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    I would rent Just Married...it's really a great movie trust me!
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    I say go for it! If you don't try it you may regret it later...right? Why miss out on a great relationship just b/c of a little distance. My bf of just a few days (LOL) is 2 hours away. I trust him b/c he really cares about me and vice versa. If you two have real feelings for each other it will work out! Have fun and enjoy...don't worry about others trying to put fear in your mind.
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    I think there are basic right and wrongs that we all should follow. I, personally, am talking about biblical morals such as you shouldn't kill, lie, steal, cheat, etc. As I said, different situations have to be looked at....differently. It ALL depends on the past and present on how to solve a problem. Sometimes we also pick the wrong solutions but that's what life is about...learning!
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    I think we should include our personal beliefs and emotions to an extent. We could give advice by thinking with our minds and not our hearts by seriously considering the types of situations. I do think that having some emotions in your advice helps though...maybe by sharing an experience similar to the one the author has. You have to go by what's right and wrong...the morals that we've followed for so many years. We should give our opinions on what SHOULD be done but not necessarily what we ourselves would do or have done.
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    Having a friendship with your parents can make things a lot easier. You have to hang out with them sometimes and have a friend to friend relationship not a parent to daughter relationship. Go shopping together, watch movies...it'll be easier to talk about your problems with them if you feel you have a connection with them. It's just like any other person but they're related to you. My mom knows almost everything about me and we're best of friends. I love having that kind of relationship with her. I've found that I can confide in her much easier after becoming friends. If you get closer to your parents and get to know them it will be a lot easier to talk about the hard issues.
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    Hi paleoman, This situation you're in sounds terrible. This girl seems to be playing with your emotions and it isn't right. You need to tell her that you can't kiss her or have any physicaly relations if she isn't serious about the two of you. She's using you...even a real friend wouldn't do this sort of thing. I would just back off from her. Hang out with her but don't let it go any farther than that. She needs to figure out what she wants. Also, if you're fighting this much with her, how would a relationship be good right now? You both need to re-establish a foundation for a friendship. Hope I helped, good luck!
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    Hey JessieK05, If you're in a relationship where you have to worry so much about what you say and do then is it really worth it? You shouldn't have to have the thought "What if he breaks up with me?" running through your head all of the time. Having to deal with all of those emotions is too much unnecessary pain and torture to your heart and mind. Be yourself around him and if he doesn't like it and breaks up...it's his loss! You shouldn't have to change who you are and act differently around someone who cares about you!
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    Hello inahaze, This guy sounds like a gentlemen but many guys who SEEM like one usually aren't. Many play games and fool with women's hearts by being sweet and polite just to get somewhere with them. From what I understand though, he isn't doing that. This is kind of an akward situation you have here. He doesn't seem that interested and if I were you I'd just let him live his life and get on with mine. Don't waste your time on him...you can find someone much better.
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    Hey there BlueCoconut! Maybe you've grown to liking this girl more being farther away b/c of the old saying "absense makes the heart grow fonder." It's hard to have any relationship...whether it's a family member, a friend, or a partner/bf/gf... that is long distant. Don't give up hope b/c she may like you...there's always a chance. Sometimes packing does take all day I've packed very many times in my life. Remember, she's a girl she may pack a lot more things for vacation than you would. Just ask her once politely if you can just come by for a little while tomorrow when she takes a break from packing. She HAS to take a break at some point. Calm down about the situation b/c everything will work out the way it's supposed to in the end. Good luck!
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    I agree with S.A.M. on this one...don't push your feelings on her. It's great to be open with your friends. I'd tell her only when it felt right though...make sure she hasn't talked about her bf or has been around him that day. If she asks you if you're trying to get in between her and her bf tell her that you honestly care about her and just wanted to be open since she's your friend. You never know, maybe she likes you more than her bf...or maybe she'll remember your openess in the future!
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    us females have the better half at sex when it comes to orgasms but both male and female bodies give and take in that department. It's uncomfortable for most girls their first time and we often get sore even after having sex for the first time. A guy however rarely has these problems...they sometimes can have discomfort though. Also, girls have to deal with menstruation and the pain of labor if they become pregnant. So as much as you think that guys have the bad end of the bargain...it gives and takes.
