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  1. Dgirllamius
    A poem is good. it's from the heart then Only say you love her if you actually do 8)
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    He is very very mature for his age. Of course, we both have a laugh and everything, but as I said...WE BOTH have a laugh. I'm not the maturist of people. I am actually quite immature for my age We get on well, as I said before, we both have a laugh but at the same time can be very serious with each other. It's been like that with all my boyfriends. I really can't stand the thought of "growing up". I like to be immature, I like to have a laugh and stuff because I am young at heart. I'm not sure if he feels the same about me. Neither of us really had a reason to speak to one another. We were working together one night some time ago and we started talking, got on really well and we've been talking ever since. He's such a nice guy and funny. He makes me laugh so much. He is defintely mature! He's not like any other 16 boy I've met in the past. I always imagine 16 year olds to be pretty immature.. coming out of school and going to college and everything but he seems somewhat different. I'm from the UK and as far as I know, he is past the legal limit. The "age" of whatever it's called here is 16
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    I've been talking to this guy at work for a bit now. We get on really well, have a good laugh, insult each other (you know, as you do), have a lot in common etc. He's kind, caring, considerate, funny etc...but there's one problem. I'm 19, and he's 16. We got to know each other THEN I found out his age...didn't really change how I feel about him though. Would you say a 3 year gap is much? I know gaps mean more the younger you are (say...a 14 year old seeing a 20 year old) but would 16 and 19 mean much? I like this guy a lot and I don't want the age gap to interfere with our friendship, or what might become more. The only problem I can think of it that I am a right party animal and I like going out, but we won't be able to do that sort of thing together for a bit Sorry for being so confusing lol
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    No way am I going to speak to him ever again about our relationship. He's done something to me that makes me hate him so much and I don't ever want to speak to him again. I'd rather be left wondering why than talk to him to be honest. It's just weird how I couldn't break myself from the dream because I wasn't really asleep. It was as if I wanted to dream it if you know what I mean, but I didn't. I could feel the expression on my face and it felt like I was screwing up my face in disgust. It was such a horrible nightmare and I'm still getting them. I just want it all to end
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    I've been having them since we broke up really. I don't even know the full story behind why we broke up. He broke up with me and I don't even know why. He didn't tell me so I've sort of been left in a lurch. It's all because I wanted a few days away from him because when we were together, we were living out of each others pockets. We were together nine months and it's coming up to the day we got together (17th December). I've been getting these nightmares on and off since we split and it's killing me. All I want to do is cry. I don't miss him. I don't love him anymore and I don't want to ever see him again so why am I getting these nightmares? I hate him so much that I want him dead but I can't understand why I'm dreaming like this
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    OK I'm getting horrible nightmares about my ex but it's not ones where you're asleep. I was awake but had my eyes shut and I could picture it all in full colour. It was a weird nightmare but still a very painful one. My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago. As far as I am concerned, I hate him and I want him dead. I want this because he ran up a £721 phone bill which I am liable for and I have no way of getting out of it unless I make him confess which is hard work. Why the hell am I getting these nightmares? They're hard to describe and they guy who is my ex in my nightmares doesn't even look like him! I wake up and it's still fresh in my mind and I can't think of anything else. I need someone who I can talk to but no one seems to care
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    Woah seriously dude there was no need to get like that I was just asking for some advice and all you do is get lippy.
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    The pain will pass eventually. I broke up with my ex about...errr.....4 months or so ago now and it doesn't hurt me anymore especially after what he did to me. The thing that still makes me cry is what he did to me. He ran up a £721 phone bill under my name and I am liable for it. Only thing left for me to do is to make him confess and get it recorded on tape or video or something... But yes, the pain will eventually go away and you'll meet someone else and you will totally forget about him. The problem with me that my ex is still in my head but in a seriously bad way. I get the feeling of wanting to crawl up and die but don't give up because it's not worth it. If you ever want to talk to someone, then feel free to message me =)
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    Hmm thanks for the advice guys =) I think the best thing I can do really is find someone who knows him and ask them. I mean, I know a load of people who work with him and we work on the same department so it's not as if it's hard or anything. With any other guy I've liked, I've never had this feeling that he may be gay. I don't find it a problem at all, but I'm wondering on whether he is or not because well, I like him loads Confusing stuff this is...
