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3 nights ago i met this great girl at a party and we hit it off, she had to leave kind of early because she worked early the next morning, so i walked her to her car and we chatted for awhile and i got her cell phone number easily, so i called her last night after 3 days and she was hanging out with a few friends from work and they were drinking so i didn't really get to talk to her all that much, all though she did seem happy to see i actually did call her, after about 10 minutes of her one friend talking to me about chastity belts, the girl i called asked me to call back in a half hour so we could talk and not be distracted, so i called back in about an hour figuring to make sure she was home by then so we could talk and i got her answering machine, i left her a message with my number saying if you want to talk about this weekend give me a call, i am just wondering if you think that her not answering means she isn't interested or what do u think it means, i know she has caller id on this phone, i saw it at that party, i really don't want to call her again without her calling me, i want to know she is interested enough for my time, just let me know what you guys think thanks

ok quickly, i was living with this great girl for 3 years and dating her for 4, we broke up about 2 months ago, because she needed "space" and time to be single, for the first month we just got into arguments, now for the last month we have been talking great and better than ever and spending hours upon hours on the phone and we have told each other we never felt closer to each other, she is seeing this other guy on a pretty regular basis but continues to call me and we act like more than just friends and when we hang out (about twice a week), no funny stuff goes even though i get the feeling that she is open to it, she called me just now at work and wants to hang tonite, she suggested just getting a movie and hanging out at my house, i know it is all better when you dont expect anything, but what do you people think i should read into this and what do u think might happen if i make a move, i do not want to mess things up farther beyond the point of reconciliation cause that is what i want with her any tips on what movies to rent and how i should act and what i should do???? please advice quickly

I WAS JUST WONDERING IF ANYONE ON HERE HAS EVER BEEN LEFT BY A GIRL WHO SAID SHE NEEDED SPACE AND JUST WANTED TO BE SINGLE, THEN WITHIN A WEEK HAS A NEW BOYFRIEND, then after about a month and a half to two months, she starts calling 2-3 times a day and we talk for about 2 hours every time, but continues to tell me that she does not want to be together right now, she is still hanging out with this guy, we had lived together for 3 years, the guy is a bartender at the bar we frequented and i had been somewhat friends with this guy. we have been hanging out about 2 times a week the last few weeks and we have more fun than ever before, but no funny stuff goes on, i think we both wouldn't stop the other, but i get the feeling she doesn't admit she made a mistake and i know i don't want to initiate it and screw things up farther. if she is calling me and we decide to hang out pretty regularly, what does that mean? i could really use some advice on what you girls perceive her actions as and if any guys ever had somethin like this and actually got back with her, i think it would be better than ever if we did, because we are closer now than ever, and i want to be back with her so badly

what is the worst that could happen---she says no what is the best that could happen---you find a really great girl that you already can't stop thinking about i dont see why you already haven't made the move and asked her out for a date

my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about 2 months ago and said she needed space and wanted to be single, but my problem is that i have told her how much she means to me and how badly i want to get back together and she has told me repeatedly that she can see us back together and still loves me, but a few times i have felt so terrible that i have told her not to call me anymore, but she still calls the next day, i would say that we spend about 2 hours per day on the phone and probably 5 nights a week on the phone real late saying goodnight. My question is, if she is still calling does that not mean she knows i am the one for her, what should i do or say on the phone to help my cause so we can be happy together again and continue our lives together?