Doctor Smurf

Think I can do that at my age!!?? Nooo lol... Anyway I'ma t college because I've alway been home educated - Bnot expelled or anything just never been in school. I have to go to col to do my GCSE's. Trouble is i see lotsa fit girls who are all like 18!! It makes me feel terrible! Dan

Im sorry if this is in the wrong place, please move it if it is! Anyway, when girls where these trousers that seem to sit a long way (and I mean that literally!) down their legs / hips, do they usually have to shave? Its just something thats been bugging me, wondering if they do or not!! I see a lot of girls at college who are wearing that sort of thing, with small-ish tops. Whats the deal?

Well, I work at a gym, and you guys seems to be stronger than most (All?) of the people that i see. Thats gotta make you feel good!! Dan

Well, if any of you remember I wanted to get a girl who came in to where I work. (Gym) Anyhow, I've got her e-mail last wednesday, (Well happy! lol). I was hoping to see her this Wednesday, gauge her attitude and ask if she would like to meet me the next day. She's not going to be there Wednesday. She's going to a college open evening so at least I know what she's doing! Shall I try and gauge how she is over e-mail and ask her anyway, or do I wait until Wednesday after this one and try again? I really don't want to scare her away see. Please advise!

Nearly last year. We where both 14, she wanted it, I didn't. So... WE didn't! We split about 2 weeks after that, so for once in my life I consider that I really did do the right thing!! 8)

I see a girl in my french class who always sits directly opposite me in the classroom so we are looking almost straight at each other. Do any of you lot have some ideas of how I can get her attention? I can't go and chat to her beacuase of the class / teacher apart from before the class. Its in the evening so thats the only time I see her. Thanks Dan 8)

Well, If it really wasn't personal at all then I shouldn't worry about it too much. I think the thing to do is to see if he txts you again, I doubt he will. As for the thrill - We all get it, or at least I have! Dan

Strange, my GF isn't the 'naughty' type either. We sat and chatted through our first date, and when the time for us to get our lifts home came it just sort of happened. I don't know, she just sort of moves towards you and then you kiss her. Not involved at all, but I think it was one of the best ones i have ever had!! Dan 8)

No they dont! Theyre ****** good I think. Sure, theres problems. Im getting a moped when Im 16 (1 year tomorrow 8) ) so I can go places (SSSLLLOOOWWWLLLYYY!!!). I know my parents are OK with that. Dan

Ummm... Im 14, and Ive bought 'em when I was with my last GF. I just used the machine that you get in the guys loos. No trouble, but a quid each. Cheaper than a kid i guess. FYI we didnt do it! lol.... Dan

Think you hate where you live! I live in the middle of the countryside, one bus a week DURING SCHOOL TIME and my GF lives 20 miles away so we can hardly see eachother. Nearest town = 20miles. Nearest girl = 2miles, and she older than me! Dan Ps. Rant over 8)

Im not too sure of your situation, but is he placing your proper value on you? I mean is he just using you (Sorry if that sounds horrible), is he treating you like he should? You sound liek you deserve someone who does.

Well I have been given numbers by girls twice... once i texted th enext day, the other she texted me after about an hour... 8) I would give him a complete maximum of three weeks.

Its this one here link removed im referring too.... Like I said, I didn't want her to break up with her man... Well she accidentally sent me a tect that was meant for her mate to me, asking for her to come around because she had split with him. I texted her to let her know that she had sent it to me, and said I was sorry that he had gone... Now because she lives about 20miles away I couldnt really go out with her, so how can I shoe her that I am a good friend? And as an aside, I seem to have a problem with only 'noticing' girls who are no good for me - I mean too old / too far away. Anyone else have that problem or a cure (If thats possible!) THe fact that I dont' go to school, I do college instead doesn't help. All the girls there are around 18, but I am really good friends with one of them. Thanks for your help all, Dan 8)

Aye Esh thanks man! I figure now that If she really likes / trusts me or whatever then we will keep in touch as friends. I assume that she would mention that she had broken up with her bf then she would say. Ill know if it is appropriate then and I can take action. Safe... Thanks all, happy Valentines day!

Yeah, thats pretty much what I was trying to say. She lives a little too far away for me to date with her proper, so I do want her to stay with her guy. So im ok, yeah?

are you sure that you can rule out the normal no credit, no battery, stolen phone (Ive had that one) or no signal problems. I really cant say apart from that.

Where / are you still good friends with her? And will you see her? I know exactly what you mean about the feeling when you dont get a reply!

Hi! Im the same age as you, but I dont really understand the grades system where you live! If you mean that your 14 and shes 13, then I cant see a huge problem, so long as you prove to her parents your a nice sensible type of guy!!! I have been out with a 13y/o, and neither of our parents where at all bothered. But I had known her Dad for about two years before I met her. I guess I may have been lucky I dont know. Good luck.

Hi all... I went flying with the Air Cadets today (We didnt actually get to fly because of some kind of mess up on the base... ) but on the 4 hour bus trip I aquired a girls number. Her name is Vicky, and shes 15... Anyway, she said that she was taken, but she texted me and we flirted through the whole journey home. She asked me if I fancyed her mate - I said that I liked her (Vicky) better, even though she was taken. She texted back saying that it was 'real sweet, but I love my BF'. Anyway, we kept flirting even after that, and after we parted I texted that I found her very sexy, but that I appreciated she had a boyfriend, but could we just be friends. She said sure, friends are fine. I have two questions from this experience: 1: Thats ok isn't it girls? Its not weird or anything? 2: How can I say 'If you split up with your boyfriend I will still be here' without it sounding strange / over sexual? Thanks all, I appreciate it! Dan

If you mean is she interested in you - I don't think so. Your reading toomuch.

I text too much as well... In thousands of txts I have only mis-sent two, and one was just after I had got a new phone! 8) I wouldnt worry, especially if he sends another saying it was wrong.

Well she does sound in a pretty bad way... Have you sugested counselling and stuff to her or couldnt you do that because of what she would say / do? Or could you speak to her parents? But I guess they are already trying to break them up.... My Dad did a similar thing to me, ( I was oing out with a girl they definatly didnt like) and I didnt like them at all at the time, but I agree with what they say now - remember its worth trying all you can! Dan

I do it regularly, but i dont think i could do it in front of anyone! Too scary... lol... Dan

I think she must still think about you certainly.... Maybe you should try talking to her in private, away from both of your friends? Perhaps the girls can shed some light.... 8)