The Kex

wassup....im 16 and i need ar romantic sweet and best way i can ask out this girl ......the girl and i have a long story between us which i didnt want to bore the readers with......so basically we flirted for two years(i couldnt do nothin for two years cuz she had a man) and recently we are juss messin but its like we are practically goin out.now on halloween i asked why we shouldnt go out cuz its like we are together ne way and she responded by sayin that she was gonna feel bad that she is with me but still kinda thinkin about her ex( the boyfriend she was with for like 1 year and 3 months) and then she sed fine she'll go out with me but if she felt bad that it was gonna be over but we were still gonna mess. and i sed no cuz i thought it was a bad idea. but now i dont care i juss want to be with her and i need advice on a romantic way of askin her out. we are goin on a date on tuesday. thanks, the kex

here goes....i went up to a girl and ask for her name and then told her mine....now heres where i made a fool of myself......my head went blank and i couldnt think of ne thin else to say to her......i use to kno wat to do after i asked her name.....its been a while since i went up and asked a girl out because i had no time(school, family, etc.).....i ask for help in refreshin my mind.......wat do i say to any girl after i get her name and i tell her my name??.....man i was so embarrassed....thanks for helping. thanks Kex

waddup, im 16 and i had my share of girlfriends but i never got them for myself. i was eitehr hooked up or i was a friend first. now theres this girl in my lunch period(i have an early lunch period) i want to go and talk to her but i dont know how to approach her. she sits by herself and i was juss thinkin goin up there and sayin "i saw u sittin by urself" and then askin for her name but after thinkin about it i feel thats a weak approach.can n e one help give me a stronger approach?? thanks Kex

i would suggest not to ask the girl out by IMing her. i have lots of friends that are girls and they always tell me they like a guy to ask them out in person because they like guys who are confident. from experience, i know now not to ask a girl out this way beacuse in my ratin im 0 for 3 but when i ask a girl out in person im 3 for 5. so its really up to u im juss sharin my opinion good luck.

i would suggest not to ask the girl out by IMing her. i have lots of friends that are girls and they always tell me the y like a guy to ask them out in person because they like guys who are confident. from experience, i know now not to ask a girl out this way beacuse in my ratin im 0 for 3 but when i ask a girl out in person im 3 for 5. so its really up to u im juss sharin my opinion good luck.

i am 16 years old a guy and last night i went to my friends sweet 16. now heres the story i met this girl(lets call 1) about one year ago i dont talk to her much and dont see her muchjuss on special occasions cuz we have the same friends now last night i went to the party thinking there was going to be alot of girls but ended up being 6 available girls. so i decided to chill wif #1 the whole night. later on the night she tapped her lips like she was askin for a kiss so i gave her a little peck. we started to talk and wen we started talkin she started lookin at me like she wanted a kiss. but i dont kiss girls that im not goin out with. so later onshe wanted to dance but i didnt and she got upset with me. so wen i went away for a second she started to flirt with my friend. people thought we was goin out i have to admit it felt nice to hear it but heres the problem her bestfriend told me #1 is a big flirt and i like a girl to myself. so how do i know wat she did with me last night she doesnt do with other guys. should i or shouldnt i ask her out and give it a chance?? any help would be welcomed. thanks

im 16 and im goin to a party tomorow and my friend invited lots of girls and my other friend and i are makin a bet that one of us can get more numbers than the other can. so i was juss wonderin wat a good pick up line is. usually i would juss go up to a girl and say hey ma, wats ur name?(get the name), then give my name then say can i get ur number so i can call u sometime tomrow so i can get to kno u and possibly take u out sometime? then i usually get it but this time since im gettin more than one number i want to try to use other pick up lines to other girls. so n e tips will help. i know bettin for girls is wrong but its for fun im usually not like this thanks....p.s. if u wonderin what we bettin for we bettin big cash.

