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  1. juno
    Thank u for having the courage to write in this forum. You'll defenitelly find friends here. Take one step at a time. Set a small goal first. Mention to a friend that u would like to be invited for the next party then show up and have fun. Most of the people who have many friends, have fun being themselves first, then people like them cause they look self-sufficient. And that is acttractive. Nobody hates u beautiful Zoe. They just dont know u yet. Good luck.
  2. juno
    When a person feels something for someone that person is not afraid to show emotions and doesnt care about what the people may say around. This guy lives and sleeps with his ex..or posible still girlfriend. We've all seen through this forums how hard is to deal with a break up. The person whose got the heart broken needs space and time to get over it. Believe me it's a nightmare. That "living together as friends is just bs taken from soup operas" He is your friend right?. Let him be honest first, specially if u want sth in the future. Be careful my dear nobody deserves to fall in an abyss being lied to. Good luck.
  3. juno
    Hi Gil. u once gave me and advice here and I've been following your story through your postings. It seems that both of you are going through a lot of pain because of your marital status. And I remember u wanted to travel and give her a letter of goodbye. You said "I want her to start her own healing process then after that I'll know if I have a chance". You know, hope is the last thing we keep deep in our minds, dont u? and pain make us commit mistakes. well, as i see it she suffered some kind of abandonment cause she didnt want to start that process 'cause she cares for u. But in your own pain you wanted to push it hard. You know we sometimes want things to get ready just now, but that takes time man. First get the d... divorce then I think is time for you to risk your heart once again and try to fix things by asking her if she wants to fix things and go to a couseling service together. If she doesnt want to take a chance then you'll know the relationship is turning into a destructive one. Nobody really deserves that. Good luck.
  4. juno
    Well, the only posible thing here is that u become her toy and get little kissing from time to time. Forget about sex. She'll deny it from u cause she doesnt want to hurt you. She knows a nice and sweet guy is to have a convesation with but not sex. U said the only thing u want is a normal relationship but she is not ready for that. she wants to hang out with other guys she might already be making out with some of them. Is that what u want or u want a real relationship with a woman who really cares for u?. I think is time to walk away and get ready to look for someone else. Good luck.
  5. juno
    You know It's hard to get over a relationship right?. Well, give this woman a time to think about hers as well. If there's a chance with you she'll make the moves. Don't feel tempted to ask so soon. She may fix the things with her ex-boyfriend and you'll end up heart broken. She has to decide her own future. Dont give up your own life waiting on this woman, be there when she's ready. But be cautiuos too. Good luck.
  6. juno
    I think that sending the letter will give to your mind more stuff to continue with your pain, thinking about the response. Well, it may seem impossible now but healing will come with time. U broke up badly and there's little chance to become even friends. Is difficult to trust again when someone is cheated on. The emotional memory is something very powerful. Give yourself time to recover and dont get involved in another relationship to try to heal. The only relationship u have just now is with yourself. Good luck.
  7. juno
    Hey man, this sounds like the same story that happened to me. well in your description u dont mention any other quality beyond fisical attraction. She is hot huh? very atractive, right?. And u want her badly, dont u?. It drives u crazy and now u are abssesed with her. Well many attractive women know that and give a little taste of sex and then run fast as hell. They know we as men will follow them like ants after honey. Why? because the promise of amazing sex. Well the truth is she enjoys her sexuality and plays with a lot a men because she CAN. And that's her right. Is that what u want? just sex man!. Well become her toy and get laid but be careful with your feelings. Dont play with fire being the nice guy.
  8. juno
    Every fight takes two to start. U dont mention the incident that made things be difficult. Honesty is important here. I think u should talk with her about the incident that happened before, if you dont air the wound it will never heal. Be honest and accept any wrong doing in your part. Dont be afraid to express emotions and the nessesary apoligies. u think she was upset with u about something but does she know u werent?. Did you both talk about it?. She may think u are still mad and so that she feels bad. Be honest with yourself and riks your heart. If she isnt willing to open up then you'll have to take a different decision about your relationship. Good luck.
  9. juno
    Ok here is what i think. I think she likes u but she hasnt still decided to go after u or not. To get over a break up takes sometime specially if the relationship was somehow strong. U should be nice with her and keep being a good, nice friend. If you can make her laugh that's a good point in your favor. But be careful she may be wanting some affetion after the break-up. Her ex could come back and get her back. and you'll end up broken hearted. Anyway u have a lot of adventages being a nice friend. U may get another woman being yourself. Risk and learn. Good luck
  10. juno
    I think she was trying to test your credibility. Once you said "I like u" stay with that no matter how panicked you may feel. Women like men who can express their feelings, eventhoug they may not get involved right away. But they know the guy is an option. I think she was affraid of opening fast. any realtionship needs sometime to develop. A good apology could fix things for a time but she'll be very cautious about the things you'll say in the future. Be honest with your feellings first then dont back off once u espress something else. Luck
  11. juno
    I agree with swingfox here. you say this guy is not the person who is able to express his feelings. Isn't that nesesary to be in a relationship?. Guys who can't express their feelings make women feel abandoned and that is unfair to them. This guy wants just sex. Sex is fine and part of a relationship and anyone can get sex by asking honestly for it IF that's the only thing a person wants. Im sure you deserve more than that.
  12. juno
    I think u have an advantage among other men. You can express your feelings and that a real amazing thing to have. yeah I know women look for the man who is tough and coky. but don't u want something real in your life man?. There are women out there looking for men who are not affraid of their own feelings. keep your chin up. And look ahead. (very simple to say, terribly hard to do. Im myself still strugling to get over a woman) Good luck!
  13. juno
    I dated this woman for two months. Then she told me it was getting too serious and broke up with me. I agreed to be friends but i had the hope to get back together. (was i cheating myself here). A week ago I overheard that she is in love with somebody else. But i've never seen anyone around her. Anyway anytime we see each other we go eating out and hold hands sometimes even kiss a little. She feels jelous when i talk to someone else and makes me feel jelous when we are together by wandering her eyes to other guys. When I send her emails she just replies with simple words like. "Im in a hurry here I can't answer now. Hope to see you soon" etc. Well, the thing is i can't forget about her I think about her all the day. All the time. Im in pain now fisically and mentally. I talked to her about my feelings she just says well i can't give u an answer now i don't know what i want. Just time will give us and answer. God! what can I do? help please.
  14. juno
    still in pain
  15. juno
    Hi, I hope someome can say somethig about it. I started dating this woman two months ago. She said she'd like to be friends before we could move into somethig more than friends. I agreed and everything was just right. Then we started going out more often and ended up kissing and playing sexually. Arter some days she started being emotionally distant then I asked about it and she said "let's stay friends I'm not ready to have a boyfriend" Ok then we went out as friends a couple times. And started this little game of bumping into each other like it was a coincidence. Eating together like two big friends. Then in a conversation among other people somebody asked her about another person. She said "oh that guy. Im in love with him. I love him" I felt hurt a lot. I mean why didn't she say something about him before?. I told her if you want us to be friends lets be honest with each other. Then I brought out all kind of questions from the recent past. She just said I dont know what to say. And kept silence. I dont know why Im feeling lonely and betrayed. Am I a sick or what?. Am i stupid?
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