Honey_30
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i agree. be yourself..there are already too many liars online.
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well i now know why he dissappeared. seems like * * * * stirring happens online aswell as in the school playground. our so called mutual online friend has been in there with one huge wooden spoon stiring the * * * *. telling him all kinds of things, and then telling me lies back. she isnt even sorry, she thinks she has done me a favor.she says it would never have worked anyhows. she knew him before i came along and she always had a soft spot for him.i didnt think she would sink to this though. im sooo grr right now ..just needed to vent !
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Im new on here but have a story so please bear with me
Honey_30 replied to englishwoman41's topic in Online Dating
hiya Englishwoman, im quite new here also, and im from enagland. just wanted to say hello. -
gosh...i just read through the whole thread and i dunno how u handle that. pretty confusing for you. i would wanna know one way fo the other, i cant understand why people wants breaks, surely you either wanna be together or you dont, needing space i understand but ignoring you on msn, i wouldnt like that. i feel for you on this one.
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it does seem that way, treat them mean keep them keen seems so dam true.thank god you evenually dumped her * * *!
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wow..and even after all these things you still went back to online dating? i think i would have been put off for life.
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i wanna hear the story liz story
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Terrified of facing the truth, and I have nowhere to turn.
Honey_30 replied to Julie8580's topic in Divorce Advice
i think you should leave him, it sounds to me that you love him but your not in love with him.it is tricky though, the not knowing if your making the wrong decison, but i think i would rather try life without him, rather than carrying on , 10 yrs down the line you probably have kids, and stuck in a dead marriage, not good for children, its hard though when you been with one person for so long, everything you know is with him. but your longing for more.i know people say you should work at a marriage and i think you have tried, it is scarey starting out all over again, but if you dont walk away you aint never going to know. some people can handle a marriage that has lost its spice, some ppeople settle for how it ends up. others just cant, they always wonder what if. i think you probably already know you want out, just a little scared of what that actually means, ending everything you know your safety haven, i feel for you on this one, -
im with you Baby carrot... im staying away from online romance too
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i agree , how can you say he is ugly but then say you love him.maybe you love the idea of him. i think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but you have to have a pyshical attraction, what one person calls beautiful is not what everyone would call beautiful, but to say he is ugly, then you have no physical attraction at all. sometimes your first inpression of someone is ewww.. but when you spend time with them there personality shines through, and they become the most beautiful person ever. spend time with him, then decide, thats what i would do.
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hey smitty1. thanks for your comment, i have figured out that he is blowing me off.i still wish he could have just told me that he didnt wanna talk nomore,but actually now i think this is for the best, although i miss him loads, but i think its more just missing talking with him, i guess i got addicted to talking to him, thank god we didnt meet, thank god i didnt truly fall for him, offline. i think your spot on when you say it becomes easier to just stay home and type rather than going out meeting friends new and old. i have done just that, pretty much sat to a pc living in a fantasy world for 9 months, just to have him dissappear on me. i never thought i would have fell for online romance , but i did, so now im just learning to live without the contact with him. have a great day there
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call her bluff. you dissappear for a week. see if she misses you,seems to me its all a little one sided. with you being the steady one and her being kind of on / off and on again. i wouldnt lie about how you feel, but i guess if she only wanted to be friends you have to seriously ask yourself if you can deal with that. sorry i dont have more useful advise for you, but im going through a crappy online thing myself at the minute and im questioning the whole online romance thing
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im sorry your having a similar experiance honeypumpkin. you know i havent even thought about if he was to get back in contact with me, how would i react.....my head tells me that i would tell him to eff off. but knowing me i would probably get sucked back into it . its been 2 weeks now, so im thinking i doubt very much if he would contact me now.a huge part of me hopes he never would contact me again, because i want to get over this, i dont like how it has made me feel. its kind of scared me actually. i really never thought i was deluded or addicted or living a fanntasy, but now im not so sure. it wasnt until he dissappeared that im realising how used to talking with him i had got, i hope everything works out well for you. keep me posted on how things go. take care there x
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well he didnt die or anything .. he has been online, but while im at work. we share a online mutual friend. she has spoken with him a few times.she asked him hey where you been?.. he said he had been busy. he knows my work times. so im guessing he is avoiding me i havent called mailed or sent any sms messages. i want to . but i havent.
