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    im following you here lol
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    that guy was just pissed off cause you knocked him back. its early days so your bound to be mistrusting of men..i think its always difficult to move onto another relationship especially when you really loved the guy..but give yourself time.. the feelings for the guy have to be gone or at least pretty much gone before you even begin to think about dating anyone else. you just have to remember that not every guy is the same..when the time comes for you to start dating.. dont make the mistake of judging a new guy by your old guys mistakes.
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    hehe yea ive fantasized to. he left me for someone so i fantasize it will go horribly wrong for them ..then the mtf will come crawling back and i get to say EFF off ! ahh nice
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    Its hard to walk away..but trust me calling her over and over to get knocked back time and time again feels a lot worse. sometimes you just have to walk away.. she knows where you are if she wants you she would contact you.. and if she does time will have passed..its suprising how you will change how you feel with a few weeks of not talking with her. good luck sweetie
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    Heartbreaker - Dolly parton and I wish-Jodee Messenger
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    i would leave it alone.. NC is very hard to do but it needs to be done. if she wants you she will contact you..if not then it wasnt meant to be.. if you keep calling her or mailing her..she is gonna think one of two things. 1. that your a very needy person and that will creep her out or 2. your a puppet for her to pick up and drop whever the hell she feels like it. she has asked you to stop calling her.. so leave it be.. hold your head up high and walk away.
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    people makes mistakes..dont they deserve a second chance? he went to prison but he was honest about it.. surely if he meant her any harm he would try to hide the fact he went inside. i do agree though that if you went to meet him you should take a friend with you. its always a risky thing when you meet someone from online.. but if you approach it with a sensible head then it can be fine. i dont think you should give up on him..i would say meet sooner rather than later though.. cause how many years you going to wait and then if there is no chemistry ..what a waiste of life.
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    this makes you think about how a ex or presant bf see you.. thats scarey ! first i thought yes i would date me..then i thought oooh wait.. would i really?
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    when i was younger i used to have a huge fear about being alone. as in single. so i would jump from one relationship to another. some good some not so good. i often wonder how many people would still be single if they waited for the ONE.. instead of meeting someone and staying together for the sake of not being alone. im older now and decided im better off alone rather than in a dead relationship just to keep up with the joneses so to speak. i know people that are married with a coupkle of kids ect..and so dam lonely feeling trapped, being single is a good thing, compared to that
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    i feel the exact same way..this was my first time meeting someone online, although i wasnt looking for some. it just kind of happened. i really believed we were going to meet ect.. but he dissappeared instead of telling me it was over . i heard a lot of happy endings to meeting people online.but im feeling the same way as you. that i doubt i would do the whole online thing again
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    i would send one mail.. keeping it plain and simple. telling her that im not waiting around like this anymore.then its up to her. if she wants to meet you then cool.if not then walk away. easy said i know.. but what else can you do..wait for years?
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    i agree with LostinMyThoughts.. i dont think there is any set rules.. i wouldnt wait too long though. i know ppl from both ends of the scale .some want to meet up within the first few conversations.. some wait months and months. if your in the same town.or close by then there is no reason to wait to long.
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    35 minutes away .hmm that seems like something is wrong. she has been talking with you for 11 months via the internet and phone. but isnt ready..ffs how long does she need.i could understand if it was 350 miles or sumthing..but she is only a quick drive away. i would see this a huge red flag. usually if you are right into someone you cant wait to meet.. yes people get nervous but that isnt any reason to wait and wait.she says she is to skinny to meet u. thats a excuse IMO.. you have seen her picture i guess. so she would know you already know how she lokks ect. if i were you i would seriously consider backing off. 11 months is a long time online. and you sound pretty into her, so for your own sake , back off.
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    i know a couple who met online, she was in America and him in Australia,, they were both at school and talked on the phone, on msn, fell in love...they finally met when he came to her country and they hit it off just as good as online. that was 2 years ago, and there still going strong to this day.she is planning on moving there,going to college there.ect.. so it is very possible that things can work out
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    i would ask him..what have you got to lose ? plus if you wait to long he might get snaped up by another..you will regret it if you dont ask.
