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hey , i kinda know what you are gowing through i also cut myself if u ever want to talk or something drop me an e-mail is email removed

hey there thx for clicking , ok so i know her over the internet she is about 3 hours away , i really like her but am soooo shy i've tried to be brave and ask her but the most i said was "i really enjoy talking to you" after that i almost hurled up lunch , so it didnt go to well , so i was wondering would it be a bad idea to ask via e-mail im new in the internet dating scene so any tips on that would also be very apreaciated, thx for reading

ok hello , i'm sorry to hear about your problem , but dont be to down about you must really like this guy to not be yourself around him i'm a very shy person and kinda know what you are going through , i dont really know what to tell you (never been through that kinda situation) but i can tell you that my sis met 2 of her 3 b/f's at her job and 1 of them was a 2 yr relationship they broke up and still worked together , so my point is that quiting your job will only run away from him , which is no good if you want to start something with him , i hope some one replys with better advice , goodluck

ok today i saw a really cute girl that i think lives just up my street , i saw her while i was driving by , now i am very unexpierenced in the dating scene and really shy, im 17 have a car but no license so keep that in mind when giving advice , and i'm here to ask if anybody has any ideas on how to start about this thx a bunch

hey thx for clicking , for those of you who have read my previos post i went for girl 2 and was shot down but i still have girl 1 so my question is any tips on how to ask she is very happy and optimistic person and she very rarly gets down about anything thx Gerard

hey , i started the topic and to anwser AlphaOmega's requests they are both 16 and now for what i like about them... girl 1 - I can always share a lauph with her , cute persanality , attractive , she once asked me if she could have a heart to heart with me , which to me show's that she feels she can trust me and rely on me for support girl 2 - just as attractive (maybe a lil more) , our inside jokes which leads to i can also enjoy lauphs with her to , reads all my writing and supports my ideas and gives me feed back on them ,

ok here it goes , i know 2 girls girl 1 - we have lots in common and is a sweet and optimistic person girl 2 - a little down on her self but good hearted and seems supports me with my writing (a hobby) calls herself my #1 fan im not really down on this prob for the first time in my life i feel confident in asking someone out but i DONT KNOW WHO !!! i've got the bigger crush on girl 2 but girl 1 tells me that im cute (so it sounds like she may not be disgusted to go out with me) if you have any questions on there persanalities go ahead and ask and for those of you who dont could you reply with some sort of info that could help me thx a bunch Gerard

well if this is the first time you've had attention to your privates then its normal , try everyday for a few days to insert your finger and gentally push on all 4 of the walls , doing this will start to spread it and it wont hurt (if im wrong its a bad idea someone plz tell jellybean im very unexpierenced) any way hope it'll help

its me the one who started the topic here , i had a few things i forgot to ask 1 - should i just pour my heart to her ? see if that works 2 - ask if she's ever had a b/f over the internet (and give her other hints) and if i do that i need help i dont know how to hint at her 3 - if she says she doesnt like the idea of having a b/f over then net is there anything i could say to change her mind ? 4 - should i straght out ask if she has a b/f ?

hey thanx for clicking , i met her a few months ago and i just started liking her about 2 weeks ago i new to online sting stuff anyone have advice for me ?

i agree with the above post i absolutly gurantee you there are better guys out there just waiting for you im am 110% sure you may think you love him now but a sweet girl like you knows better then to be with a jerk like that you just dont know you know hope i helped

i think you should experiment with him see if he has any strange fetishes that he may not even know about maybe role playing feet what ever see if he becomes more intrested hope i have helped

ok here is how it works there are no age limits to buy protection such as condoms but the problem is that the cashier has the legal right to not sell you those condoms if they feel that you should not buy them and if they do not allow you to do so , you'll have to wait till that person gets off shift and try another employee good luck

hey , i read ur topic earlier but i was to afraid to write worrying i might say something wrong but no one responded yet so il do my best , there have been many times where i felt just like you do , maybe you are clinically depressed , has something tramatic happened to you ? plz e-mail if you want to chat or get in touch with me email removed

this is very hard and uncomfortable to write about . i went to my cousins wedding in canada (im in america) and there i met this really cute girl at the wedding and we were doing semi amount of flirting my mom walks over and goes "can you believ this is little tara !" i was like "what you mean" she said "last time we saw her she was so small its been like 7-8 years" then it hit me tara (the girl) was my cousin that i only met once when i was 9 or 10 (im 17 now) we both got akward and sorta went our separate ways for the few days i saw her , well she pm'ed me a few days ago and we talked for like 3 hours we have so much in common and i still do have feelings for her (i know how sick it is and its wrong) so my question is does anyone know good ways to get yourself over someone or what i should do ? thx 4 reading

