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  1. Altruist
    Just forget her. You stand to lose both of them if you pursue her.
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    When someone doesn't try to talk unmecessarily, it can mean that he is satisfied and comfortable in the relationship. He does not feel threatened and evaluated at all. I agree with Keenan's reinforcement of my statement. A relationship, like yours, where one talks a lot while the other does not talk much is one of the best because quiet people are usually very good listeners. Howeer, its a different matter altogether if the quietness stems from insecurity and shyness.
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    Hmm a fuller figure is attractive.
  4. Altruist
    You're on point. Just give her some time. Go out with her less often but don't try to avoid her.
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    Those surveys hardly ever ring true. ATTRACTION IS ILLOGICAL and trying to use logic to try and figure out why men get friendzoned doesn't work at all. You just have to look at how many multi-degreed men fail where even a man who's never been through a classroom door succeeds tremendously.
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    That's too strong a statement corvidae. You should try to barnish such self-deprecating opinions of yourself. Love starts from within.
  7. Altruist
    There's no doubt in my mind that he's interested!
  8. Altruist
    Perhaps 'shutting him out' for a while might bring him back to his senses.
  9. Altruist
    An uptight guy would definitely find it flirty and offensive. Btw I love you too!
  10. Altruist
    Its OK, take it slow. Unless you have doubts about Kelvin's commitment, there is nothing to worry about for now.
  11. Altruist
    Too much attention can be 'suffocating' and can make a woman lose interest in you very fast. You have to strike a delicate balance. You will learn with time. Just don't let these past two relationships faze you.
  12. Altruist
    Just lean back and wait for her response. Keep yourself occupied to avoid thinking about her too much. She will call.
  13. Altruist
    Yes, you dfinitely have to do something, but let it be small. Failure to do something might strain the relationshio for both of you and might lead to the relationship downgrading itself to 'just friends'.
  14. Altruist
    She needs some sympathy. Most of her problems were not self-inflicted
  15. Altruist
    If there is no click, and you suspect that there never will be, its better not to go out with the girl at all otherwise you will be guilty of leading her on.
  16. Altruist
    Yeah, you're right, and I've always liked shorter girls...
  17. Altruist
    I agree with you Batya. There will always be something to talk about if you fill up your life with other activities and interact with others.
  18. Altruist
    Yes, like 6'2".
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    From all similar threads that I have read it seems there is a consensus that what women want in a man is CONFIDENCE guys.
  21. Altruist
    Yeah, maybe. Its her loss I guess. Yo've got to make yourself believe 'you're the catch' and if somebody bails out on you, the its their loss. That will help you to go on with your life.
  22. Altruist
    I think there is a special person for each one of us. It could just mean that that person is not the right one. When you meet the right person, the interest will be mutual.
  23. Altruist
    I'm right here cupcake. lol
  24. Altruist
    That's where you made a mistake pal. An hour is just too long. In principle, you should cut the conversation when the girl is still enjoying it so that you give her the gift of missing you. It also stops you from saying too much. What can you do now? I would suggest that you not call her for a week and after a week give her a call. If she doesn't give you a good response, I'm afraid that signals she has lost interest and there is pretty much nothing you can do. On the other hand, if she does respond well, make sure you don't repeat your previous mistake but just be laid back and relaxed. Calling her too much makes you come accross as needy and that doesn't do well for any relationship.
  25. Altruist

    Beards?

    Altruist replied to Biffy's topic in Dating Advice

    Really? Thats strange. Those look kind of extreme to me. Oh well if the ladies like that maybe I should start cultivating mine.
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