zrx

Being kissed on the neck and aggressiveness in a female

No way, I would never.

You shouldn't worry about how it looks, its only between you 2.

YouI agree that you should just move on with your life for now, you know you ahve enjoyed the relationship and it had it be this way or would have gotten worse. See what happens man, just live your own life for now.

I would suggest NC right away, she is seeing 2 other guys while seeing you as well. She is trying to please everyone. She is very confused and you need to move on for the time being and work on yourself. Once she figures out what she wants, if she want to be with you she will not see the other two and come back to you. But seeing her now knowing that she is also seeing two other guys will make you fell worse. Hope that helps.

If you haven't heard from him since then I say don't bother with him, you deserve to be treated better than that. But you could talk to him if you can sometime to clear your head as to what really happened. You will learn from this experience.

Avg size is around 5, you shouldn't worry too much about it.

Thanks for the responses, its given me a good view on everything. Much appreciated. I will keep you all posted.

I remember one time my ex and I were away on a holiday and stayed at this resort. At night when we were doing it we heard this guy yell out loud outside, we thought he was yelling at us lol But found out that some peole were arguing a few rooms down from us. It killed the mood because we were so into it. But tried again the next night without no distractions.

I agree, you cannot read her mind, all you can do is ask her by what she means by that. She could have an entirely different understanding to yours.

My ex and I were together for nearly 2 years, we had many great times together and spent alot of time especially on weekends hanging out. Like she would stay at my place or I would stay at her place. However, she does not have much friends and because she was spending alot of time with me she felt as thou she was getting crammed in the relationship. She figured that she needed to work on herself and be by herself before she got committed to a serious relationship. 2.5 months ago she decided to end the relationship because of the personal problems with herself and that she wasn't happy with herself in life. I took the news very hard and it got me really depressed. I didn't know about NC until I found this site and though I may have ruined my chances at ever getting back with her. But I had realised that I needed to work on myself and not contact her until I am ready. After about a month and a half of not seeing her I called her up and was happy to hear from me and we decided to meet up for lunch. We had a great time and later hung out at her place. We then went for a drive and talked about things between us. She basically said that she doesn't want me to wait for her and to go out and meet other people. I said that is fine and she knew how I feel about her. She hadn't been up to much since the breakup while I was telling her about what I had been doing, which was quite alot. After the talk with her it made me feel better. So a few weeks up until now we have hung out maybe once a week, going out to dinner and then last Sunday we went to the movies together which she asked me and we had a great time. We did get into a slight discussion after about whats been going on in our lives. She asked me if anything has happened with anyone but I said theres been nothing. Nothing much had been happening with her either. I didn't bring anything up about us even thou I wanted to. We left it at that and she gave me a hug and we called it a night. Now I don't know what to do, I still have feelings for her and want to be with her, it doesn't hurt when I spend time with her, I feel as thou I am much stronger now thanks to reading peoples posts on here. =) Sorry if I haven't explained my story well, I am not very good at explaining things. Ask me if you need more information. I will update you on the progress each time something comes up.

It is normal it just takes some time, don't worry so much for now, she will get there. Get her to tell you what feels good and what to keep doing more over when that presurre starts building up.

Depends on the person I guess, usaully I cannot go to sleep after sex, I feel completely awake.My ex gf always was out of it after and fell asleep. Only sometimes I have been able to fall asleep right away.

A mixture of fast and slow is good. We both loved it.

I used to do it 1-2 times a week with my gf which was sufficent enough for us, it was hard because only could when we stayed at each others place.

Your not the only one, I cannot imagine sleeping with someone I don't know or who I just met. I would feel terrible afterwards and used. There is no need to feel weird, people like us will cherish the moment we are in a loving relationship.

I was 20, lost if to my ex who I had been with for nearly 2 years, she was my first gf and first relationship.

You should give it some time for him to get his life back together, he has told you he loves you which is good sign.

Work on building friendships in which you can be honest with the guys first and then afterwards. The guys who aren't worth it are the ones who just want to have sex are not worth it.

Makes you two closer, great for relieving stress and a deep bonding experience.

Just means you have taken the relationship further and if thats what you both want and feel is right then there sshould be no problem.