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  1. juno
    If the person u like kissed u, would u mind asking him why?.
  2. juno
    It seems like u are getting in the game of destructive behavoir. "if only she realized Im the man of er life"..."she loves me but wants me to prove her again"... The question is Does she go after u?.. or u go after her?.. Be careful man.
  3. juno
    Hey man, what are u scared of?. She has given you a lot of signs of attaction but she acts weird cos she wont sell short either. What the *** are u waiting for? To see her change because u chiken out. Believe me she'll walk away if u dont say anything and you'll regret every minute arfter that. I think you are very attracted to her. just tell her you need sth important to tell her and let it out bro. Luck.
  4. juno
    He relates drinking with the break-up. Then prevents you to see him around alchohol cause he hasnt chaged and is not ready to do it so. He wants you to accept him as a drunk. Do you want him as that?. A relationship doesnt work when one of the two is not ok. Good luck.
  5. juno
    Brandon is right. I cheated myself thinking that I could go out with my ex hoping to get her back. She even tauched me a little in the chest from time to time and me feeling waaaaw im doing ok.... only bs...... I finally realized the relationship was over and felt real pain. You are just playing games with yourself man, its like mental ja....offs. She calls you to see u are still there like a real idiot. Move on man. Before you feel very hurt when you finally see her with another man. Stop torturing yourself. When a woman loves you she wants to be with you and have sex with you but she doesnt. Good luck.
  6. juno
    Well, first, find out if she loves you. If she doesnt then you'll get really hurt. Sex can make a powerful connection between the two of you. But that bond can easily be broken if you question her past. If she loves you she'll discover u are the one to have sex with. Dont be jelous of her past she chose u to have sex with. But be careful sex doesn't mean love. Protect your feelings. Or enjoy a ralationship based on sex. The question here is What do you want?. The whole package or just sex?. Does she go after you or you go after her?. Luck.
  7. juno
    Hi, I understand u wanted to go hunting because u "really" wanted. I think u are justifying here that he cant bear leting u go. And then get u in the loop again. If u dont allow yourself to understand that the relationship is over. It'll just prolong the pain till u discover the relationship is ended. I pretended I could be the friend of my ex and felt like real *** when I saw her with another guy. Going out like nothing has happened will just prolong the pain. The same happened to me and in the long run it just bit me in the ass. I started to feel really angry and sad. I hope it doesnt happened to you. Luck.
  8. juno
    It was really nice reading your last posts. It seems that you have grown a lot in comparison to her. She knows you love her inconditionaly but still holds something inside about some issues she has to deal with. Unfortunatelly she has to find those things herself. Trying to push her recovery will just cause her to run. If she is not ready to face those issues then she will not do it now. She likes spending time with her gay friend cause gay people connect better with women bieng more sensitive and harmless to be with in terms of feelings. She knows he wont hurt her when sharing thoughts and feelings about personal experiences. I may suggest you to try to show that you can be vulnerable in front of her. If she knows that, then she may want to start opening a bit with you. Drinks only numb thoughts this is a signal of something hidden. Good luck.
  9. juno
    If she ditched you. Then is obvious that she is not really into you man. Asking other people is just a way to keep herself up with you in case she wants to go out and have some fun that. Doesnt mean she wants u back. There are no solutions here just options. The question is what u want out of this relationship. She is just entertaining herself. Luck.
  10. juno
    Yes, man move on. That's the only way to heal. There are no solutions just options. U will never know why she did that. If she didnt tell you the reasons then she was feeling unconfortable with you and was too coward to face the facts. Even if she comes back to you u know she isnt really into you man. Im experiencing the same here and it's fu.... painful. Just bear the pain and time will do the next. Luck.
  11. juno
    It seems that she misses u as a companion more than a boyfriend. Of course its painful to understand that a relationship is over. But try to look for real signs of the possibility to get back together. Did u break up because u say both were getting bored? or she was getting bored?. The thing is something has change in both. Ask her if she is willing to work on the ralationship. If she avoids the question then she's just feeling bad over the break-up. That doesnt mean she wants u back. Be careful with your feelings. When something changes in one there're few chances to get back together unless both want to work on that. Luck.
  12. juno
    what does she want to be single? were there any signs of problems between u both?... A break-up is something horrible to do to a person.. she may feel guilty but that doesnt mean she wants to get together. Be careful and look for real sings... ask her if she wants u back if not then she just feels bad over the break-up. Dont cheat yourself thinking different things... or you could end up real hurt... luck