ok listen up man there is a reason she eats alone so be cautios do some research what i mean by that is see if maybe she hates guys or is going through a phase (just to be sure) now the next point SHE IS ALONE !!!! you need to go to her tomorrow ! and do your thing because if she has friends it makes it worst this is literally a golden opperyunity hope i helped

i think you should go fot it ask her to do somthing simple so its not a real serios date (just enouph to let her know your intrested) plus its very obcios when her friends are talking about you and like you (girls are very influenced and pushed by friends) and by talking about you shows that she told them about you (y would she do that IF she didnt like you) anyway hope this helps e-mail me to let me know how it turns out ( email removed )

in my opinion give her a call if they are talking dump him and never look back if he is lying to you then he has something to hide i know you deserve better then a guy who goes behind your back and lies to you hope this helps

i know exactly what you are going through im 17 and the closest thing ive been to with a girls is a hug try using your shyness to tour advantage example "hey im really scared talking to you ... blah blah blah ya know dont try to change who you are or how you act find a girl who thinks its sweet that your nervous talking to her (it may make her feel nice to see that she has that affect on you) any way i hope this makes sense to you and it helps you good bye and goodluck

i think you should go for it , it would ruin your friendship if you 2 let it i had a g/f and we didnt quite work out we sorta stopped talking for about a month and now we are closer then we have ever been hope i helped a lil

i dont feel confortable writing this and ive never done it but maybe he is going to deep maybe thats got something to do with it just a thought

im more just writing this to get it off my chest (i dont have any one i feel confortable opening up 2 thank God for this site) if you want to respond plz go ahead , the story starts when i was in 4th grade i got this huge crush on my best friend she lived to doors down i found out that she liked me and my other really good friend also liked her i was really shy , unexpierenced and scared i didnt do anything and kinda gave my friend the greenlight to go for it ( i know it sounds stupid fourth graders but its true) well i find out later he dosnet like her anymore and of coarse she had moved on i lost my first chance for a girlfriend and my bestfriend well just to torture me she still lives next door and we havnt spoken (since 4th grade) and man o' man o' did she grow up she is absolutly gorgous i see guys go over her house all the time they look like they are 18 - 20 she is like 16 leave her alone i often wonder if things were difernet and i did have the courage to say "i like you to" i bet we would still be together i would have never let her go she is to speacil anyway thx for listening SAMANTHA IM TWO DOORS OVER IF YOU EVER READ THIS I WILL ALWAYS remember YOU PLEASE STOP BY IM SORRY

heartbreak is the most painful drawn out thing ive ever been through now you have 3 choices 1-tell her your feelings (and she is grateful and you 2 start going out) 2-tell her your feelings ( and she rejects you ) 3-you do nothing ( doing this you torture yourself for the rest of your time with regret) the way i see it is options 2 and 3 end with heartbreak but option 1 is the only way out of pain unfortunately love is beutiful but as you can see the odds are against all of us and if you found it then you owe it to yourself and anyone who has love and lost to sieze what they didnt hope i helped

my sis made a list of the type of b/f she would like to date b4 she gets married the list was (if i remember corectly) one night stand fling long term casual maybe if you try to complet the list iw will help , but the most important thing is who you pick to have the fling and one night stand with who you pick will make the world of a diff plz b careful hope i could help

well me and him have been friends since kindergarten but we became bestfriends in 5th grade a year ago he got this new job (im a senior hes a junior we both are in highschool) so he got this new jobI saw him less and less as the months went on now i should add that my junior and this year (senior) ive been homeschooled i got homeschooled for a few reasons but the main was my first love wanted nothing to do with me and i fell into a pit of depression just in time for summer and i got homeschooled so i wouldnt have to see her anymore (but she does live down the street from me so i dont get out much) my friend knows this knows i want a g/f he knows i want friends so a few months ago i find out every monday nite his brother and a bunch of people from his church and other of his bro's friends go bowling , he never even invited me he says he's my bestfriend so wht wont he invite me , i want to meet new people he knows that i asked why he wont invite me he never answered (do you yhink he's embaressed by me ?)so later we were talking (he goes to a youth group at his chrch and he tells me all about his friends and how much fun it is) ive always been kinda an athiast but the last months im beleiving in God so going to his church is the best idea meet new kids my age and go to church so i asked if sometime i could go he said yes later in the conversation we were taljking about how they should open a coffee shop by where we live and we could go and hangout well a few days later he tells me that his youth group center is openeing a coffee shop for the teenagers to hang out friday nites (perfect fit right!!) well a few weeks go by its friday he calls home to say he's ready to go i asked where are you going ? he said the coffee shop opened and he was going i was like "oh that'll be fun" he said "yeah i cant wait" as his mom pulled up to my house he was like c-ya and i was alittle hurt , am i being selfish or like a baby or is this seriosly mest up ? i tell him how lonly i am anyway plz let me know what you think