I am in a relationship of seven years on and off We have one child and she has a daughter from a previous relationship. There have been some problems on and off, but the situation as it is now started about a week and a half ago. There was a situation where she thought that I was angry with her, but I was not. I left home to finish my work, turning off my cell phone like I sometimes do. When I turned it back on there were about 9 calls from her, and four voicemail messages that went from teary and very disturbed to angry. before that incident we were very much in love,tothe point that you could tell by looking at us. Now it is sooo different. She says that she wants to start our relationship over as friends and let things re develop because it is like we really don,t know each other. We don,t kiss hold hands, or anything else, not to mention sex. When we talk she doesn,t make eye contact. She seems to really do anything that she can not to connect with me. She does call me every day so that we can spend some time together before she goes to work,and she wants us to to move into a house together???????? These mixed signals are really confusing. She says that she still loves me, but her non-verbal communication does not bear this out. Can someone please tell me what is going on, and what I can do (if anything to save our relationship.