  13. juno
    ok this guy will end up beating you up if you give in to him. Read something about mysoginy. He starts bieng real nice then changes into a real monster. Be careful. Dont trust anyone who dont respect you all along. Luck
  14. juno
    This sounds very confusing to me too. You mention u have always liked him as more than a friend. Do you have feelings for your current boyfriend or he is just a cover up of your real feelings that u have for Brent. Are u using your bf as a stand-by realtionship?. Your bf should know at least the true. Be honest with people if you want people to be honest with you. Luck
  15. juno
    I know it's really painful when a relationship ends. The most curious thing is that we keep thinking about the only woman we think is our savior from madness. She is obviously emotionally involved with the other guy that's why she is still with him. Most difficult is to accept that she prefers him instead of you and that really sucks and hurts but that is true. You are still feeling heart broken. In this period it's almost imposible to try to see other women as romantic options. But keep breathing the wound will heal as soon as u reacognize the relationship is really over for good. I hope u hit the bottom fast so u can revover again. Luck.
  16. juno
    Hi sadman, Im really sorry that your relationship ended I know is damn painful. Try not to be friends for some time, the time necessary for you to be ok with your feelings. If it ok with you, you can be friends after you get over it. Just know you need time to learn to see her as a friend (it sucks I know). Keep reading this forums and keep yourself busy to feel better. Luck
  17. juno
    Your situation has become complicated. Yelling at a woman is something difficult to forget. she is punishing you for the things u made to her in he past. She knows she has u to play with but she doesnt trust u anymore. She is with the two guys now. U and the ex. She says they broke up. But u know a break up is hard to deal with. It usually takes time to recover. Move on but work on your issues. Why do u yell at women?. It seems that u convince yourself of your own exuses. Good luck.
  18. juno
    Three weeks is very little time man, And u are absolutely in pain. Get things off your chest as much as possible. This woman found another person and felt conected with him. She flew to go after him. She left you. She gave you some signals when she came home remember. Let her go. Man. If she ralizes her mistake she might come but it may be to late to fix the problem. Luck.
  19. juno
    This siuation has become full of things that made it hard to cope with. Even if u both had the chance to get back together the memory would backfire both. I think its time to move on. U know one become dependant on a person to a certain level. (she is a loving person etc.). I think it creates some sort of chemichal changes and conections in our brain that is comparable with alcohol or drugs. The withdrawal period is painful but necesary. keep still man u are not alone here.
  20. juno
    She is very selfish, sean. who knows why. People sometimes learn to be like that because of their life experiences. But we are not animals to fight for women like in a jungle. U give a try when u thing there's something real to fight for. Women sho fall in love, respect other people's feelings cause they know how hard it can be to trust someone. Keep in mind there are differente kinds of women. Luck.
  21. juno
    Trying to contact her so soon will just worsen things man, She oviously needs time to think things a little. Im bloody sure you have almost an anxiety attack when checking your inbox dont u?. Same happens to me. Give her some time. If she is the one then she'll come back. U need to think things too. U mention the things she did for u. But dont mention the things you've done for her. Was she expecting something back?.. I think it's time to reevaluate your own part of the relationship. Good luck, mate.
  22. juno
    I know exactly hou u feel because Im in the same situation here. She told me she doesnt know what to do 'cause she needs time to herself but said only time will say what is the best relationship for both of us. As the idiot that Im im still waiting for her although she ignores me cold. every time I send her an email she just asnwers with. "Good morning, have a nice day" I remember she told me sometime ago that she still keeps in touch with her ex and they are kind of fixing things. But I turned a blind eye to it, now that she is not here Im in pain. This situation is so painful. Id really like to have a girlfriend that loves me only. Good luck and try to undestand she is not the one for u.
  23. juno
    kick ass answer John one.
  24. juno
    Life sucks when u dont feel loved. And life is heaven when u feel loved. So look for love and feel heaven again. Some times it takes time to understand one can survive being alone. Just dont depend on a anoher person to live. We came naked and lonely to this planet. But we can have friends to share our life with.
  25. juno

    Misogyny

    juno replied to ezila's topic in Relationship Advice

    Thanks a lot for reminding us of that Ezila. Yeah! Women keep surprising me a lot. The thing is this is a forum we use to expess our feelings cause u women have their friends and a lot o practice sharing feelings, that's a real advantage. We have culturaly learnt to hide them. u see!. I suggest u give some advice to us on how to cope with a break-up. Thanks.
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