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    I always seem to fall for the wrong guy and to be honest, it's kind of depressing me. There's a guy at work...let's call him Andy for now. I don't really speak to him much, but we exchange smiles sometimes. He's the cutest guy in the world and I really really like him. However, there's a problem, and it's a weird problem at that. Don't laugh when I say this but I think he might be gay. Ok I didn't say that LOL. I don't know why on earth I think this because well, where I live, you can spot someone who is gay a mile out. If he walks like a gay, talks like a gay and does the limp wrist, then he is so gay, but Andy, his voice is very quiet and...gayish LOL sorry I'm not very good at explaining things. He doesn't have the walk and he doesn't go around limping his wrist every chance he gets...Knowing me he probably isn't gay. I never see him outside of work clothes so I can't tell if his dress sense is gay too. Man I feel so stupid after writing this, but I really like this guy and I don't want to go up and ask him if he's gay because if he's not, it might offend him, but I like him so much! HELP!
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    Heh, I find it annoying too. I don't know why men are so obsessed with breasts. They're not even that great! Men would realise this if they had to put up with the damn thing 24/7!
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    I always fall for the wrong guys. They are either with someone or just simply not interested. It's so annoying! Why do I fall for these sorts of people? I always seem to fall for idiots too
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    Surely if he had a condom on, then it wouldn't have got anywhere? I'm confused. I wouldn't worry about it. It seems to me like you're in the clear. If he wasn't wearing a condom, then I would be worried, but he did, so meh. Best get to the doctor and have a check anyway, just to be sure.
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    I had a friend who had a boyfriend who didn't want to do anything romantic. I think they were together for a year and all the did was hold hands As someone said earlier, you're only 13, so I guess it's kind of understandable. Maybe it's because he's shy and that he doesn't want to make the moves. Perhaps you should make the first one? I mean, come on, it's the 21st Century - women are doing all the moves now (well sort of). Talk to him about it and see what he thinks.
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    If he is pressurising you into stuff you OBVIOUSLY don't want to do. You should never be pressured into something you don't want. I can clearly see you are not ready by the way you have discribed things... Also, this guy cheated on you? Why are you still with him? A leopard can't change it's spots, and the chances of it happening again are very high. I'd say dump him, get him out of your life than worry about what you have to do.
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    Thanks guys! I can sort of see where you're coming from. To be honest, I don't really want a high phone bill texting him all the time. I know it's going to be a high one this month. I guess the odd text in the morning to say how you are, what you're doing etc is enough. We don't spend a lot of time together as it is. We can only see each other once a week because he lives 60 miles away. I would like to speak to him all the time, but I guess sometimes it's un-necessary. Some things that are said in texts can be saved for when we speak online later on or something. We do speak online like every day or so, so I guess all can be said then. No use wasting money on something when it can be saved for later Thanks again guys!
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    I've only just sent him the email, so he wouldn't have replied because he's not online. I am probably over-reacting, and I am a very sensitive person and one little thing can bother me. I'll just have to see how it goes, but I am confused as hell!
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    Where to begin? OK, I met a guy online and we started talking and we hit it off really well. We decided to meet up. We met up Tuesday just gone, and I believe that we had a good time and that we were really right for each other. He was just so amazing and I really like him. We decided that we should be girlfriend and boyfriend. Anyway, two days on from the meeting, he doesn't talk as much. He doesn't text me as much as he used to before we met, and well, it's just crap. So, I'm just wondering, what on earth is he thinking? I mean, I really like him, and when we met, he was the one who was making all the moves and stuff like kissing me and hugging me. Surely if you don't like someone, you don't do these sort of things? We also spent 10-11 hours together. If he was really annoyed or bored of me, he would have gone home earlier than he did. Anyway, we got on really well, and he just isn't talking to me as much as he did now. I don't know why. I don't know if it is because my phone is just being annoying and not receiving messages (which it has done before) or he is ignoring me. What do you think? I need some help! EDIT - I sent a message to him via email and told him all of this, well not all, but explained how I was feeling.
