MK33

My girlfriend and I have been having sex for over a year, she has recently told me that she "is not sure" if she has ever had an orgasm. So we talked alot about it, we came to this point, she feels high amounts of pressure building up but then they just go away without actually having an orgasm. Any ideas on this? Anyone know what is causing this? If its normal and how to fix it?

Sorry it may have been usefull to post our ages, I am 26 and she is 25. As far as using toys or suggesting to her to "experiment with her own body". Its not that I am "shy" or that I feel that we can not communicate with each other, but I dont know how I would bring these subjects up.. not to sure how comfortable I am with talking about it, and Im not sure how she would react to me bringing these subjects. I normally wouldn't have a problem talking to a female about things like this, I just care about her so much that I dont want to make things odd. As I said I am not sure how she would react to the subject. I dont want to sound unexperienced but the truth is I am. Is this just something I have to personally overcome? I know these things will be necessary to have a healthy sex life.

Hello, this is my first post here, I came accross the forums looking for awnsers to a few questions. I tried to search first but there are so many posts I could not find anything that directly awnsered my questions. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. We have known each other and been close friends for nearly 8. We have a very open sex life. I had little sexual experience going into the relationship, maybe 3 or 4 other sexual relationships. By no meens do I think that I know much... As far as my girlfriend I am the only person she has been with. We were talking recently at it came up that she was unsure if she had ever had an orgasm.. which is an indicator in my opinion that she hasn't. So we tried a few different things, she now says that she has. Now my questions on this. 1) What are some indicators that I will be able to notice that she is having or had an orgasm, because I am unsure if she is saying she has only to make me feel good. 2) What are some methods / any direction to books or other articles with methods for bringing a female to climax. 3) This one is a bit off topic.. I am planning on asking my girlfriend to marry me. I'm not sure how I feel about her not ever being with someone besides me... now dont get me wrong, I dont want her to be with anyone else now.. and I want to be intimate only with her... ie I do not think fondly of for instance bringing another man into our sex lives for a new experience for her.. but I feel a little bad about her going through life being with only me. Is this normal?