. I am not ready to start dating but i would like to find somebody who i can have a nice time with. The problem is i have only lived here for 2 years and i have been with my ex the whole intire time. Basically i just lost my very best friend and my only friend. So i am pretty rusty at meeting new people now. What should i do to start meeting new people?
  22. I am hurt
    Thanx for all the imput!!! I have decided NOT to send her the flowers. I got to thinking last night and decided its best for her to call me. 8)
  23. I am hurt
    Well this is story. For the last few weeks she has been acting really strange. She canceled a few of our dates to start with. One night she gets a call from her friend at 1030 and she gets out of bed and comes home at 330 in the morning. Strange behavior like this has been going on for a while. I never really felt that she was cheating on me but it made me suspicous. I just figured she was just trying to cope with her miscariage 3 months ago. Then one night she cancles another date for the second time on a row. I was told she was going to be at her aunts. I found out she was with her aunt but also with some guy that i cant stand. Okay at that point im very pissed!!!! HOur later i get a call from his girlfriend and she tells me they are srewing around. I call my giirl and break up with her becuase i was so mad. THe next day i found out that the girl was lieing. I called my girlfriend up to apoligise and she will not forgive me. She was the one who lied to me in the first place. I got mad and over reacted and now i am paying the price. My girlfriend has a way with twisting things around and rightnow she has it looking like im a bad man. I feel like we are both in the wrong. What should i do?
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    My girlfriend and i have been spit up for the past 10 days. I was thinking about sending a dozen red roses to where she works on wednesday. We had been dating for almost 2 years and this is longest we have been appart. I know emotionally she is as sad as me. Would this be a good way to show her that i still care? Or do you think i should just wait it out?
  25. I am hurt
    Well i am currently in a simialar situation as you. I feel your Pain, if you want you can email me or give me a PM if you would like to talk about it.
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