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    Practice makes perfect. It might sound sily at first but what you should probably do for now is rehearse what you would say if she talked to you. Try to come up with lines for all the different scenarios. You will discover that with time, this little exercise will help you to respond naturally. Do it infront of the mirror.
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    Hey Kevin, its OK to where what you feel comfortable in. I do too and I have no problem attracting female attention. I usually wear trenchcoats and jeans. I prefer clothes with no labels. However I have discovered that when I wear a baseball cap, women initiate conversations with me. There may be something about baseball caps which attracts women. I would wear what everybody else does if I was looking for a gf.
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    I meant that some men are so painfully shy that they don't have the guts to ask a woman out. Surely that doesn't mean they are 'not available for a relationship'? Such a guy requires a woman who can take the initiative. We'll all seen guys like that seekinghelp on this forum.
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    The reason why she decided to friendzone you was because you started to act needy and clingy. I agree with Mr Jones's comment- you were a bit forward. In future don't spend too much time on the phone with a girl you havn't met yet. Call her, set up a date and hang up. Give her the gift of missing you. Don't be nice and polite. It kills atttraction. DOn't talk about your family, love, relationships etc on the phone. Its plain boring. Remember, there are plenty of other guys chasing her as well. Wait until you've met her before you start talking about the serious stuff. For now, move on. Just take this as a lesson. Dont be offended by my comments. Its just 'tough love' meant to help you.
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    Its no always the case. Some shy guys may not respond not because they are uninterested but because they are unsure if the girl likes them. In this case, all that the girl has to do is reassure the guy of her feelings towards him. Concerning this particular guy, I think he doen't deserve this girl. She has done al that she can to directly express her love for this guy -without any head games. thereforeeee I think she should move on and find a guy who appreciates her.
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    A shy guy's attempt at being cocky. Give him a chance. He obviously likes you. In future remember that men are not so good at reading body language. We prefer direct communication- word for word.
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    Physical attraction is not important at all. Just taking good care of what you have will get you lots of girls. You also have to be cocky (mixed with funny). Trust me, it works. Its strange that the women on this forum generally do not like cocky guys yet the cocky guys are the most successful with women?!
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    In that case he wouldn't want to be seen with you as that would 'ruin his chances' with her.
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    ...or maybe he fancies one of his co-workers? Just a thought.
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    Busy restaurant, busy man. You give him a piece of paper. Probably misplaces it before he's even read it. Ask him if he actually rea the note. Chances are high that he didn't. Most guys would not intentionally reject a woman without giving her at least a chance.
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    I agree with brandy. Look NASCAR, if this girl had no interest in you, she wouldn,t be hanging out with you so often. Besides, if she was serious about this other bf you would have at least seen him by now?! You say that you overheard her talking about a bf - has it ever occurred to you that maybe she was talking about you? My guess is that you are spending more time with her than she is with this bf. Would a girl who didnt love you spend more time with you than with her 'bf'? Figure it out. In my opinion this girl really likes you. The important thing now is keep on being interesting and a challenge to keep the spark going. Don't worry too much about the bf issue; you dont even have to ask her about it. Just relax and don't act insecure. Things will clear themselves out in time.
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    I think you should continue to do what's working for you. Enjoy the time that you spend together and let things progress naturally. There is no doubt in my mind THIS GIRL REALLY LIKES YOU. You dont have to ak her, the evidence is there right infront of your eyes. Actions speak louder than words.
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    ..and by the way, from all that you have said, it seems that this woman really likes you ;-)
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    Don't tell her how you feel yet. It will diffuse all the tension that has been building up. Invite her to do some fun activities with you, maybe over weekends. That way, things will progress naturally and I have no doubt you will find out how she feels about you. Confessing "I love you" can kill the romance, even if it existed.
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    A sexy pair of legs allways gets me smitten.
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    Find someone who respects you as a person and forrget about this girl. My goodness, "lying on another guy's lap" while you watch is taking things a bit too far. Run from this relationship!
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    I'd end the relationship if I were you, or at least back out for a while. She's manipulating you and trying to make you feel jealous. She feels that she can control you and has become so comfortable in the relatioship to the point of being arrogant. If she cannot respect your feelings, then maybe its time for you to take a stand and move on.
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    Maybe you are not coming on strong enough. Women want to know where they stand in the relationship. Make your intentions clear and be a bit more physical. If you spent all weekend without trying to be physical, perhaps she felt that you were not attracted to her and that's why she started to ignore you.
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    Try going to church. Its easier to meet friendly people there who will respect you for who you are. Try not to have such a negative opinion of yourself. When you don't love yourself, its somehow subconsciously projected to those around you and that makes them avoid you. Be cheerful and practice smiling to yourself in the mirror. It will rub off on those around you. I am sure you must be good at something: use any talent that you may have to meet others with similar talents. That way you will share ideas and make friends, which could eventually lead to you finding a soulmate. For the momment, the most important thing is for you to learn to love yourself first.
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    Brokenheart, I think you should arrange for a date with this guy and have a serious talk with him. Be honest about your feelings towards him and ask him where the relationship is going and where you stand with him. If he does not give you a straight answer about his commitment towards the relationship, then in my opinion, you should move on. It will save you a lot of heartache and time and it will make 2007 a year to look forward to.
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    Move on dunlevyd, this relationship cannot be salvaged. Take it as a lesson. While I'm not out to preach to people, I'd advise you to stay away from drugs-they're nothing but trouble and contrary to popular belief, they don't make you look macho.
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    Well then what remans is a choice between forgetting about the guy completely or exposing her vulnerability by pouring out her feelings. The questions is, which option are you willing to take, Camilla?
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    Yeah, its definitely a non-starter. The difference in maturuty is too big in this case. While your mind is probably set on long term plans such as marriage, all she is likely to be thinking about right now is having fun. While you might enjoy the physical aspect of the relationship, there should be more to a relationship than just the sack.
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    Hey, Camilla67, just pour out your feelings to him. That way, you'll find out exactly how he feels about you instead of torturing yourself with worrying.
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