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    There's this guy at work, I shall call him Bob so I don't reveal his name. He works on the checkouts and I work in the cafe which is right next to the checkouts. I am being moved to checkouts on Monday, so we will be in the same department. Anyway, I am a very, very shy person, and I want to tell Bob that I really like him. Well, you know, I want him to get the message at the very least. Someone I used to work with in my department found out that he is a really nice bloke and that he doesn't have a girlfriend, which is good. Now, here somes the tricky part. I am moving to checkouts on Monday, meaning we'll be in the same department from now one. If we'll be working the same shift is another story. Working on the checkouts isn't exactly easy to get up and start talking to someone, unless they are the checkout behind or in front. He is such a nice guy and he is so gorgeous! And I want him so much (LOL) and well, I want some tips and tricks to get the hint accross without seeming like an idiot. Please do not mention letters and stuff because that's something you do in school and I am way past school crushes LOL. Also, I was wondering if there is such thing as classes that you can go to to help get over shyness and get conversation tips etc... Thanks =)
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    Sorry if this is in the wrong board so feel free to move it to wherever... Anyway, usually, if someone breaks up with you, it's YOU that wants to make revenge (only if you want), not the other way round, right? (someone breaks up with you, but they take revenge out on you). Anyway, about 2 months ago, I had an old contract mobile phone which I have to my ex boyfriend. At the time, our relationship was pretty sweet and stuff, and I didn't think about getting the contract signed over to his name. Now, the contract is still in my name, and he has run up a £317 phone bill (if you're not from the UK, that is a lot of money if you only earn £200 a month). If he doesn't pay this bill, I will have to pay for it. If I don't pay for it, it'll go to court. Chances are I'd lose and then I get put on the black list and I will never be able to get a loan, mortgage to buy things on Hire Purchase. Thing is, it was my ex that broke up with me, so surely it should be ME that is getting the revenge, not him? Why the hell would he do something like this? Has this happened to anyone else or am I just the only one? Why would he want to take revenge out on me when I didn't even do anything wrong to him? I didn't cheat on him when we were together, I didn't do anything that was wrong and he broke it off with me, so why the hell is he doing revenge? I don't get it...
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    The thing is, I would like to be going out and meeting new people, but for some reason, after being with the new person for so much time, my heart begins to ache, and I start to feel upset. The guy wonders why I am feeling like this and I don't have the heart to say. It feels like my heart is literally stopping me from moving on and healing, if you know what I mean. As much as I would LOVE to move on, something is stopping me and I don't know what it is. I know that I shouldn't be pining for my ex. He is ancient history, but I feel I cannot stop loving him because when we were together, I loved him sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo god damn much that I just couldn't explain it. I've only been with one more guy since Ricky, and well, it lasted nine months, and I thought I really loved him, but thinking about it now, I'm not sure. My heart still aches for Ricky. It's still crying out his name and I just want to see him again for one last time. I need to see him to get over him, but I feel that if I do see him, I will fall even more in love with him and I will never move on... I'm so confused...
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    I met a really nice guy and we get on really well and we have lots of things in common. We can talk about anything and stuff, and it could work out to be the perfect relationship. However, my heart is still aching and pining for my ex boyfriend called Ricky. He's a guy I met about 1 year 4 months ago, and I am still majorly in love with him. It's been ages since me and Ricky have been apart, and I am still NOT ready to get into a new relationship. I've just recently broke up with my ex, Dave and I'm sort of still hurting for him too. I'm torn into two pieces. I really like this this new guy and stuff, but the thing is, I don't think I can be with him. I'm still crazily in love with Ricky even though Ricky is completely out of my life. I should by over it by now, shouldn't I? I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt this new guys feelings by telling him that I am still hurting about Ricky. What can I do?
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    Well, the thought of being with the same sex has always been on my mind...as far as I can remember. I have no problems if I find out that I am. It's just, telling others that sort of bothers me. I mean, my parents aren't exactly over keen on gays/lesbians/bisexuals. I don't know why, but meh... I have no idea why I feel like this. I have had so much trouble from men in the past that I would like to know what it is like to be treated by a person of the same sex. I have kissed a girl before (tongues and everything) and I enjoyed it - a lot more than I have kissed a bloke. My only trouble is meeting people who are also bi (or bi-curious). I don't know where to begin because it's something I wouldn't usually do...
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    OK, I'm 19 years of age, and I have had some terrible relationships with blokes. However, I still look at blokes, but recently, I have been thinking about girls too. You know, I'm sort of wondering what it would be like to be with a girl and not a guy. Anyway, I don't think I am bisexual, but it is crossing my mind every second. Is it even possible to turn from completely straight to bisexual in a matter of hours? I mean, I have a bisexual friend in Australia, and she asked me the question "who would you turn gay for?" and I said that I didn't know, but it has crossed my mind. So, I was wondering...what am I? I'm so confused on my sexuality now... HELP!
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    Well, it might sound odd, but I have to close my eyes and keep them closed until I can picture him in my head. It's quite a fizzy image, but if I think carefully enough, I can remember. I don't know his situation or anything. He came all the way from London to where I live so he doesn't know anyone. Well, he might do now after a year, but how he has met people, not sure because he doesn't go to college. He only works. My brothers girlfriend reckons there is a chance he is still single. I don't know... When I do get his number, I don't know what I am going to say. I am a shy person as it is, and I always think the worst in things. I know I should think positive, but I don't know, I just can't. It would be nice to be friends with him at the very least, but it'd hurt at the same time. I know that because I would like to be WITH him, not with him if you know what I mean. Anyway, as soon as I know whats going on, I'll post it here...
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