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trust me there wont be a next time.i never joined a online date site in my life and i dont think i would ever wanna get involved with someone online again.
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yep everything you wrote is so true, no we didnt meet so i guess it wasnt a traditional relationship, but i always thought i had that reality grip, you know , like i always would think well we owe each other nothing, we arent a couple, actually i wasnt looking for a love interest, we had met in a chatroom which had nothing to do with love or dating, we just were friends talking which became more and more, i guess i have learn a huge lesson here, but it dont stop me from missing him, i know eevrything you wrote makes perfect sense, but now i feel like a bit of a stupid b**ch i guess seeing it in black and white like you wrote it isnt nice for me to read, truth hurts i guess thanks for ur response though.
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hey, yes we did talk about meeting up, in fact he seemed very keen on the idea, this is like a bolt out of the blue, i never thought id be like this, i have friends who got caught up in online love ( or wotever ) and i seriously thought i had a reality grip, but this has done my head right in, i guess he did do a runner, after reading other posts it doesnt seem that uncommon a thing to happen. isnt it amazing how you dont realise that you got addicted to sumthing until it dissappears and you cant have it anymore im like why would someone just dissappear .maybe im nieve ( cant spell lol) i dont get it, i keep saying that i know but i really dont. so im staying strong, i have already mailed , and sent texts to his phone, also tried to call. so now it has to be up to him, but its easier than said, a week tomorrow since i spoke with him, we never go that long without contact, unless its because one of us is away on our hols, but even then we would send a text saying goodnight or summit. im really hoping nothing bad happened, but this has also gave me a huge wake up call. i mean omg, i really thought things were cool with us, but a week with no contact in not so good is it? so now i guess everyone would advise me to do nothing, no more text messages, nomore calling him, no more mailing, hehe i have his home address hmm should i fly out ? ok im joking i couldnt afford that anyhows. dam i know im kind of joking here but im hurting bad here, feel like when my real life relationships went wrong, why would someone just dissappear, isnt that mean, i mean being dumped is pooh but at least you get closure right ? now im babbling i know and im sorry but i dunno what to do now. hey anyways thanks for taking the time to read this. i hope you are well there
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helo. no we never have met, im just kind of miffed by this to be honest, it so isnt like him, he always replys to text messages, maybe later that day or when he has time ect. but to leave it 5 days like this, is out of charactor. if we had been having fights, or he had been online less or whatever then maybe i would have half seen this coming, but things where fine, i guess i will just have to wait and see, but your right i certainly aint gonna call anymore. or email, the thought has entered my mind that something bad has happened, as i know he brought a new car on friday, so my mind is all over the place now. the funny thing is i always thought i had a reality grip on this whole online dating /cyber relationship or wotever, but god now i feel like my world is empty. so sad huh? maybe he met someone else online, maybe he has me blocked. or maybe he just cant get to the pc right now. i dunno
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Hello everyone, this is my first post here, i found this forum, after browsing online, well i think i have been dumped by my online love we have been talking every day well almost for 9 months now, the usual thing, met in a chatroom, started with simple hi how are you ect. we found we shared the same sense of humour, on the same wave length, anyways i dont wanna bored folks here with all the in and outs, but things was brilliant with us up until now. thursday we talked everything was fine, although he was having internet connection problems, but the convo ended the same as usual, but since then he hasnt been in touch, i have sent a few text messages to his phone, he usually replys, maybe not instantly, but always replys,he isnt answering my calls, and i sent a couple of email also. and no reply i have no other way of contacting him other than through msn, or his mobile, or email, so now i just dont get whats going on. from reading other peoples posts, they usually see it coming, but things where fine, or so i thought . do you think he has done a runner? im gutted how someone can share 9 months with you, online every day, sharing depp conversations and then just drop like a bag of sh*t. now im finding my self sat here waiting for him to sign in, dammmmmmm ! any thoughts ?