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My girlfriend still loves me but promised her mom she...
Smokeycat replied to cands41803's topic in Getting Back Together
maybe you should just call her house and talk to her mom. Tell her that you really care for her daughter and that you're willing to adjust your behavior in order to be with her. Maybe just try to hang out with her at her house with her mom around and show her that you're not going to do anything to upset her again. Anyways, you're not going out with her mom...you're going out with her...does she care about what you were doing??? This situation does depend on how old you are too...so if you're both young you may have no choice but to listen and obey her mom. -
I think it's obvious that this girl likes you. Her mom obviously thinks you're a sweet guy if she wants you to come see her daughter who isn't allowed to date yet. I'm sure this girl has told her mom about you and maybe that she likes you...so maybe her mom is trying to help her out a little bit until she can date. Who knows...just keep up with the friendship. Things may work out for you. Good luck!
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I know it's hard to have a long distance relationship b/c I've had one. But doesn't absense make the heart grow fonder? It was hard but I loved the guy even more when I saw him. I guess I'll just see what happens but thank you for the advice!
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Give her a little time and just be by her side. Don't push her. Maybe you two could hang out...go on a simple date...even if it's with other friends. Her trust in guys has been broken and it's very hard to get it back. She just needs to see who you are. So just be yourself and hang out with her. Call her every chance you get so she knows your interested. It's a tough situation but it'll work out if it's meant to be.
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He may be shy and may not know what to talk about. Guys get like that around girls they really care about and like. Try to get him to talk about your common interests or talk about things happening in your lives. Just try and get him out of his shell. Be yourself and talk girl...guys usually can't start conversations as easily as girls can...we have a lot more to blab about lol. He'll come around...don't worry.
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After I broke up with my bf I missed him a lot. I kinda ran after him too much and I think it drove him away a bit. Now he's dating another girl and I know he still loves me. But I do know now that we both need to move on. Even though we love each other it doesn't mean that we're meant to be together. We're friends though and hopefully we'll stay friends.
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I understand your situation. I have a problem with thinking guys don't like me sometimes. I know I'm pretty enough and I have a good body...I'm not fat or ugly or anything...not that physical traits should matter. Sometimes I do feel insecure about my looks as any teenage girl may and I sometimes try and make people want me and end up coming off as trashy. I've been able to stop this now b/c I have more confidence. I know I'm a good person with a good heart and I'm worth more. You are too. You're not a loser...chances are there are people who know you who wish they were more like you. Just be yourself and enjoy life. Your true friends will love you no matter what.
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This past month has been a very emotional soap opera for me. I've broken up with my bf, dated a guy and broke up with him, started talkin to my ex again who has a new gf now, have been hit on by some guys who I thought were my friends but they only wanted one thing,and made(actually he made the move) my ex cheat on his new gf...now I've found an awesome guy but in a chat room. He lives near me...about a 2 hour drive. He will be a freshman college and I will be a Senior in High School. We're the same age and have a lot in common. I've been talking to him for about 2 weeks now online and on the phone. The more I talk to him the more feelings I have and vice versa. My heart pounds in my chest so hard when I'm talking to him and I'm beginning to fall in love with him. I think he is as well. We are able to see each other on the weekends but we're so far apart. What if I meet someone during the school year? Should I let myself get so involved with him? I'm confused. HELP!
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Don't worry about the future...if you have something great now enjoy it. If you may never see her again...try your best not to think about it till it comes. Just have fun and don't worry about tomorrow. When you're with her just live that moment and soak it up into your mind. If you two do find true love it will last no matter where she goes or what she does. If it doesn't work out you will find someone again. Take my advice b/c I've been there. Someone special is out there for you even if it may not be her. But just enjoy her while you're together.
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the last to users were right....You're 19! Why not just meet him with a bunch of your friends with you and vice versa? it's safe...wouldn't your mom go for that? Fall is coming soon anways so meet him at school. Obeying your mom is great and I respect that...but sometimes parents are too overprotectant and don't understand. You're not too far from 21...what are they gonna do when you're fully an adult?! I'm only 17...I respect my parents but they don't completely control my life. Shoot the idea of friends being with you for the first meeting to your mom...if she still says no...wait a while then do it anyways.
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I agree with the dating services online and that the people who use them don't have much self respect. But I found love in a chat room. This guy lives about 2 hours away from me, his brother (who's house he can stay at to visit me) is only 30 min away from where I live. I can call him on a cell phone and we write each other everyday through e-mail and on msn messenger. I meet him on weekends since he's a college freshman and stays in his dorm during the week. We're the same age, have many things in common, and connect with each other very well. It may just be b/c I'm on the rebound after a serious relationship but I think I'm falling in love with him. So...to an extenet...online dating is very ignorant. But if you're lucky you may find someone who can change your life and bring you total happiness.
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it sounds like he may tell you that he cheated...and if you can work through it do so. Don't let him get away with it so easily. Make him work to regain your trust if he did cheat. If he really loves you he will try his best to make it up to you. Not by presents or anything but just try to re-establish your foundation in the relationship. Just talk and hang out like you normally would and don't let it sit on your mind b/c you'll always be thinking he's doing something behind your back. Most likely...he's being faithful. You can get through this if you love each other. Love conquers all.
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I may go out with them but it probably wouldn't last long. If I wanted to have an actual relationship...everything has to be there. If I can't even kiss the dude...he's outa here.
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I understand your situation completely and have just recently broken up with my bf. He is now with another girl and it really hurt me very much because of the 4 years we've been friends and the 3 years we went out. But as in the same situation you are in basically, I have to follow my mind now and not my heart. You need to move on b/c he's not worthy of you if he keeps doing these things. I know how it's hard b/c you feel like you're addicted to him and that you can't break the "spell". But you can if you try. You made a promise not only to your friends not to get back with him...but whether you realized it or not...you also made that promise to yourself. Don't worry if you feel lonely afterwards b/c love will come back sooner than you think. If it happened to me it can surely happen to you. Don't let him play you...be strong!