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    hey that turned out great! See, you never know what'll happen until you try!
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    I understand that...I'm a big flirt and sometimes ppl think I'm trashy but my friends know I'm not. I'm just trying to have some fun like i think any girl our age wants to!
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    they're just jealous girl...don't take it seriously. Girls have done that to me before and they didn't know me...they ended up apologizing after b/c the realized I wasn't. It doesn't matter what they think of you anyways...it's what you think about yourself. You know you're not a slut and so do your real friends. That's all that matters!
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    I do talk dirty in and out of bed a lot. I always have with men. I was just wondering if any guys had certain things done to them in bed by their girls that they thought was unique.
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    it's human nature to want more than one person...guys always want what they can't have and if they have what they wanted they always want something else. I find a lot of girls are like that too now. It's sad that we lower ourselves and degrade ourselves like this. I don't understand why anyone would be unfaithful.
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    I don't think that you're too young to fall in love. I fell in love with a guy who I dated for 3 years when I was 14. I still do love him (and vice versa)and we're still very good friends. As for your view on sex it will probably change for a while since you're young. I'm 3 years older than you and my view on sex still changes. Just do what you feel is right for you and your future. Don't let anyone else's decisions sway your opinions on anything.
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    I think it does make a relationship better only when the relationship is already really great. If you two aren't doing so well as in hardly talking, seeing each other, etc. I wouldn't reccommend doing it. It made my relationship worse and we rarely spoke to each other or saw each other in the end. The last time I saw him before we broke up was in his bed if ya know what I mean...that's a terrible way to break up I think.
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    Thank God you realized that this guy is a jerk! I agree, get rid of him! When it comes to liking guy friends that are somehow involved with your girl friends the situation is never good. I wouldn't recommend going after a guy your friend just broke up with even if she said it was ok. NEVER fall for that b/c she's not ok with it! Second, the other guy is fair game isn't he? it's not like he and this other friend of yours are hooked up yet...go for it girl. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he's mixed up about you and your other friend...help him make up his mind.
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    I know a few girls who don't care to talk too much on the phone. She has to like you if she said yes to a date, right? I know I wouldn't go out on a date with a guy unless I liked them. Maybe she'll talk more in person on your date. Try and ask her about her interests, family, future plans,etc. She may just be shy as well.
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    Hey if any guys will give me some tips I'd be so thrilled! I was just wondering what kinds of things drive you men wild in bed? I've been active for about 2 years now and am currently "fooling around" with my ex...I've tried many things but I'd like to know what'll get guys to cum in an instant. What drives you wild? I want to show my ex what he's going to be missing out on if he chooses another girl over me.
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    something is definitely VERY WRONG with all these things you've mentioned that you've found. Something is going on sweetie, I'm sorry to say...you need to find out soon somehow or get rid of this guy no matter how much he says he loves you. If your feelings for him are strong it will be hard to do but he's not worth it! If your man really loved you he would be satisfied with you. Now, finding porn in his room...almost all men love porn even if they deny it...that is understandable. But this sneaky behavior he has is VERY BAD. The only thing I can make of it is that he's being unfaithful to you.
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    it sounds to me like this girl just doesn't enjoy sex. I'm the complete opposite of her lol. Maybe she just isn't mature enough to have sex??? I don't quite understand how she thinks b/c it seems to me having sex with her wouldn't be worth it. Good idea to get a friend with benefits but don't get a mistress...it just causes problems...trust me b/c I'm my ex's mistress lol.
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    I'm sorry to hear about your brother. I think maybe your girlfriend is trying to figure out what she wants. Maybe you're feeling more than she is or moving too fast. She has to figure this one out on her own...it may just be a simple thing such as attraction or maybe she has a personal problem. Just don't worry about it too much...stay friends and show that you still care. I think that may be all you can do for now.
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    an orgasm is the climax of sex...the peak...the highest point of pleasure. If you need any more info on orgasms just ask! (edit, added from second post) Well for starters here are some questions for you...how old are you first off? What type of sexual experiences are you having? How are you penetrating her (fingers, toys, other "things")
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