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    ive been single for a week today he met someone else..i guess its ll pretty fresh for me..im having huge problems execping that i will never talk with him again i hate feeling this way..i wish someone could bash me on the head and i wake up in a year when the pains gone away ; i have no tears left...its a horrible feeling when your whole world is turned upside down in a split second. take care all
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    i agree..i think you can make a real connection with someone online, when you spend a lot of time talking, over time feelings can develop but you cant possibly know if you love them until you have met in RL. IMO of course
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    Since me and my online friend( was more than just friendship but not sure was quite bf/ gf as we hadnt met up )had a few problems and went our separate ways about 6 weeks ago or so. he has contacted me asking if were gonna stay in touch, and he would still like to meet up with me. i havent replied yet.. see he just dissappeared offline and wouldnt answer any of my calls. or sms messages or emails.. i was left thinking * * *? it hit me hard and took me a long time to except that it wasnt ever gonna happen between us. i really want to be in contact with him and i wish i could say id be happy just being friends, but i have feelings for him, im not sure if i can do the friends thing with him. has anyone gone from a online relaionship to just being friends? i kind of wish he hadnt contacted me now, i was sort of doing ok until this
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    My story

    Honey_30 replied to RRB's topic in Suicide & Self-Harm

    hey.. im sorry that you feel crappy right now, but please hang in there. this coming febuary it will be 3 years since my brother killed himself, his marriage failed, lost his home,his kids, she met someone new and moved this man into his house within a couple of weeks of kicking my bro out. im no proffessional, but suicide isnt the answer, think about it, if you die thats it. you will never know what was waitng for you around the corner. no matter how crappy you feel now, how do you knwo what life has in store for you later. its very final to take your life, and so devastating for people who love you who are left behind . take care and please hang in there
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    link removed this site has loads of info on social anxiety. a very friendly forum also,
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    thankyou Hope. xx im also very sorry for your loss also. it is a very difficult thing to understand, so many unanswered questions, so many what ifs...he used to say he was gonna end his life, we used to say ' dont be silly, things will get better,give it time' i guess he felt alone and hurt and made that decision to end his life, i wish there was something i could type to make everyone on this post who feels suicidal feel good about themselves. but im not a proffessioanl,just someone who has felt the aftermath of suicide first hand
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    sometimes the phone bill can become very expensive, if you live far away from each other ..i agree though talking on the phone.or at least through the headset on msn with cams is way more personal than just typing.
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    trust me your family will never get over it.never ever ever !
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    3 years ago this coming Febuary my brother took his own life. his marriage had broken down, his wife left him for another man, he lost his wife, his home, and his children, (he could see them but wasnt living with them anymore) he started drinking, was extremly depressed, i would sit with him until the small hours of the morning just listening and talking, he said he had nothing to live for, he said he wanted the pain to stop, he went to the doctors and they knew he was suicidal they gave him anti depreeants tablets and sent him on his way. the night he died. he was drinking alone, he had a bag of pills..he died alone,on a seetee in a mates flat. the next day family members were concerned we hadnet heard from him since the day before, and mum and dad went looking for him at his mates flat. his car was there, but no answer. the lady upstairs has a key, she offered to let them in. but they said no its ok.. they left. the lady saw a window open and let her self in to shut the window. she found him dead. as you can imagine the next few weeks were a blur. please dont do this to your families,the hurt that is left behind is unbearable,picking up the pieces..feeling the guilt of letting him down. please you really dont know how your life is gonna be in a year time. hang on ..
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    i dont think typing to someone or talking on the phone has no relevance ...i think its a great way to get to know someone from the inside out. of course meeting up for real will be the deciding factor. i would still talk online and call her. ask her if she wants to talk on the phone daily. or is she happy with 2/3 times a week. needy is ringing her 30 times a day.
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