Ill try to keep this quick. I have been with this girl for 4 years. Everything was always great. Two weeks ago she called me up and told me that she doesnt think we should see each other anymore because she needs to find herself, she is confused and all that good stuff. She said that she still loves me so much, and i am so perfect, and needs me to be her best friend still. At first i figured if its what will make her happy then i will do it. As the days went on i couldnt figure out what she needed to figure out that i couldnt help her with. So after a week i went to her college and told her i needed to talk to her. She came down from her dorm room and got into my car with me. I told her i needed to know everything that was going on so i could better understand what it is she needs. Then she told me the truth about what happened. She was at a party one night and her friend was in the bathroom puking all night, so she stayed the night to help her out. The guy who owned the house kept coming in to see if everthing was ok and if my girlfriend needed anything. He was being really nice. Later that night after the girl fell asleep, my girlfriend and this guy were on the couch talking and he kissed her for a few seconds and then stopped and then she kissed him back. They were both really drunk. She then stopped and told him she couldnt be doing this. She then told me that she liked it and didnt regret doing it. She thinks that what she did was so wrong and she cant believe it happened. She said she never wanted to do anything like that to me. She then said that she just needs some time to figure out what she really wants, that i am all she knows. Granted we have been together since she was 14 and i was 16, we are now 18 and 20, she will be 19 in a month. I can understand if she wants to go experiance other guys because of the excitment or what ever but, what am i supposed to do. I love this girl so much i cant even begin to explain. I cant eat, sleep, have fun with my friends. I really need some good advice. Thank you so much for reading. And please reply