here's the thing......my best friend i've known for 3 years and goin 4.....now i already asked her out twice and she said no both times because of friendship......i wanna kno if thats the truth but if it is.....i understand that my friendship is important.....but i am kinda ready to risk it....im suppose to go watch a movie next friday and i want to kiss her....i kno how to make out but the thing is should i or shouldnt i without her knowin......i was thinkin about pulling her to the side from the group and juss tell her i love u and go for it......so any advice would be nice.... thanks

different guys have different attraction towards girls. some like wild girls, and some like more quiet girl. other guys look for commitment and some guys look for on night stands and stuff. so i guess wat im tryin to say is people are different in wat they want so there is no real answer. i personally like girls that are cute, nice personality, someone im not afraid to show my mom, healthy as in not too skinny and not to fat, and i absolutely hate girls that smoke(nothing against them). hope ihelp and if didnt sorry.

aight.....heres the story, i knew my best friend for like 7 years now and and i know his family real well....i even consider his mom my mom(dont get me wrong i love my mom) and we also do everything together. heres the problem he has a younger sister that im startin to like. i have a feelin that she likes me and had a crush on me for a while. i got to admit that we kinda flirt and fool around. now im 16 and she is 13....kinda too young for me but still she is an exception. so what im wonderin is should i go wif her and not tell or go wif her and not tell her family or juss not tell at all.

i have recently told my best friend that i still had feelings her(i asked her out before and she said no).well i really didnt tell her, she kinda found out or watever. now heres where im confused, two weeks ago i talked with her and been with her practically everyday now after she found out she's either ignoring me or she juss really really busy. so im confused on if i "scared" her away or its just nothing and will pass. another thing is should i go and talk with her about how i feel. and if so, should i do it on the phone, in person or online??o yea... she is leaving for ecuador on the 11th so i need help fast. thanks.

i posted about this girl i like and this is my thrid time.here is wats goin on now. her best friend and my best friend found out for me that the girl thinks of me as really good friend and dont want to break that. the funny thing is before i asked my best friend for a favor to find out what the girl thinks of me, she told me they were talkin about this subject in the morning. now back to the situation i understand how she feels but heres the problem everyone of my friends said to tell her how i feel. if i did, i would ask her to talk and then say "im here to tell you i still have feelings for u.had feelings for you since the day i met you till the day we separate. im not here tryin to ask u out because i have a feeling on what you gonna say and im tired of hearing this(i've been rejected 6 times before with the same excuses. must have beatin the record.xP) i feel that we could be more than friends and know that we could be the best couple we both ever had. but i understand that it takes two for a relationship to work. and for those two to make a decision 50/50. im always there halfway for us but i also understand that you aint gonna be on the other side. im always gonna be halfway there. so i guess wat im tryin to say is i love you." good or bad?? u think i should or shoudlnt?? need help please.

i already posted up about this story. link removed now wen i was about to tell her how i feel and stuff. she said she needed to talk to me and she told me she was interested with another ex boyfriend with her. he was good to her and stuff but now she doesnt know what to do and comes to me for help. in a selfish way i dont want to help cuz i want her for myself but in the other hand like i said on the other post i rather see her happy than hurt. i was thinkin of gettin her best friend(she is a close friend of mine too) to find out how she really feels about me if she thinks im her brother type friend or otherwise.i need advise

thanks monkey i agree with u and i understand taotally of wat ur sayin. but i feel everything is goin so good and i feel its right that i need more replies to convinve me not to. im takin ur idea into consideration though so thanks.

I knew my bestfriend for 3 years. i knew how i felt for her since that day. the thing is she always comes to me for advice about different guys. it hurts me to answer her back but i rather see her happy than get hurt. in september of last year is when we had our first big fight but to me it juss made me have more feelings for her i also found out she had liked me but at that time i was involved. so early january i finally asked her to be my girl and she turned me down sayin im too good of a friend and she scared of breakin the friendship. i tried for months to forget about the fact to ask her out but juss 2 days ago i saw her and we talked andwe were cuddling but wen i went to kiss her cheeks she moved. but cuz of that day my feelings came back and now im wanting for her to be my girl more than ever. what or how should i ask her to be my girl.